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Gilda, 49

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About Me

I'm an open book, yet somewhat complex. I'm very funny, outgoing and adventurous, and deeply spiritual. I'm also curious about life and why we are here. When I find a subject that I don't know about, I dive in and educate myself. I'm self sufficient and independent and value my quiet time. I'm a lover of nature, animals, and laughter. I can and do laugh at myself frequently. I don't take things so seriously, I look for the gifts in adversity. There are many. I enjoy time with my friends, my family, and with myself. I'm not looking for someone to fill me or take care of me, I have that part handled. I would like to be with someone who can match me, both in wit and in curiosity. About him. I don't care about materialism, or what kind of car he drives, or what kind of house he lives in. However, if he drives a Jeep off road and destroys nature, nope! I care about the inside stuff. And here it is. He has an inner quality about him that is calming, yet fun, crazy and simple. He appreciates the simple things, i. e., waking up, walking, drinking a great cup of coffee; meditation. He respects himself and me. He respects nature and if he sees garbage in his wake, he picks it up. He is independent, self confident, reliable, loyal, and has his own interests and friends. He's intelligent, optimistic and asks the big questions. He's not afraid of deep conversations, nor is he afraid of his own feelings, they're just feelings after all. I don't want someone to make me the center of their everything. I'm looking for Interdependence, not dependence and not co dependence. He has a curious, spiritual side and asks the big questions. He's open, honest, spontaneous! He can laugh at himself, and he's willing to work it through, whatever that is. It's the inside stuff I'm looking for. Bonus points if you're involved with doing something to aid those beings on this planet who are being tortured and slaughtered. I'm talking about our animal friends. I'm deeply immersed in trying to save the African elephant and rhino from inevitable extinction as a result of poaching. If you're a hunter do not write me. There are a few things I'd like to do with your guns, none of which would be pleasant. If you're an animal rights advocate - you have my utmost respect. Go here for 2 seconds of me in a vid. *** If there is chemistry we can be sitting in a field surrounded by cow dung and it wouldn't matter. Perfection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Dymphna

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    So, here we are... Looking to find new friends, date a bit, friendship is important to me. Honesty, mutual respect and being able to communicate with each other are key. I am looking for someone who values and respects himself, as well as those in his life. He has a tender heart that is open to new people and new relationships. He can laugh at himself, and at/with me, laughter is important.I am spontaneous, a dreamer and a doer, and sometimes I border on being silly. I always have some crazy thing going on. I like to laugh and have fun - who doesn't? I think it's important to stay creative and try to live in the moment, otherwise life tends to pass you by fast. I'm very aware of only having one life on this planet and feel the need to experience as much of it as I can. I love hiking in the natural settings here, especially playing along the Monument, and the Bookcliffs. I'm not into material things, or internally driven by money, in fact I'm more interested in living as lightly as we can on this earth. I don't need fancy cars, lots of makeup and over the top clothes to make me feel better about myself. I think mutual attraction is important. At this point in my life I'm not out to win a beauty contest, I just am who I am. I try to eat healthy and be active. I would look for a partner who feels the same way and is not wrapped up in appearances, impressed by material items and obsessed with looks. I think bald is sexy, by the way, so you don't have to hide under a hat around me :-) But I can do hair too :-) Ultimately, I want to live this life with a partner. Life is to be shared with someone, friends and family are important too. But for now, let's just see how it all unfolds. Things I find attractive about people: * Their word and handshake are the real deal. * They respect them self and others. * They have a genuine smile and laugh and sense of humor. * They are true to strong morals and ethics and don't change these to fit their current situation. * They just are who they are and they know WHO they are. Turnoffs: * People who lie.*People who thrive on drama. * People who lie about their age on dating sites.* Controlling people. * Angry or negative people. * People who post they generate a large income just to impress. * People who are not mature enough to take responsibility for their own thoughts and actions. * People who are too damaged from past baggage and have a closed heart. * People who can't spell, I mean use spell check for Pete's sake! A couple typos are ok... LOL* People who think an online format relieves them of common courtesy.

  • Brooke

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am who I am becauae I am a child of God. I stayed physically active way past school. Softball, volleyball, running, gym work out. I like working out and eating well. And am attracted to someone that likes to keep in shape, adventurious, and looks like that also. I am a softhearted person for lots of things. But my dad raised me so I have learned to take care of my car and get things done and not sit around. Ask if you need more clarification. I may not have been blessed with kids but do love them. I adore my niece and 3 nephews and have worked with kids in various outreach projects over the years. Finding that special someone that God has ready to accept me where I am, be supportive, willing to grow with. Church is part of who I am it keeps me centered and focused. Looking for someone to walk with me. Let's chat and see where it takes us....Cheers(No Smokers, No games, No Drugs, Noone looking to hook up.. Something that let's us get to know each other...

  • Laurel

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a fun & honest gal, who is happy with life! I dislike drama & I avoid that nonsense whenever I can. I am in great health, got my flu shot this year . I like to go out laugh and have fun. I like good food, a glass of wine, great music, the theater and movies. I am not looking for "friends", I am searching for my partner in life. I enjoy taking pictures and I am an avid scrap- If you are uber-Christian, please go on to the next gal, I don't need to be converted or saved. I am very happy with my spirituality the way it is! I have bi-racial friends, Gay friends, Pagan friends, Christian friends, Atheist friends etc... I accept everyone for who they are. My daughter & her family are very important to me. I have a mini weenie dog that I rescued, he is my little buddy I live on the river and we go for walks , weather permitting! Meeting someone is a journey that can lead to great rewards. I like to eat out & go to movies, museums, & plays.I really like coffee, so sitting & getting to know each other over a cuppa is great too.

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