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I am looking for a man who is tall, self assured, handsome and adventuresome (that's not a lot to ask for is it?) uh huh!!! I love someone who makes me laugh because I genuinely like to laugh. It's part of the secret to what I believe is an essential element of a well rounded relationship. Wit and intelligence are a definite plus and navigating through life with the glass half full is also very attractive. I'm really appreciative of the finer things in life and understand the hard work it takes to get there. Someone who is self driven is extremely appealing because I am very much the same way. I thoroughly enjoy life and take the good and bad in stride. Good genes and positive attitude help and I look for that in a partner. I've traveled all over the world and believe it is the best education that helps make one well rounded. I miss it and love to go back as much as I can for my coconut Kanaka fix! Being active and staying fit is important to me so I appreciate someone who wants to take care of themselves (actually it's a must). If you don't like your body, who will? I really like an energetic lifestyle. Golf, skiing (water & snow), snow boarding, roller blading, boating(fishing), camping & biking are a few activities that make me happy........way too cold here. (Hmm....I sound a little like a brat princess!) I will teach my boys how to surf soon since they are now taking the easy way out with body boarding. Guess I've got to woman-up and face the artic!Enjoying a gorgeous sunset with a glass of champagne and playing kissy face is definitely a plus. Fine wine, singing and laughter are an everyday part of my life so if you don't like a nice glass of wine or libation of your choice it probably won't work . I am very social and can talk to just about anyone. I appreciate someone who is dynamic and most importantly, charismatic. It's very attractive if can you interact socially, genuinely like people, are very comfortable in your own skin and NOT intimidated by a strong self-assured woman. Some men like to be in complete control over someone so if that's your MO, please keep going. I love to entertain, cook and adore the ambiance of a quaint restaurant, especially with the right person.I have two gorgeous boys 13 & 14. My boys are everything to me. They are top in sports and I'm really proud of them. I hope to meet someone who loves children. I've found that usually someone that has had children "gets it". We have a beautiful Golden Retriever who is 3 but still a my eyes :) Their father takes them every other weekend so that does give me time for fun getaways. I'm not looking for a father for my boys, they already have one. A few of the most important qualities that I seek in a partner are excellent character, integrity and substance.....Very difficult to find but I'm sure it's out there! Oh, News Flash!!!! If you are looking for a "hook-up", flaky, into head games.... (NOT, I won't go there)..... or if you've been recently dumped (within the last 6 months) and dislike the female species due to a deep down harbored vengence that you don't even know exists, plzzzzzzzzzzzzz pass on me, I'm not into rebounds..... OK, one more Foot note: Please don't press the button that say's you "want to meet me" because I guarantee you I won't respond, that's if you've taken the time to read this far. I guess I've put in all the disclaimers, likes and dislikes...LOL :0) The first date should be getting to know someone to see if there is chemistry. Chemistry is very important and if it isn't there then both parties should accept that and move on. Hopefully there will be that special spark that I think everyone is looking for. Oh btw, coffee is a deal killer.. boring :( A glass of wine at sunset would be nice, ambiance is always important. If you're the real deal, then I'm in!


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  • Damiana


    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I've come to the conclusion that there is no such thing as an "ideal" match. What I hope to someday find ***, is Mr. "Right for ME"! I guess you can say that is one way of "describing" "me"... to say that I'm a realist. Sure we can drum up an image in our minds of what a fantasy partner would be but in reality rarely does that come to pass. Stated simply,I would have to say that I am seeking my best friend(forever) with benefits. I have a very passionate nature, passionate in all that I do and towards all those I care about. A few quick things that come to mind include family, friends, good causes and my sports teams! (Lightning, Rays and Redskins.) I would just like to meet someone that simply knows how to be straightforward, is honest and can communicate his thoughts and feelings, someone that isn't into playing games and saying things he doesn't truly mean. I want to start by just getting to know someone that is seriously interested in doing the same and has the time to spend having fun and enjoying one anothers company.One of my favorite sayings: “There is never enough time in the year; try to live and love every day. Life is short, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably and never regret anything that made you smile”!! It seems as though I also need to mention that we all have personal preferences and because I am somewhat taller for a female, I am looking to meet someone that is minimally 6' as well as someone that believes in staying fit and considers exercise a lifestyle choice. Thanks for understanding and best of luck to everyone! This really depends on the comfort level of the two individuals involved. I would be willing to do almost anything on a first date and have....oh wait! Maybe I should qualify that... that could definitely be interpreted the wrong way! I am not a fan of going for a drink. It's funny, but there are a lot of people who prefer to do that thinking if you don't connect with a person it is short and sweet and you can go your seperate ways quickly. I am not a big drinker and I find that it can be very ackward sitting across from someone staring at them with nothing to say and nothing to distract us. On the other hand, if you partake in an activity/event, there is something that takes the focus/tension off of the two people, should it come to that.I enjoy going to a movie, going to a sporting event, art festival, any outdoor event going on around town... I've even gone to the gym on a first date! So make a suggestion... I'll look forward to hearing from you!

  • Kaela


    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    ***Model, low mileage, rides well, reliable, dependable, no rust but a few dings here and there. Needs a permanant driver. Not much room for baggage. Shrinking daily. Somewhat between a big ol truck and a lil extra. You may hear the radio set to a country station or classic rock and some pop every now and then. Handles like a dream when treated properly so must have a smooth hand. Can get a little freaky at times. Hugs the road with the right driver. Can be found at sporting events, concerts and parks. You may find a tween and a teen passenger inside. Truely a reliable and trustworthy piece of work. Charming and if you could see it right now,,,you would see a smile.Only good drivers need apply. So go ahead and send me a message. :)p.s. To save us all some time this model is seeking only caucasian drivers. Some place we are comfortable and able to talk and get to know each other.

  • Shakia


    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I love to go fishing and camping. I really love the outdoors. I like to sew and make things (crafting). I like to be creative and learn new things. I am caring and loyal. Family is important to me and I enjoy spending time with mine. I come from a large family and am the oldest of six kids. I also have a son and daughter of my own. I have been a single mom for about 17 years and am very independent. I like adult alternative music, 80's music, and some of the popular music on the radio today. I am friendly and very laid back but can also be crazy and outgoing. It just depends on my mood and the people I am with. I am looking forward to meeting someone new and getting to know them. I am looking for someone to spend time with and enjoy what life has to offer. I am looking for someone that is honest and loyal, someone that can accept and appreciate me as I am. For a first date I would want to meet somewhere public like a coffee shop or cafe so that we could talk and get to know each other but be in a safe environment. I don't want to be distrustful but in this day and age you have to be careful, Meeting at a park would be OK too.

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