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Brinda, 46

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About Me

Hello thanks for stopping in to read my profile and best of luck in your search. Im a mother, grandmother and best friend missing that special someone to spend quality time with. Im not into casual encounters or a hookup so please dont ask.I love the outdoors from camping, fishing, hiking or just sitting out in the great outdoors to soak up the beauty around us. Im a very laid back person and take things as they come and deal with them, which means I dont believe in holding onto the past so if your still in a bad place in your life Id rather go it on my own. Im very adventurous and am looiking for a man to enjoy life experiences with to make new and amazing memories together. I workout ***times a week and stay fit and eat healthy so i would like someone who has the same habits. No im not looking for a model type just a confident man who has his priorities in order. Im not a person who sits on the couch all day, although snuggling up on it watching a movie is great. Im an open honest lady looking for the same in a partner. Someone who doesnt cheat, or stare at other women while im not around. Im a very secure person and love my life so if you want to know more about meI've put looking for a relationship on the back burner because it seems most men don't want a manogamous relationship. If it happens it will happen and an open to it.I'm a country girl for the most part. I'm not afraid to get down in the mud. But at the same time am a lady and can dress up as nice as the city girls. My favorite store is the Buckle and enjoy my shopping days in there lol nothing special just a meet and great to see if there is a chance for a second date

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Aisha

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I like doing anything that involves me being outdoors and being active. Very close to my family and friends. Search for the same kind active people to share my lifestyle and values with, loyal to families.

  • Toshia

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hello,Thanks for stopping by to read about me. I am going to give this a try as I know many people that have connected this way and it developed into a wonderful relationship.My philosophy is to “Live life with an Open Heart and see what happens”.I am a fun loving, down to earth young at heart woman. I do not need a man in my life but would like one as I know that I feel better, am healthier and happier in a relationship. I like to look after ‘my guy’ with affection and kindness and share about our life, goals and dreams.You will see that I have taken some time to list my interests. If you do contact me I would hope that you have read them so that when you e-mail you can tell me why you decided to contact me out of all the beautiful women on here. (Sorry, I won’t respond if there is no content to what we have in common or if there are no pictures)About me:I do not have children; it just did not happen for me. I do share my life, home and heart with my dogs. They are so much Fun!!I believe all intimacy is meant for one but try my best to please the person who I am sharing my life with. There is nothing more Sexy than a man that honours his wedding ring and talks fondly of his partner when she is not there.I was married for 16 years, took the first year on my own to get set up - then dated the first man I met for two years. I'm a 'keeper'.I am not needy or jealous - why would I be if the man I was with made me feel like the most beautiful woman in the room and couldn't wait to get me home.I love being a woman but you could and would find me at a truck rally or motorcycle race. I owned my first motorcycle at 8 and have driven in a NASCAR at the Daytona 500!!I look like my pictures and hope you do too? You could literally pick me out at the grocery store and tap me on the shoulder to say ‘hello’. I will never be ‘skinny’, I’m too ‘curvy’ for that. I am proportional in height, size and ‘assets’. About you:I do like my guys a little on the husky/rugged side and do picture myself with someone in their 40’s but if you have a matching ball cap for every outfit or if you think wearing pj bottoms in public is ‘ok’ I don’t think you are for me.You should also feel comfortable throwing gear in the car for a camping trip or getting dressed up to try out a new restaurant.I guess it’s the ‘loafers to little black dress’ men have for women only my ‘man version’.You will have to live within HRM or at least within driving distance so that we can get to know each other and see if there is the possibility of creating and building a healthy, balanced relationship.You must have a job/career or some means of living a life that we would both enjoy. With that we would be able to travel, enjoy fun adventures and get out to try new food and restaurants.If you have made it to the bottom of this and still interested I can’t wait to hear from you as I am looking for healthy/balanced and it just may be you!! How it all works for me:On line meeting/dating is harder and anyone would imagine.I compare it to meeting your Mother’s next door neighbour’s newly divorced cousin.Remember when she would drag out a picture at the kitchen table and tell you how great he is? Only to find out he actually still lives with his Mother.It would be wonderful to meet at a party or b’bque and share glances from across the room and ask your host if they were married or in a relationship. To finally get up the courage to talk to them and casually look down to see if they were wearing a ring. To think about them when you get home if the conversation went well.That rarely happens today. Life, love and relationships are too complicated.So, we all find ourselves here.If we do connect with pictures and e-mails from there I do ‘walk and talk’. We would meet at a neutral public location for a 15 minute walk and see if we would like to continue into a nice place for a drink.That would be it for ‘first meet’. We would then both go home and decide together if there was enough chemistry to go on a ‘Date”!!Note: if I like your pictures and am intrigued by your profile but you are younger than me – I will add you to my ‘favourites’ and then you can decide to message.

  • Hassie

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    ~ Its crazy that cyber~dating is just like going for a job interview; Such a sales pitch. After my first attempt to swim around in this pond, I took a break from the "catch and release" that was happening. So Im back to the watering hole to see what might come of it .....Alright , I'll give a few adjectives to describe myself ~. Im intuitive, a good communicator (I've learned the art of listening), Im relational, social, affectionate, sensative, hardworking, opinionated, silly/playful, intentional, adventurous, generous, creative productive, tranparent, forgiving, nurturing. I love the laid back livestyle where i live here on Whidbey Island ~ I enjoy what island living has to offer, kayaking out to the mussel beds to see the resident seals, beautiful hikes along the cliffs at Ebeys Landing, beachcombing and rock picking on our shores. My exercise of choice is hiking, walking, & swimming. Health and nutrition are important to me. Cooking is a pleasure. Its an art form, since I rarely follow a recipe. I have a small garden. Eventhough Im not an "over the top" greenie, i get into recycling, composting and generally attempting to minimize and simplify. its turned into a kind of purposeful hobby. Im also an aspiring writer. Im working on a book and a memoir for my kids. I studied interior design *** My home is a reflection of my creativity.My 2 youngest are still in my nest and my 3 goregous, accomplished older daughters are young adults, living their lives. All of my kids amaze me. wherever we are or whoever we are with, people constantly tell me the impression they've made, and how interesting and enjoyable they are. I could never accomplish a greater goal than to produce and raise such wonderful human beings. I love being a mom ~ I love being their mom!Well guys, thats me in a nutshell ~Please do me the courtesy to 1st be fiscally and relationally responsible ( by that I mean, that past loves and family relationships are reconciled and cleaned up) and please be employed ~ I have that in place and would appreciate the sameNot that I have a criteria that is set on stone. I've never had a "Type" when it comes to men, but there are some qualities in a man that really "get me". ~ a masculine, strong, sexy voice~ the rugged, casual type , but underneath the sweat of his brow, you can see that he cleans up nicely~ the comfortable, cuddly type ~ i feel easy in his presence , & everybody else doesa hint ~ real ladies are responders not initiators. Be the man, take the lead. Let us real women be the woman we want to be ~ if we are interested, we will always respond to every and all of your advances, but we wait for you to make the moves. Its not a feminine qualitiy in my book to pursue, but its to be pursued in the courting stages. More times than not, you guys end up with some trouble from women who take the mans role, but I realize with "womens lib" , its now the norm, and men expect women to be a part of the pursuing process So if you are waiting for the a lady to get a hold of you, make the first move, or keep the ball rolling, you may be missing an opportunity to be with the right kind of feminine women. ~For what its worth~ A cafe or restaurant with a cozy corner where we can visit and get to know each other. if we still would like to let the time linger because things are going well, it would be nice if we were located near an area where we could take a walk around. This is conventional enough so that one of us could leave if its not working out, but if it is, there are other options

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