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Claudette, 47

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.... "mine would be you."Hello... ** Update: as of ***~ I have been smoke free for 10 days! Yay me!!Probably my biggest caveat is that I am somewhat shy, to start with. I can be a little on the quiet side until I have a sense of who I am dealing with. lol. If that would bother you, then I'm probably not worth your time. It is part of who I am and not likely to change anytime soon. However, with that said, if you don't really take the time to get to know a person, and allow them to reveal their "layers" to you, then you will have no true idea what treasures lie beneath the surface!... btw, quiet does not mean not fun!!Here are my top reasons I would be your best "girlfriend" ever:~ You will be proud to have me on your arm when we go out in public. I am no fashion-model and never will be, but I still take pride in how I look. No sweatpants and slippers going out in public… unless it’s 11 o’clock at night and I’m going to Walmart by myself, where I’d blend in anyway. =P~ You will be proud of me on the home front. I enjoy helping you with projects around the house and yard, and don’t mind getting sweaty and dirty. It all comes off in the shower anyway, so I can pretty myself up again. ~ I desire to support you in your dreams and goals. ~ I will be respectful and supportive of "you" time.~ I will do my best not to nag and complain… try to keep small stuff, small stuff. ~ I will do my best to never roll my eyes at you, because I will respect you and your feelings and opinions. Maybe not agree, but respect. ~ You can trust that I will be honest with you. Always. ~ Our personal life is just that, personal. I won't be sharing every detail with my girlfriends. ...except the amazing things about you, of course!~ You will see my smile much more than my frown. =D Yes, I have my days, but life is meant to be happy and fun. Just don't be my reason to not smile. ~ I am the primary source of my own happiness. Sure, I want that giddy happiness that comes from falling and being in love. Why wouldn’t I want someone who “makes” me happy and affirms that to me?? But in the end, I am more responsible for my own happiness than you are. You are just a bonus… icing on the cake. ~ You will be nicely surprised when I kiss you passionately at unexpected times and in unexpected places. ~ If I commit my heart to you and yours to mine, you will never have to guess how I feel. When we have made that commitment, I will make it a priority to show you, not just tell you or expect you to know. You will rarely hear the words, “I’m not in the mood.” =) Nuf said.~ The top reason: I want to share my heart and soul with the "one" I love!I am adding the "disclaimer" that I am a work in progress. I am not perfect... just like you are not. I have my insecurities and vulnerabilities the same as anyone else, and ask that you be the type who can be accepting of them and loving someone UNCONDITIONALLY. ...And not have some silly, preconceived notion that a couple should be able to communicate without ever having disagreement or seeing totally eye to eye, etc.; or have a "cookie cutter" outlook on what the ideal person should be like! I get that we have our "expectations" or "requirements" that we are looking for, but you have to be somewhat open to seeing who a person is and where they are "at." Love means accepting someone where they are and being willing to work on and talk about the things you disagree about. You may possibly come to see things my way and vice versa... or maybe not! But if that person loves you anyway, and is willing to move heaven and earth to be with you and make things work... that's what matters!! I have taken a huge self-assessment of the things I could have done better in my marriage and in my personal life and have done my best to improve myself and what I can bring to a relationship. And I continue... one step at a time; putting one foot in front of the other... moving into the future, leaving the past where it belongs, behind me. Please be ready to leave your past behind you, too! I may not be all dazzle and sparkle, but I AM bright, I am real and I am me: A loving and caring woman who wants to give her best for you and to you and love YOU unconditionally... and desire to let you know "there is no one better out there for me!"A woman will go hard for a man she cares about ...But even harder for a man she knows cares about her ...Pow!! And she drops the mic!!!Thank you for stopping by... Wishing YOU an amazing day! =) Open for discussion, but I really like a guy to take the lead in that... tells a bit more about you in seeing what you come up with; how you "take charge."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Keren-Happuch

