• Plattsmouth
• Nebraska
• United States

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Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

Well...trying this again! Just a nice girl looking for a nice guy! I'm a mom first...three kids with only one at home yet. I love spending time with family and friends...definitely not a sit-in-the- bar-every-night kinda girl! I do enjoy having a few beers with friends once in a while, especially sitting around a bonfire with some music on! I'm looking for my best friend...very cliche, I know, but what could be better? :)...someone who enjoys kids and family time, someone I can't wait to get home to, someone to grow old with ! I love to laugh and have fun and think it's important in a relationship! Of course all the usual stuff is important too :)...honesty, kindness, loyalty, compatibility, attraction... Let's just take it day by day and see where it goes! It could be a beautiful thing!!! Something casual and comfortable!

• Plattsmouth
• Nebraska
• United States

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Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

.... "mine would be you."Hello... ** Update: as of ***~ I have been smoke free for 10 days! Yay me!!Probably my biggest caveat is that I am somewhat shy, to start with. I can be a little on the quiet side until I have a sense of who I am dealing with. lol. If that would bother you, then I'm probably not worth your time. It is part of who I am and not likely to change anytime soon. However, with that said, if you don't really take the time to get to know a person, and allow them to reveal their "layers" to you, then you will have no true idea what treasures lie beneath the surface!... btw, quiet does not mean not fun!!Here are my top reasons I would be your best "girlfriend" ever:~ You will be proud to have me on your arm when we go out in public. I am no fashion-model and never will be, but I still take pride in how I look. No sweatpants and slippers going out in public… unless it’s 11 o’clock at night and I’m going to Walmart by myself, where I’d blend in anyway. =P~ You will be proud of me on the home front. I enjoy helping you with projects around the house and yard, and don’t mind getting sweaty and dirty. It all comes off in the shower anyway, so I can pretty myself up again. ~ I desire to support you in your dreams and goals. ~ I will be respectful and supportive of "you" time.~ I will do my best not to nag and complain… try to keep small stuff, small stuff. ~ I will do my best to never roll my eyes at you, because I will respect you and your feelings and opinions. Maybe not agree, but respect. ~ You can trust that I will be honest with you. Always. ~ Our personal life is just that, personal. I won't be sharing every detail with my girlfriends. ...except the amazing things about you, of course!~ You will see my smile much more than my frown. =D Yes, I have my days, but life is meant to be happy and fun. Just don't be my reason to not smile. ~ I am the primary source of my own happiness. Sure, I want that giddy happiness that comes from falling and being in love. Why wouldn’t I want someone who “makes” me happy and affirms that to me?? But in the end, I am more responsible for my own happiness than you are. You are just a bonus… icing on the cake. ~ You will be nicely surprised when I kiss you passionately at unexpected times and in unexpected places. ~ If I commit my heart to you and yours to mine, you will never have to guess how I feel. When we have made that commitment, I will make it a priority to show you, not just tell you or expect you to know. You will rarely hear the words, “I’m not in the mood.” =) Nuf said.~ The top reason: I want to share my heart and soul with the "one" I love!I am adding the "disclaimer" that I am a work in progress. I am not perfect... just like you are not. I have my insecurities and vulnerabilities the same as anyone else, and ask that you be the type who can be accepting of them and loving someone UNCONDITIONALLY. ...And not have some silly, preconceived notion that a couple should be able to communicate without ever having disagreement or seeing totally eye to eye, etc.; or have a "cookie cutter" outlook on what the ideal person should be like! I get that we have our "expectations" or "requirements" that we are looking for, but you have to be somewhat open to seeing who a person is and where they are "at." Love means accepting someone where they are and being willing to work on and talk about the things you disagree about. You may possibly come to see things my way and vice versa... or maybe not! But if that person loves you anyway, and is willing to move heaven and earth to be with you and make things work... that's what matters!! I have taken a huge self-assessment of the things I could have done better in my marriage and in my personal life and have done my best to improve myself and what I can bring to a relationship. And I continue... one step at a time; putting one foot in front of the other... moving into the future, leaving the past where it belongs, behind me. Please be ready to leave your past behind you, too! I may not be all dazzle and sparkle, but I AM bright, I am real and I am me: A loving and caring woman who wants to give her best for you and to you and love YOU unconditionally... and desire to let you know "there is no one better out there for me!"A woman will go hard for a man she cares about ...But even harder for a man she knows cares about her ...Pow!! And she drops the mic!!!Thank you for stopping by... Wishing YOU an amazing day! =) Open for discussion, but I really like a guy to take the lead in that... tells a bit more about you in seeing what you come up with; how you "take charge."

• Plattsmouth
• Nebraska
• United States

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Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

I don't want anything inappropriate. I work as a professional. I don't do drugs or smoke and don't want anyone that does. If you don't have your priorities straight and know what is important in life, please leave me alone. I believe that God, family, and friends, are more important than work. I'm honest and hard working and expect the same in return.I believe that being healthy means eating right, exercising and practicing healthy habits. I don't expect the men I date to be body builders, just be healthy. Mental health is also important to me. It all boils down to loving and taking care of yourself so that you can be a good partner!My family is very diverse. I have relatives from many different ethnicities and many different Christian back grounds. I'm used to being around people who don't follow the crowds and march to a beat of their own. My kids are all grown up. One lives out of state. The other two are back at home temporarily trying to save up money, times are tough! I like Christian rock, classic rock, country, jazz, and just about anything live. I am open to people who are non traditional but, okay with traditional, if that's what you prefer. I'm easy to get along with and very flexible as long as I'm not being taken advantage of.Sorry, I've had to add this because of some very rude pushy and scary men on this site......Please do not contact me if you are looking for a date this weekend. Please, give it some time! Anyone interested should be patient enough to have an online conversation over a period of weeks if that's what it takes. I will meet you for coffee if you have good communication skills. I don't get along well with pushy people who want what they want, and want it now! I work a lot, weekends included, and have many responsibilities and can't afford to give up my time unless you are serious about you want. I'm not here to play games. I'm here to find my soul mate! Just meet for coffee at the mall or hike around town/beach.