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Hildegarde, 44

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About Me

I am a very logical, common sense person. Honest & trustworthy but have a very low tolerance for BS & games. In person, I am shy and somewhat reserved at first , but goofy, quirky & fun the more comfortable I get. I love to laugh, smile & have fun... and I would go out of my way for the person I love, but I can't build you up & put you on a pedestal if I don't trust & respect you first. I am looking for : a kind-hearted, dependable & loving gentleman that enjoys the simple things in life. Someone I can trust... A man of his word. A man who takes responsibility for himself, his actions, his family and home; and who has a good work ethic. Someone who is faithful, who respects the person he's with enough to give the relationship 100%, who's willing to truly work as a team to make it work. Someone who loves God, who enjoys watching football, walking/running, going to the beach, movies, music, festivals and road trips. Someone who likes to hold hands, someone who is inspired & passionate about what he loves & believes in. Anyone can *say* they like/love and appreciate you. I want someone who shows it... not so much with material gifts, but with their behavior. I love a BIG heart, but also a strong back bone. I LOVE integrity - doing whats right even when it's not popular; doing what's right even when no one's watching. Treating others the way you want them to treat you. What I'm not looking for (i.e. BS): ***Negativity: Life is way too short be so focused on the negative. If you're unhappy with your job or some aspect of your life, do something about it. Complaining solves nothing. ***Game player: I have no interest in someone who makes plans they have no intention of keeping; who's so self-centered that they give no thought or concern about wasting other people's time, etc - You will always know exactly where you stand with me. I expect and want the same. Speak up. No games. ***I am also not interested in people with constant unnecessary drama in their life or those who go out of their way to create it. If you have an ongoing battle with your ex(es), baby drama, more than one baby momma, unable to pay your bills, take care of your responsibilities and constantly blame everyone else (except yourself) for your life woes, We are not a match. I live a simple, drama-free life because I prefer it that way. Anywhere quiet so we can talk & get to know one another better

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Austyn

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am physically, emotionally & spiritually well balanced. I sum up my lifestyle as being active & healthy. I do not sweat the small stuff...life is way too short.I find happiness with: Being with family, life, the smell of the ocean, the wind in my face, fresh sushi, hugs, my flip-flops, laughing, my cooking, the young & the elderly, my little black dress & heels, current events, a friendly smile from a stranger, children, coffee in the morning, my pillow, being a RN, suba diving, taking vacation, pearling on my surfboard :) , wild flowers, avocados, people with an attitude of gratitude, sand under my feet, giving and getting foot rubs, reading novels, candles, animals, putting on my fav pair of jeans, grilled mahi mahi, pure mountain air, being surrounded by water, single track mountain biking, fresh fruit & vegies, sunsets, my hair stylist, the sound that wind makes, my 4 iron golf club, a good solid 60 minute workout at the gym, smelling roses, random acts of kindness, my sound machine set on rain, lots of kissing, traveling, a good night of sleep, having fun with my girlfriend and her kids, making my lunch for work, shopping at nordstroms, throwing on my baseball hat with pony tail sticking out the back, kfi ***am, driving on pch with my window down, key lime pie, singing in the shower, rain storms, butter popcorn at the movies, rhythm from all different kinds of music, riding motorcycles, the wilderness, good communication & photography....this list could go on and on & what a blessing that is! I deter from: Egotism, liars, pessimism, mushrooms & people who are not happy from within (you know who you are.)I am looking for an emotionally available, strong and honest man. A man who knows how to love a woman & wants to! A man who wants a woman by his side treating him with love & kindness. A sensual, confident man with humility! Yep.. this is the kind of man I will find or who will find me. Lets meet for coffee & see if their is a mutual attraction

