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Cecilia, 46

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About Me

After many years of striving after so many and varied goals in every area of my life I am happy to have landed in a resting place now which feels a lot calmer. I am happy with life and who I am. I want to experience all that life has to offer. I love visiting new places, people and the textures it adds. I am equally happy to balance that with cosy nights in; relaxing at home and just being. I love to learn, laugh and have fun, I enjoy dancing and have a wide range of music that I enjoy from Classical music, flamenco, some rock, some rap, 80s, 90s & some current hit music. I love being in nature and near water too. I have the rhythm of Africa pulsing in my veins as I am proudly South African.I see after reading profiles and some scary stuff you guys are encountering a few clarifications are required.Drink socially - I could almost say I don't drink although in the spirit of being 100% honest - very seldomly I do have a glass of wine. So I'd like to keep the option open.No to Want Children : means I do not wish to make new babies - read this to save heartache if that is what you want. Your existing children are welcomed with open arms. This is not an indication of my financial well-being or lack thereof.Dancing - over the club and bar scene now - just now and again it's nice to shake it - to good music and even better with someone who enjoys that too. I would love to learn the tango together for example.I have experienced a lot, done a lot of self-development and so I am a whole. A balanced, mature, independent, wise whole. I am not a half looking for another half.Apologies in advance if you have No Pics, Prefer Not to Say or have a marital status of Separated. I am looking for someone with an open heart who knows how to take care of himself firstly (this has nothing to do with money) and then others with care and attention. Intregrity is very important please - walk your talk. Chivalry is hot. A great sense of humour - I will love it if you can make me laugh. Oh and sorry cats & I do not gel. My children are very important in my life, in case it needs to be stated. The rest is pretty open. 1st meeting : something we agree on that is easy-going where we can talk and connect and see if there is something there we'd like to explore further. 1st date: This will be easy - a great meal - fabulous food and company in an interesting environment will always be a winner. And that doesn't mean it has to be fancy schmancy either - I love when things don't go to plan or aren't perfect - or you discover incredible food in a place you wouldn't give a second glance - it makes experiences richer and worst case scenario - you're left with a great story to tell and some laughs. Any other experience would also work too - a walk or bike ride to see a different part of the city. Or surprise me with your ingenuity.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Payten

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I love pizza, long kisses, a good cup of coffee, live bands, cooking with friends, a great read, comedies and biking. I am often hounding my friends to bike with me so if you are a biker that would be great but certainly not required. Some of your favorites?"When Harry Met Sally" is one of my favorite movies. One of my favorite lines from that movie is from Billy Crystal when he said "When you meet the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, you want the rest of your life to begin right away." I’m looking for that “right” person. A man who is balanced, honest, secure, and understands the importance of good communication. Life is short....lets meet after sending a few *** think chemistry is important and in person is the only way to figure that out. If you like to have fun, have a positive outlook on life and are willing to meet in person...contact me! Meet for a short time and see if the sparks fly. Coffee? Drinks?

  • Sharita

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Would like to meet someone KIND, CARING and HONEST for possible long term relationship. I enjoy good humour, positive down to earth people. I prefer someone who follows up on what they say they will do -otherwise please don't say it.; travel. Having a good time & good conversation with someone. Basically the same as most people would like. I treasure loyalty, as I am a loyal person.Dislikes - age limiters (within reason). I've improved with age but I left the option of age open on my profile. I've passed by many potential great guys, who I would love to meet because they limited the age. I can see 65 as within reason, but if you're 56 & limit the female's age to 50 I think that's insulting. TO THE 25 YEAR OLD WHO PRETENDS TO BE 45 or older. YOU ARE VERY CUTE, BUT I HAVE SONS OLDER THAN YOU, AND I'VE TOLD YOU THAT!! STOP THE MADNESS NOW!!!! LOLPICTURE TIME: If u send a request to meet me, please send a picture with the request. I will not answer no picture requests...you are seeing my picture, I expect the same in return. My guess is u wouldn't get a lot of responses if u have no picture, u may improve your profile with a picture! Plus u will prove u actually read my profile - I'm much more than a picture.(sorry guys, but I've gotten so many contacts with no picture, it's a waste of your time & mine).NO CAR? It would be difficult to meet you as I am without a car right now. I like to think of this as first Impression. If you are really interested, please warn me if you intend on going to Tim Hortons. I don't drink coffee at night and I won't dress up. Generally I do dress up when I'm meeting someone new. I consider that I'm making a first impression too.

  • Bell

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hey there,I am a red headed Artist who has a passion for Metal music, but also like many types of music, from country, rockabilly , Flamenco, to classical,mostly anything- no Rap. I also like to dance, but need a bit of liq. courage to get on the dance floor. ;)I am a bit shy, not loud or rude- but have a strong presence, kinda biker / rocker chick looking,wild.. yet polished. "I can't help it , I'm just drawn that way" ,extra points if you know what that's from !!I am a romantic, passionate and like PDA- I am easy going and can find fun in anything, just want to find a guy to share it with.:)I Am In NO Way PeRfEcT nor do i want to be !! I am comfortable being me.I have great core values,manners, intelligent, understanding, passionate-and loyal, never play games, have a great sense of humor,can find humor in most anything,love to laff, a bit sarcastic, very athletic, like sports, and I am a Hockey lover !! I am really tired of games and controlling men !! Sh*t you don't want to be changed..so don't change me or what i like to wear etc.***Like rugged men, facial hair, tall,husky guys.***Looking to spoil my best friend and lover !I have alot to offer and there's alot more to me... just ask. I would probably suggest talking on the phone, then decide if we want to meet- for coffee or a drink, pub or restaurant(Mexican food is my Fav.!!)Go for a walk or ride, talk and get to know each other, see if there is chemistry...

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