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Hard to know where to start after reading some of your profiles. It looks like most have 48 hour days with all they accomplish on a regular basis. My days only have 24 hours, and between being a full-time single mom to a teen-ager, and have a full-I'm pretty happy with my life - but could be better if I had someone to share it with. I enjoy a wide range activities, time permitting. A weekend in Tahoe, skiing or just enjoying the nature up there. Likewise, a day by the ocean, or a day sailing on the bay. A camping trip to Lake Berryessa and some boating is not bad, either. All things I enjoy, but admittedly it has been while since I had a chance to do it. I treasure family but unfortunately I live far away from mine so I don't get to see them often. That's why I like the saying "friends become our chosen family" and I do have my chosen family here in the area. I enjoy going out for dinner, and I enjoy cooking dinner at home, too, especially when I have someone to cook for. Or someone to share the cooking with. I also believe in a healthy life style - without being fanatic. Everything in moderation. With a little more time on my hands, I'm now back in the gym and have started with a personal trainer 2x a week. I sure feel it, but boy, does it feel great to be back!I'm looking for someone who has a job, is educated, and for the most part is happy with his life - but as me looking for someone to share it with. Great if you have children - then you understand that aspect of life, and it's ok if they live at home, as I have one living at home. I understand how it can make things a bit more complicated when it comes to time.Oh, a big must is you have to live in the area. I'm not interested in pen pals.Hope to hear from you!!! Let's grab some coffee and then walk the trails - or meet for a drink. In any case -something casual.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Catarina

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I want to start off with this statement. I DO NOT indulge in sexual relations before marriage, so if that is what you are looking for, you can just move on. If so, let me down easily, because I am still searching for that man that is out there!Thirdly, I do have kids under 18, but they live with their dad (there wasn't an option to say they don't live with me). They are 12 and 15. 7th and 10th graders. Not in grade school anymore, yay!Outdoors are fun to explore, even in the winter. I love to camp, fish (even if I don't catch anything), try new restaurants that I hear have good food, or just find out on my own.Do you like to cook? I like to learn new recipes, or make up things myself. How about you? I have a Vitamix, and it is fun to see what kind of concoction one might find tasty, and occasionally find out the not so tasty ones, ha! Where are you? Isn't there some well-educated guy, who doesn't feel intimidated, but wants a sweet lady in their life? I have a sense of humor, am a good listener, and do not like to gossip like most women, nor do I have some time-consuming hobbies like crafting, or some side business, though I am thinking of starting up some oil painting. I used to watercolor, and sketch with charcoal, and now I am ready to move onto the harder stuff. Any pointers?I like to bake, but don't want to be the only one to eat it. (hint hint)Own my own place, have a reliable job, own my own car, kids live with their dad, so I am open to looking for the perfect mate.I am unique because I am hard of hearing, but with my hearing aids, I am able to hear quite well, and speak as though you would never know. I grew up with deaf parents. ( I enjoy together time more, though. ) Music is important to me, and I enjoy listening to uplifting songs that edify the Lord. The old hymns are nice occasionally, but I prefer to hear songs that are more contemporary, such as Our God is an Awesome God, versus Trust and Obey. I know that God wants us to trust and obey, and I love to sing songs that make me feel excited about praising and serving Him.I like being with people who can know when to laugh if there is a problem, and not be too serious; to step back and look at the big picture. Do we REALLY want to fight over spilled milk? I don't like to complain, but focus on building up one another.I want to relax and listen to someone, and be able to interject without them thinking I am interrupting.Intelligence is important to me, but intellectualism isn't what I am looking for.How about you ? Tell me a little about yourself that relates to me, if you may? Have fun getting to know each other in a quiet venue, such as a small cafe. I am open to anything.A ball game would be fun, too! =)Or perhaps a movie, and then dinner?If you attend a church nearby, I'd love to go with you as well.=)Just a side note, for those who think being "religious" is negative... I agree with this statement I found online:Religion is something that has been passed on from generation to generation. It requires a system to be followed or else there will be consequences. These religions distract us from the real truth. The truth that you don’t need rituals to be spiritual, all you need is God.Many people go to church and profess to be spiritual; however, many do not possess the kingdom. They do not operate in kingdom principles. The scripture clearly says to seek first the kingdom of God, and then the “things” will be added unto you. How many Bible-believing, church-going, Holy Ghost-filled people do you know living in lack, poor health, poverty and sadness? However, this is contrary to the system that God established in the beginning. It is vital to develop a kingdom mindset if you want to reign as Christ in the earth. You have to begin to walk in victory and talk in victory. You have to live the kingdom and understand that the kingdom of God is within you. -by Bishop E.

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I\'m an accomplished person who is looking for Love and Family. I\'m intelligent, kind, and know who I want. What I need? Peace of mind with someone I love and who will love me wholeheartedly, with no reservation.

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    What I have is unconditional love, passion and the love I have is stronger than you can imagine. I need such type of person who will always have your back and let you know everything will be ok.

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