  • Lyndsay

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Yes, I do smile. All the time actually. I just don't like to in pics. Makes me look like a bubble butt. :)***Update: I know Im not a Beauty Queen, but I also know Im not the Bride of Frankenstein either. Having said that, I do have a type....just like everyone else on this site. We all decide to *** on what we are attracted to. That doesn't mean I base everything on looks. But you have to start somewhere. Let me just say now, if you *** I dont respond....I am sorry. There is nothing wrong with you or with me. Just means there wasnt enough in common to start anything. About Me:***......I am currently a work in progress. I woke one morning and finally decided it was now or never. I am down 20 lbs and back in the gym. However, if you read this....I still am not one of those health freak types. I have just reached a point in my life where I want to look better and feel better. it's for me and me alone. I live on my own my my son who just turned 15. I also have a daughter who is 21 and on her own and soon to be married. I've been divorced now for 5 years and have been in a couple of serious relationships and dated several times. I was burned pretty bad in this last relationship,but I am back looking again. (Crazy fool huh?) I honestly don't think all men are the same. I'm a very positive thinking person and I know there is someone out there for me. A little about me...... I have a somewhat sarcastic sense of humor. So you have to be able to handle that. I cant help it. I love to laugh and feel that laughter warms the heart. I rarely meet a stranger and am easy to get along with and always wake up in a good mood. I'm an excellent cook, or so I've been told. I believe that love and friendship is a two-way street. Although it is rare that both people in a relationship give the same amount at the same time; it is important they both strive to give at least 100% at all times. Its my opinion, when you care about someone, you want to please them and make them happy (without keeping score). Seeing them happy, makes you happy. If both parties are of this belief life would be so much easier.I love to watch movies.). Am willing to try new things, although I'm afraid of heights, so no jumping out of an airplane please. I try to keep an open mind. I don't feel that I am at all clingy. I like to have my alone time just like anyone else. I really don't like double standards. While I think being healthy and taking care of yourself is important, its not the end of the world if you gain a few pounds. I dress nice, fix my hair and I fix my face. BUT....I'm not going to stress out over 10 pounds! If you think that is where true beauty lies, move on please....I'm not for you. Besides, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Although I'd say I'm Average in body type, I listed A few extra pounds. Average is subjective. Most of the men in my life have said I am curvy & large in all the right places. Maybe a little thick (working on that), but no where near large. Again, I think I'm average.What I'm looking for......I'd like to find someone that I can be myself with. Whether I need to be serious, silly or a little bit crazy. I don't want someone that I would be afraid of being honest with. Life is too short to waste time being judgmental or unforgiving. If someone hurts me, I get over it quickly. And I forgive quickly. Almost to a fault. I expect the same in return. I am not perfect, so I WILL make mistakes. As will you. Please don't humiliate me for it. I'm a great conversationalist and naturally Id like to find another. Show an interest in me. I don't have a problem txtn/emailing you, but if you don't ask questions or take the initiative to reach out to me 1st at times, I might get the impression you're just not that into me. Seriously. If you don't know what to say, ask me about the weather! I can work with that. I'm a little old fashioned. I like the guy to take some initiative. I'm not looking for perfection. Not even close. I want to be loved, to love, to be respected and appreciated. There isn't anything I wouldn't do for those I care about. Last but not least......chemistry. Its a must. If it's not there, why bother?I don't know what else to say, It's rather hard to find things to write about yourself without sounding too negative or overly confident. I guess to sum it up, I think I am fun to be around and interesting. I know I must have some faults though..........Maybe not. Just kiddin. I am looking for someone who would be kind & gentle natured. Slow to anger and quick to forgive. Someone who can be serious, funny, passionate and knows how to treat a lady. I am looking to find that kind of relationship that just the thought of seeing the person puts a smile on my face. Someone to always look forward to seeing and spending time with. I think this is what we are all looking for. First date would probably be dinner and a movie or dinner and someplace quiet to talk. I would rather get to know the person. I am not hard to please.

  • Maribeth

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am genuine, outgoing, and love to smile and laugh. I can be a complete goof, but also have a serious enough side that seems to attract people telling me some of their deepest secrets or problems. I am honored when people put their trust in me, and I take that trust seriously. I would describe myself physically as kind of athletically curvy - if there is such a thing! I am easy going and open minded, and would like to find someone of a similar mindset. I love to golf, cook, travel, spend time at the lake - (camping or cabin life). I don't have kids, but I love having them in my life (and they seem to like me!)...it just didn't happen for me. My dog is a big part of my life...she has been a solid companion through good and not so good times. I return the favor by being dog's best friend. Not a crazy dog lady - just someone who recognizes that I am her world. Obviously a dog person, but also grew up with horses and a veritable 'arc' of animals, and so have a huge appreciation for animals in general. Giving back to our community is important to me - I do it in my daily job, as well as in volunteer capacities. I am creative, and enjoy photography, travel, drives, watching planes at the airport, ski boats, sailboats - anything near water Except my golf ball); mornings at the farmers market with a good coffee, hockey/football games, or going to see a movie or a play at MTC. As fas as music... my radio is often set to 103, 106, ***& CBC...- pretty much everything except heavy metal...and even that has its little place. I am a positive person, who appreciates the little things in life... the smell of the rain, the sound of the leaves in the wind, comforts of home, spending time with friends. Integrity is important to me, as is communication, and thoughtfulness. I can be the life of a room, but also very much so appreciate quiet times and some solitude. I have an incredibly full life, but it is missing sharing part of it with someone special. I would say what makes me stand out it is my smile, laugh and outgoing personality. I will talk to anyone - from street people to CEOs. We are all people and deserve respect! When you get to know me, you would find that I would do anything for those who are close to me. I am very affectionate, and enjoy close and meaningful relationships .As far as my expectations: I am looking to meet someone to get to know, and have fun... from there we see what happens! I may send you a message commenting on something that strikes me as interesting, I am not afraid to tell you! I would love to meet someone who has a positive outlook, and sees their beer stein as half full! The one thing I don't really understand is why so many guys have pictures where they look slightly 'mean' or possibly incarcerated ;) Just not what I am looking for!! Smiles everyone, smiles. Cheers! Depending on the season/mutual interests, I imagine a coffee/tea date would be nice - or meeting for a drink, or a casual dinner, walk in a park, movie, bowling or whatever works! I am pretty easy going and often willing to try anything new!

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