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Dung, 46
United States, Nebraska, Kearney

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About Me

Honestly, I have been on and off this site a zillion times. I was married for 20 years and have been divorced for 4. I had no idea what dating at this time in life would be like - I was NOT prepared. I was used to being the mom and wife and I was good at it. I knew my role and how things were supposed to go - this single, dating thing - I still don't get it. Here is what I do know. I don't want to grow old alone. I want a companion to share my life with. I want to find someone who is as curious and interested in knowing everything about me as I am about them. Someone who listens as much as he talks. Someone who knows what he is feeling and thinking and, if he feels it is important, says it straight forward and lets the chips fall where they may. Someone who let's it go when we agree to let it go. Someone who is a stand up guy - who cares about the less fortunate and doesn't need to put others down to feel good about himself. Someone who's eyes aren't constantly scanning the room when I am sitting there looking for the next shiny nickel and keeping his options open by NOT deleting his online profile when he is telling me I'm the one he wants to be with or constantly online when we supposedly have a great first few dates and seem to be hitting it off, if we aren't and I am confused then just stop telling me differently, I am a big girl and can handle the let down cause I'm probably on the fence about you too but am going to give you a chance before I line up the next 10.... anyone out there getting this yet?My apologies if I appear a bit jaded but guys there are many of you out there who are not very cool. They treat good women like me crappy and make it harder for you authentic, caring, loyal, honest, real men to find the good women who do exist out here. I am an adventurous, compassionate, loving, responsible, intelligent, kind, forgiving, sensual, sexy, funny woman. I am a good catch and deserve the best treatment and I'm not going to settle for less. If you are Mr. Nice guy and think we have some things in common (see below) send me a message. It will be worth your time. If you are not, please don't waste mine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Dance
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    Looking for: man. In age: 18-23

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Update: I have found a wonderful man on this site... Good luck to all those fishing out there! I'm off the market! :-)I am a relaxed woman, down to earth, calm and patient. Does that mean I don't have any pizzazz or a sassy side? Absolutely not! I have plenty of that! I have come to the time in my life where I am comfortable in my skin and that is liberating! I am the commander of my own ship, but that does not mean I don't play well with others.I am a dental assistant and enjoy interacting with people in the health field. Love my work, but am also always a work in progress.. There's so much to learn and enjoy!I love cooking a good meal, enjoying the process, drinking red wine while the meal is simmering and great conversation, good food takes time!Of course I love the beach and walking on it, but more so on an overcast or cloudy day, when there are no people. Setting out a blanket and reading and listening to the surf is delightful and my kind of simplistic heaven... same goes for a park under a shady tree!Sports are good... love cycling. I usually ride between ***Keeps my heart happy and healthy! And yes, I'm a girl, and I do yoga.. I know it's so cliche!Movies, books and music are great get aways for the mind. For music I rather unconventional for my age... I enjoy the newer stuff more than the older "timed" classics of my generation. I do have an affinity for big band, 20's,30's and 40's music. Classical is timeless! That's a bit about me! I think, unless one has taken some time to get to know the other person, the coffee/tea date is a good start. Usually the setting is quiet, so the two can get to know one another, without too many distractions. After that, whatever the two decide to plan.

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  • Gail from Kearney | Woman | 48 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi Guys, I am a busy single mom to my very active boys ages 11 and 15. I love watching them play football, baseball and basketball and I am an active volunteer with their teams. They are with me full time and they are my life. But they are old enough now for me to be able to enjoy some guilt-free ME time.I've been single for 8 years, divorced for 4 and am new to this dating thing - especially the online dating thing. It's like feeling my way around in the dark - will you hold the flashlight for me? I don't know the "rules" if there are any, and I probably would not follow them even if I did. Update: if you have dating "rules", I can only respect them (or not) if I know what they are - that requires communication. I am a BIG fan of communication!My friends tell me I don't know when I am being flirted with. I guess it takes a brick to my head. I just don't like assuming things and then looking foolish. Plus, if one wanted to, one could read something suggestive into just about any conversation. That can be fun - as long as we're on the same page! Humiliating if not!I hate playing the guessing game just TELL ME what's on your mind. That said, I do prefer directness. It CAN be done tactfully, kindly, and with openess and honesty - a must for all my relationships.I am an open book - ask me anything and know that my answers will be completely honest. Not everyone is an open book and that's okay, as long as what you DO put out there is truthful.I can play poker with the best of them but much prefer to lay my cards on the table and think it would be a much nicer world if we all did the same.I wear my heart on my sleeve but am not naive; don't underestimate me ;) I practice living a simple, uncluttered life in the here and now. I would much rather DO things than have things - creating precious memories that last a lifetime. I have learned that the key to happiness and contentment is quite simply - gratitude.Things I like doing... Walking the beach Photography Gardening Home improvements Watching NFL (Steelers Fans need not apply;) Jewelry making Mariners Games Road trips to nowhere Cookouts with family and friends Camping Hiking Reading Writing Things I have not done in a long time but would like to do again... Ski River raft Golf Dance Kiss Bucket List: The above list and... Get a tattoo (update - check! As my boys say, "YOLO!"You must have a sense of humor and not take life or yourself too seriously. I don't care about your weight, profession, income, motorcycles, boats or cars, how many times you work out a week, or all the places you have been (although a Harley trip would be fun! lol!) I do care if you are kind, compassionate, loving, responsible, respectful, respected, emotionally well-adjusted and generally fun to be around. And you gotta love long, passionate kisses that stop time.Thanks for reading...PS You guys are so damn cute holding up your little (and Big!) fishies with those proud looks on your faces. Just precious! ;) I'm not picky.

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