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Charisma, 49

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About Me

Hello, Well I've been divorced for a few years and it is now time to pick up, brush off and move forward. I am very happy and content with my life and love my kids, but they are grown now and don't need momma as much, so that tells me this is a great time to have some fun and find a good man.Ok, here are the rules. I'm curvy and I like it that way, if you want a stick, I'm not your girl and I'm just fine with that. I'm fun and funny and can hold my own with just about anyone. I've grown a lot in the last few years and I feel healthy and happy mentally and physically. I'm looking for someone to laugh with and hang out with and hopefully be a better person with. Coffee, lunch or dinner. Having good conversation is a plus.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Lizeth

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hello: Thanks for reading my profile..Grounded, Mom, business owner, stable,.responsible....Like my headline reads: Looking for someone who is "Real and Ready"... for a long-term/committed relationship and everything that goes with it! Loyal, faithful, supportive, down to earth, honest, passionate..all qualities/values I possess and hope you would too! I am very open minded,..never shy and will always share my thoughts, feelings and opinions....you get all the good and bad traits that go with both, lol....Love to laugh. be silly and serious when need to be. Confidence/intelligent is very attractive ....and I also believe for a relationship to truly last,.a solid friendship must be formed( parents are still married after 51 years(still in love/ best friend/adore one another. I was so fortunate to grow up in a stable loving home where friendship/love and support were a part of my upbringing...along with Italian traditions and culture..if only I would have gotten that cooking gene...well you can't have everything :).My kids/family/business are very important to me and I am so thankful for what life has brought so far(just missing someone to share it with !.. holding hands, enjoying a .glass of wine...just a few of the activities/interests I enjoy!(many more to list). It is the company you are with..not the activity :-) Simple things I enjoy the most, and I am comfortable in any social setting. Affection/cuddling/holding hands..Can never have enough of that(Italians..we are a passionate group).Big SF Giant and 49 er fan..nothing better than hanging out in your sweats and watching your favorite team play..That's a good day..if it is raining.,...better day(if they win...awesome!!)I know opposites attract, but I have learned that for a lasting, fulfilling relationship, some commonalities, similar backgrounds, and values/qualities are needed. I dont want a clone of myself...just enough differences to make the relationship fun, exciting, and interesting. Be comfortable with who you are,be yourself...not looking to change anyone .Chemistry, connection, communication, consistency....have these and you are on your way to building a solid, fantastic, lifelong relationship.If you are in the same place in life as I am..ready to share dreams, new adventures, and the journey...then please contact me.... A place where we both agree on....where we can talk and get further acquainted..And if there is a connection/chemistry..making plans for the second date :-)

  • Alfredia

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I was born and raised in St. Louis, have 2 grown daughters. I live in a nice home in a nice area. I work and love my job. I have a dog, and my youngest daughter has a dog (they live with me). I love kids and animals, just in case you have one or the other!. blue others.. I love to laugh and I live my life with appreciation of the beauty around me.; fresh cut grass; rain; snow; burning leaves; crisp fall air.. I love seeing fog on water and hearing crickets and whipporwils, Taking a long drive on a country road or flying cross country and watching out the window the entire trip. Life is about loving every moment and working through the tough times... not battling and making things more difficult than they should be ... at this point in life it is about the motto don't sweat the small stuff! Each day is a new day start it like there is no tomorrow ... live it!I work for a non-profit as a data analyst. Goal in life, retirement! I love music, almost any kind, rock, oldies, jazz, country, 70's & 80's, I do not care for rap, at all!!!I love movies, I am not sure that I like scary movies too much though!!I really don't like writing these things, would rather just talk about what you would like to know. Drinks, coffee, appetizer talking, something simple ... that way if you have to make a quick exit it is okay :)

  • Claudette

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    .... "mine would be you."Hello... ** Update: as of ***~ I have been smoke free for 10 days! Yay me!!Probably my biggest caveat is that I am somewhat shy, to start with. I can be a little on the quiet side until I have a sense of who I am dealing with. lol. If that would bother you, then I'm probably not worth your time. It is part of who I am and not likely to change anytime soon. However, with that said, if you don't really take the time to get to know a person, and allow them to reveal their "layers" to you, then you will have no true idea what treasures lie beneath the surface!... btw, quiet does not mean not fun!!Here are my top reasons I would be your best "girlfriend" ever:~ You will be proud to have me on your arm when we go out in public. I am no fashion-model and never will be, but I still take pride in how I look. No sweatpants and slippers going out in public… unless it’s 11 o’clock at night and I’m going to Walmart by myself, where I’d blend in anyway. =P~ You will be proud of me on the home front. I enjoy helping you with projects around the house and yard, and don’t mind getting sweaty and dirty. It all comes off in the shower anyway, so I can pretty myself up again. ~ I desire to support you in your dreams and goals. ~ I will be respectful and supportive of "you" time.~ I will do my best not to nag and complain… try to keep small stuff, small stuff. ~ I will do my best to never roll my eyes at you, because I will respect you and your feelings and opinions. Maybe not agree, but respect. ~ You can trust that I will be honest with you. Always. ~ Our personal life is just that, personal. I won't be sharing every detail with my girlfriends. ...except the amazing things about you, of course!~ You will see my smile much more than my frown. =D Yes, I have my days, but life is meant to be happy and fun. Just don't be my reason to not smile. ~ I am the primary source of my own happiness. Sure, I want that giddy happiness that comes from falling and being in love. Why wouldn’t I want someone who “makes” me happy and affirms that to me?? But in the end, I am more responsible for my own happiness than you are. You are just a bonus… icing on the cake. ~ You will be nicely surprised when I kiss you passionately at unexpected times and in unexpected places. ~ If I commit my heart to you and yours to mine, you will never have to guess how I feel. When we have made that commitment, I will make it a priority to show you, not just tell you or expect you to know. You will rarely hear the words, “I’m not in the mood.” =) Nuf said.~ The top reason: I want to share my heart and soul with the "one" I love!I am adding the "disclaimer" that I am a work in progress. I am not perfect... just like you are not. I have my insecurities and vulnerabilities the same as anyone else, and ask that you be the type who can be accepting of them and loving someone UNCONDITIONALLY. ...And not have some silly, preconceived notion that a couple should be able to communicate without ever having disagreement or seeing totally eye to eye, etc.; or have a "cookie cutter" outlook on what the ideal person should be like! I get that we have our "expectations" or "requirements" that we are looking for, but you have to be somewhat open to seeing who a person is and where they are "at." Love means accepting someone where they are and being willing to work on and talk about the things you disagree about. You may possibly come to see things my way and vice versa... or maybe not! But if that person loves you anyway, and is willing to move heaven and earth to be with you and make things work... that's what matters!! I have taken a huge self-assessment of the things I could have done better in my marriage and in my personal life and have done my best to improve myself and what I can bring to a relationship. And I continue... one step at a time; putting one foot in front of the other... moving into the future, leaving the past where it belongs, behind me. Please be ready to leave your past behind you, too! I may not be all dazzle and sparkle, but I AM bright, I am real and I am me: A loving and caring woman who wants to give her best for you and to you and love YOU unconditionally... and desire to let you know "there is no one better out there for me!"A woman will go hard for a man she cares about ...But even harder for a man she knows cares about her ...Pow!! And she drops the mic!!!Thank you for stopping by... Wishing YOU an amazing day! =) Open for discussion, but I really like a guy to take the lead in that... tells a bit more about you in seeing what you come up with; how you "take charge."

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