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Cayla, 50

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Hi. What a lame start.. But every new relationship whether it be a friendship or more begins with just those two simple letters.....HI!I am a small town girl with a somewhat quirky personality.. I love humor and try to find the chuckle in most everything... bad is only bad if you let it be, otherwise it is just another experience that needs to be handled. Deal with it and move on. So here goes..I was a 47 year old widow that has not dated in 30 years.. i am used to being "we" but am learning to be "me" again. Which tends to be quite a learning process. I have three beautiful daughters and one son in law, which I am very proud of... They are very wonderful young adults who are a big part of my life and my decisions are usually based on them. Very family oriented. My youngest is 19 and she was my main priority. Time for me to spread my wings a bit.But there is a point in ones life that you want to share with another. Those things you miss by being alone...A cuddle, an inside joke, a gaze from across the coffee, a smile that you can read on anothers face and know what they are thinking... That confidant that will let you share all your irrational ramblings without judgement, but concern. That someone to argue with about who will take out the garbage this time....those stupid little things...are the things I miss the most. I am still learning..But I am a stable person (some might agree) and I am not rushing into anything. So slow is my pace... I am somewhat private for security for my family...but I do have an open mind and it usually functions coherently, My interests are varied...I am analytical. So I have a tendency to think things through...but am also a very heartfelt person...loyalty, honesty and trust are very important traits I value most in a relationship. Whether it be friendship or more.I have found that we are all somewhat the same...looking for that special someone and I wish you all the best of luck in your search. Just remember that it all starts by just saying,, "Hi!" I havent dated in thirty years. I am not sure that dating is still in my vocabulary. I would like to know what you would consider a date at this age...I remember it as terribly awkward?! Not sure if I would want to go back to awkward again.ATTENTION: I really dont want to be a mom to any young men looking for playtime. Dont text back for "good time" crap. Got over that while some of you were being conceived. My 3 daughters dont really need a brother figure. So no thanks.


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  • Marivel


    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm looking and putting forth an effort. In the perfect world it would be nice if we lived within 8- Likes: The beach. The mountains. St. Happy Hour. People watching. Concerts. Sporting events. Sleeping in. Working out. BBQs. People I can count on. People I can trust. Animals. Family. Dislikes: Rude people. Bad teeth. Hypocrites. Liars. Cheats. Wine. Beer. Mushrooms. Black olives. Preferences: Caucasian. Hair. Nice teeth. My age bracket....late 40's early 50's.My house is clean. My car is dirty (that would be a good job for you on Saturday mornings - car wash!)I love my job. I love my friends and family. I have a child in High School and certainly don't mind if my significant other has children. We have 4 animals (3 dogs and 1 cat).When I say I am average, I'm not saying I'm 20 lbs overweight (because I'm not). I'm 48, I work out, but don't have abs of steel. I don't pretend to be perfect, but I can see my feet.I think I'm just a normal girl looking for a normal guy (Caucasion with hair, nice teeth) who will treat me with respect. Also when your profile says "average" that does mean you can see your feet.... right?If you are just looking for a sexual encounter.....please do not contact me. Don't ask about skills, turn ons/offs, and I don't need you to send me nude photos. I'm not on here to play games. I'm trying to find someone I am compatible with, for long term, not just for a few hours. Thanks! Keep it simple. Keep it casual. First meetings are tough enough. Once the interview process is over - lets have a second date. Let's just hang out, laugh at each other, laugh at ourselves. Smile. Life is too short.

  • Kiara


    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I take life with a grain of salt (and sometimes a wedge of lime and tequila). I’m a passionate woman who loves to laugh, entertain and be entertained. I love deep, philosophical conversations and light-hearted chats. I can be a fun date, or a great listener to a friend in need. I'd love to make you laugh, and I give a great shoulder massage if you've had a bad day. I love spending time with family and friends, travelling, and I intend to live the rest of my life to the fullest. I have most things that I need, except YOU...YOU – are a passionate man with a great sense of humour. You are intelligent, witty, sensitive, kind and enjoy being alive. You have good common sense but an equal sense of adventure. You are occasionally romantic and a cuddler.If I`ve just described you, please send me an *** yourself.

  • Carreen


    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hello there. Just looking to see who's out there. Looking to find someone for a long term relationship someone who will respect me and not cheat. No players or one night stands. A man who is settled not judgmental or shallow. Im not skinny have meat on my bones although i recently lost 50 pounds. So if you are looking for a perfect body you need to look elsewhere. I do have a big heart and know theres one man out there somewhere looking for a one man woman.. an animal lover and have a good sense of humor. Good luck fishing !!! Go somewhere for dinner to talk then if weather permits a walk in the park or a drive on the parkway

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