Total users: 59,061,514 Online users: 212,461
Affton, 47

Offline, last seen Sun, 21 Sep 2025 10:10:09

About Me

I'm a bright, funny, and warm person. My friends say I'm a good listener and many of them trust me with their problems and confidences. I'm also very interested in the world and what happens in it, politically, socially, spiritually. I love to learn new things and meet people from different backgrounds. This carries over into my dining choices -- love trying new cuisines although I always ask for very mild on the heat scale. My hopes/plans for the future include finding my next vocation (where my deep joy and the world's deep needs intersect), traveling to Europe and maybe Africa and the Middle East,and continuing to find ways to express my creativity.The man I'd like to meet would be past the stage of needing to prove himself to the world or himself, but still have a passion for life and his partner and serving others. He may be athletic or not, but will have a keen interest in the life of the mind and the spirit as well as physical health. He will be physically and verbally affectionate, as I am, and have a kind and generous personality. After e-mailing or messaging for a few days, we've spoken on the phone. We laughed together a lot and want to meet in person, so we schedule dinner or drinks someplace pretty casual, or someplace with fun stuff to do. Like, a walk on the canal, or at the IMA, or a bookstore. When we've both arrived, we hug briefly, then sit, our eyes meeting. The server comes by WAY too early and asks if we need more time. Um, YES. We make the server go away one more time before choosing from the menu. As we eat, we find more things we have in common. Maybe your dad was a gearhead like mine (did he run through the house snatching blankets off the beds to protect his cars when it hailed?). Or maybe your first girlfriend had Farrah hair like I did in 7th grade). After dinner (I'll expect to pay for mine, but if you insist I'll probably give in)we'll walk together or check out an exhibit or head for the bookstore and share some of our favorite sections/authors together. When it's time to go home,you walk me to my car. We can both sense the warmth and energy of our connection beginning. As you say goodnight you lean down and kiss me to check out our physical connection. We both go home grinning and thinking about our next date.That's just one way things could go...what are YOUR first date ideas?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Eri

    Offline

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-44

    Hi! My name is Eri. I am never married other caucasian woman with kids from Fremont, Nebraska, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Candi

    Offline

    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Let's see - my hobbies....I love living life.... I like to garden, like making art or visiting a museum, reading, motorcycles and most all outdoor activities. I am loyal and a good friend, a good listener and like the excitement of life. I tend to go with the flow...spontaneous - nothing has to be set in stone to have fun. I am an independent, strong, caring, intelligent woman and pretty much know what I want and don't want in my life. I prefer stimulating conversations, fine wine & open fires. If you have drama or baggage (not talking about kids - love kids!) I'm probably not the gal for you. Also, for me, there has to be chemistry before being friends could go any further. Looking for someone to have fun with for now, but ultimatley I would like to find my soul mate.Update - jerks don't answer my profile I think a nice first date would be dinner or drinks or even a walk...someplace where we could talk and get to know each other better and hope there is some chemistry.

  • Micah

    Offline

    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I have been divorced for about 7 years now. I have dated some but haven't met the right one. I am really close to my family and I enjoy cooking Sunday dinner for them every week. I like going out with my friends for dinner or dancing but enjoy quiet nights at home cooking dinner (if I could just find the right one to share that with). I am a girly girl so I like pretty things but I can slip on an old pair of jeans and be right at home on a 4wheeler if the occasion arises. My idea of a good first date would be to go out to dinner and have a few drinks. Good conversation and getting to know one another.

Follow Us: