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Elwanda, 50

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About Me

Hi :)I made some major changes and adjustments to my life over three years ago that brought some happy and some not so happy moments but in the end I am where I need to be for me. I am a strong stable woman who "thinks" she knows what she wants and where she is going but in the end who really knows. I am interested in finding that someone special, that someone who is just perfect for me and who i am perfect for. Everyone says "he" is out there so I thought I would look and see if "he" is here on this dating site. I enjoy adventure as well as quite times. I have a love for animals and fresh air. I can play in the mud and can clean up well for an evening out. I have two kids who are 20 and 18 and are working on "their" futures so it must be time for me to start working on mine. I do know I don't want to go from the excitement of a first "real" date to bored with each other in a few weeks. Call me a bit old fashion but I would like to find someone who believes in courting a woman, preferable forever.I have all my "ducks in a row" and now want to find that special someone to laugh and enjoy life adventures and the day-to-day stuff with. Pretty open for suggestions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tanesha

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I would love to explore the city with someone special—maybe that's you? My idea of a good time can branch off in many directions— good conversation at a coffee shop (or anywhere, basically), listening to live music, going to wine tastings or other places where I can learn something new, bookstores, movies, and live theatre or improv comedy come to mind. (Not all in one day:) Love going for boat rides and would like to learn to sail (although I know I'd be a fair weather sailor) or just being near the water.), but haven't had a chance to yet. I like listening to a variety of live music. I'm a huge fan of The Beatles, and have watched the Anthology too many times to mention (but I guess I just did:) Love other music too. If you have an interest in fiction or film, that's a plus, but not a big deal. The main thing for me is that we have enough in common to keep the relationship interesting and where we want to spend time together. I love great design of all kinds and was a former graphic designer and had other arts/crafts businesses in the past. Now writing is my creative interest, and fortunately, takes up very little space!Cooking a nice pot of soup on a cold, damp day or reading by a fireplace can be a good time. Going out with friends and entertaining would be nice, too. Mainly, I'm looking for a partner to dance through life with. I'd like to connect with a man physically, mentally, and emotionally, but that spark is important, too--the part that can't be easily defined...:) Meeting for coffee/tea/wine/ice cream is a nice way to get to know if there's a connection between us before setting up another longer date.

  • Marlys

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Enjoy good music,food,and company.like to work but know how to relax.family is important.if all else fails just have fun. Nice dinner and good conversation.its the little things in life that you remember most.

  • Particia

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    They say a picture is worth a thousand words… BUT what happens if you don’t take a very good picture? The eyes are the window of the soul, so if I was to look deep into your eyes what would I find and would they (your eyes) talk to me? I would love to say add a lot of witty things on my profile but find that some times the best introduction to a person is time which is the measure of who a person is and not a profile. What I am looking for in a man??? Someone who is done with the sport fishing in dating and is serious about getting to know a person. I don’t have a requirement on race other than him being open minded because my kids are bi-racial. I don’t have a type of man that I am attracted to other than intelligence and kindness. Sex appeal isn’t what is seen but revealed in a person’s action. Show me the private man who will keep me coming back for more and I will show you a woman who is interested. That is truly what I am looking for in a man. So something about me. I am very comfortable in my own skin and like who I see in the mirror. I believe in taking care of myself and staying active. I don’t consider myself as being clingy, kind of independent. I am pretty open to most things. I am very much a Capricorn. Love listening to R&B and country music. However, I don't believe in making someone listen to what I like if they cannot stand it. I seem to come and go from this site - I listed that I was looking for a relationship which is true. however, I am not in a hurry. Hope your day has been blessed. Thank you. Hummmm.. The perfect first date.. I think it would be getting to know someone with some excellent conversation. It doesn’t really need to be some place special but with someone special.

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