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    What you read here is from my heart and I write with the truth. I say that cuz I have met some men that were not about what they wrote and or they either posted a photo shopped photo and or a old photo or one of their much younger brother? Lol. I feel its not how old you are, it's how young your heart and mind feels,that you take care of yourself and having a young soul by letting that kid at heart come out at times but also act mature at times. I believe in the truth so please post a real and recent picture of yourself it's the right thing to do for everyone involved. No matter who or what we look like we all deserve love.. Yes I know that everyone has a type and the heart wants what it wants. My type is a man that has an edge, tall, wears a nice pants of levis or what ever jeans you feel that make you look good. I'm looking for a man who has a big caring, understanding and honest heart. He needs to have a real and kind soul. Were all special in our own way no matter what your type is or who you are. Please have a photo that's recent, if you don't have one and you really want to find the one for you and not play games get a camera and say cheese. Lol. It's inportant because for me I need to feel an attraction towards a man and I'll never know if I have an attraction if I can't see the real you? Once we both established an attraction then we can see if there's chemistry and connection between the two of us? I know that online dating is trial and error and I don't expect to meet Mr Right or feel them sparks with the first guy I meet. Some people say that I'm picky.But I don't think it's being picky, I know what I want, like and how I want to feel. I also need to have a very good and open communication with another. I'm not in any way saying that I'm looking or want a perfect man just the perfect man that fits my needs. What makes a persons character is not what you do from 9 am to 5 pm, It's what you do from 5 pm to 9 am what counts and tells others what kind of person you are. I am a honest, loyal, down to earth lady who knows what I want in my life. I very much believe in Love and Trust. I take very good care of myself and take pride in the way I look. I love to laugh, joke around though warn you I have a great poker face. Lol. I can have fun doing most anything but like everyone that does depend on the company I'm with at the time. I am a lady who can be your best friend I would never turn my back on you. Unless you were to hurt me in any way on purpose.. That means to hurt another with intent.Feeling them butterflies swimming in my stomach is the best way I can describe a wonderful connection. Having a good communication by being able to tell each other anything without being judged and being interested in what the other is either doing or just by saying " so how was your day today " is the connection and how I want to feel everday with that one person. Taken your time getting to know one another is well worth it and is so very important to me. After a while of exchanging messages, *** texting for days I feel we should talk via telephone. Plus life is too short to play head games. If you really are serious about getting to know me or anyone? Ask if it's okay we speak via telephone? That tells me if your serious or not.Yes this is online dating but it does not have to stay online if we both feel it then exchange numbers talk get to know each other a little and then make plans to meet. It's not a committment. We all take a risk on here and sometimes you will never both feel the same once you meet the person But you'Il never know if you don't give it a chance. I will not play head games. That's something I'm not into and will not tolerate. Thanks for taking the time to read this. Have questions?Ask me...Best of luck to you all!!! FIRST DATE? Just them words are pressure. Your meeting someone online for the 1st time? So Save the first date till after you physically meet one another and see that you have that attraction, chemistry and a connection between the 2 of you. Meet have a cup of coffee. Then if you both agree that you want to see one another again? Then make your first date. If you have that awkward silience that just does not leave and you feel that there is no connection you should both call it a nite why try to force your heart to feel an attraction thats just not there? Online dating is trial and error. I do believe In romance. If you don't believe in it, then why even be on here? Well maybe I should not say that cuz their are people looking for one thing and that has nothing to do with making someone happy for more then 1 day. If that's you and you just read this all? Sorry to have waisted your time cuz you have the wrong girl!!! I have to add this cuz I've received messages from men who say " do you know you have a wedding ring on in one of your pictures? " it's on my right hand not the left. Lol. ///\\***Plz***\\\***Put This***On Your***account,If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\---or fighting it now, or has ever fought it & won. Thank u.

  • Jaynie

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am one of nine children, so family is especially important to me. I own my own business and have dedicated a great deal of my time and energy towards that and raising my two beautiful daughters. Now that they are married and raising families of their own, I am ready to slow it down and start living a little more for ME.I love to take long drives with no particular destination in mind, spending time at the beach, or just sitting on my porch, bbq grilling, music playing and watching the sun set. I enjoy most music (well except RAP!) and would like to start dancing again. It has been a long time and I seem to have two left feet these days so I will need to find someone that would like to teach me. I LOVE FOOTBALL! You will find me either at the game or hanging out with friends and family watching every chance I get. So there will not be any fighting over the remote unless you are rooting for the wrong team!! LOLWhat am I looking for? Hmmmm....I am looking for my best friend. Someone that will be there for me as well as I for him. Someone that I can tell my deepest secrets too. A strong hand to hold and a welcome shoulder to lay my head on. There is one main criteria he must have:He MUST be taller than me!!! I am 5'10 and in heals at least 6'. Therefore, if your only 5'***'11, Im sorry it just wont work! If you would like to learn more send me a message.Looking forward to getting to know you! A quiet venue where we can get to know each other.

  • Vega

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm a small town girl with pretty simple dreams and desires. I work long hours and I've been single for quite awhile. I really miss having someone to talk with, laugh with, and share things with. I enjoy casual activities where I can be myself. I still hunt easter eggs with my grandchildren, ride rollercoasters, and occasionally play in the rain. I used to love spending time at the river and such as that, but it's been a very long time since I've had the opportunity. I wouldn't mind trying the zip-lining thing...looks like a rush.I enjoy gardening, photography, anything involving nature, and animals. I rescue animals so I always have several around. You don't have to be involved with them, but it would help if you like animals. The sounds of nature are like music to my soul. The wind, birds singing, a running stream, sounds of rain on the roof. There is a peace in that, something I have never found anywhere else. Flea markets, yard sales and such can be fun. I have found some beautiful things and very unique items. Not necessarily worth anything, but beautiful all the same. I like classic rock music, some country, some gospel. But rap music can seriously put me in a bad mood. I've been listening to "Daughtry" a lot lately. I like movies with heart. And I like to watch them with someone who has a heart. Also love horror, comedy and action. I just forced my best friend to see "The Conjuring" with me. I will never sleep with my feet uncovered again! I read a lot....everything from romance to horror.What I'm looking for? I'm not sure I know. But I'll know when I find it. Someone who knows the meaning of loyalty and responsibility. Someone who can have fun, laugh...even at himself, doesn't expect too much too soon, and can give as much as he receives. If I viewed your profile and didn't message you, it could mean that I don't think YOU would be interested in ME. Either because of age, distance, etc. If that isn't the case, give me a shout.Can't think of anything else right now, maybe later. If you want to know anything just ask. Sorry most of my photos have family in them. I'm usually the one taking the photos, so not many of myself. Besides that I am completely non-photogenic. I don't enjoy the bar scene or big crowds, but I do love live music, so.....conundrum. I don't care if it's sitting on the porch drinking iced tea, I'm not hard to please. I don't need a fancy dinner, just buy me some ice cream and take me to the park or the zoo.

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