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Hassie, 48
United States, Nebraska, Kearney

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About Me

~ Its crazy that cyber~dating is just like going for a job interview; Such a sales pitch. After my first attempt to swim around in this pond, I took a break from the "catch and release" that was happening. So Im back to the watering hole to see what might come of it .....Alright , I'll give a few adjectives to describe myself ~. Im intuitive, a good communicator (I've learned the art of listening), Im relational, social, affectionate, sensative, hardworking, opinionated, silly/playful, intentional, adventurous, generous, creative productive, tranparent, forgiving, nurturing. I love the laid back livestyle where i live here on Whidbey Island ~ I enjoy what island living has to offer, kayaking out to the mussel beds to see the resident seals, beautiful hikes along the cliffs at Ebeys Landing, beachcombing and rock picking on our shores. My exercise of choice is hiking, walking, & swimming. Health and nutrition are important to me. Cooking is a pleasure. Its an art form, since I rarely follow a recipe. I have a small garden. Eventhough Im not an "over the top" greenie, i get into recycling, composting and generally attempting to minimize and simplify. its turned into a kind of purposeful hobby. Im also an aspiring writer. Im working on a book and a memoir for my kids. I studied interior design *** My home is a reflection of my creativity.My 2 youngest are still in my nest and my 3 goregous, accomplished older daughters are young adults, living their lives. All of my kids amaze me. wherever we are or whoever we are with, people constantly tell me the impression they've made, and how interesting and enjoyable they are. I could never accomplish a greater goal than to produce and raise such wonderful human beings. I love being a mom ~ I love being their mom!Well guys, thats me in a nutshell ~Please do me the courtesy to 1st be fiscally and relationally responsible ( by that I mean, that past loves and family relationships are reconciled and cleaned up) and please be employed ~ I have that in place and would appreciate the sameNot that I have a criteria that is set on stone. I've never had a "Type" when it comes to men, but there are some qualities in a man that really "get me". ~ a masculine, strong, sexy voice~ the rugged, casual type , but underneath the sweat of his brow, you can see that he cleans up nicely~ the comfortable, cuddly type ~ i feel easy in his presence , & everybody else doesa hint ~ real ladies are responders not initiators. Be the man, take the lead. Let us real women be the woman we want to be ~ if we are interested, we will always respond to every and all of your advances, but we wait for you to make the moves. Its not a feminine qualitiy in my book to pursue, but its to be pursued in the courting stages. More times than not, you guys end up with some trouble from women who take the mans role, but I realize with "womens lib" , its now the norm, and men expect women to be a part of the pursuing process So if you are waiting for the a lady to get a hold of you, make the first move, or keep the ball rolling, you may be missing an opportunity to be with the right kind of feminine women. ~For what its worth~ A cafe or restaurant with a cozy corner where we can visit and get to know each other. if we still would like to let the time linger because things are going well, it would be nice if we were located near an area where we could take a walk around. This is conventional enough so that one of us could leave if its not working out, but if it is, there are other options

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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