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Hildegarde, 44

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About Me

I am a very logical, common sense person. Honest & trustworthy but have a very low tolerance for BS & games. In person, I am shy and somewhat reserved at first , but goofy, quirky & fun the more comfortable I get. I love to laugh, smile & have fun... and I would go out of my way for the person I love, but I can't build you up & put you on a pedestal if I don't trust & respect you first. I am looking for : a kind-hearted, dependable & loving gentleman that enjoys the simple things in life. Someone I can trust... A man of his word. A man who takes responsibility for himself, his actions, his family and home; and who has a good work ethic. Someone who is faithful, who respects the person he's with enough to give the relationship 100%, who's willing to truly work as a team to make it work. Someone who loves God, who enjoys watching football, walking/running, going to the beach, movies, music, festivals and road trips. Someone who likes to hold hands, someone who is inspired & passionate about what he loves & believes in. Anyone can *say* they like/love and appreciate you. I want someone who shows it... not so much with material gifts, but with their behavior. I love a BIG heart, but also a strong back bone. I LOVE integrity - doing whats right even when it's not popular; doing what's right even when no one's watching. Treating others the way you want them to treat you. What I'm not looking for (i.e. BS): ***Negativity: Life is way too short be so focused on the negative. If you're unhappy with your job or some aspect of your life, do something about it. Complaining solves nothing. ***Game player: I have no interest in someone who makes plans they have no intention of keeping; who's so self-centered that they give no thought or concern about wasting other people's time, etc - You will always know exactly where you stand with me. I expect and want the same. Speak up. No games. ***I am also not interested in people with constant unnecessary drama in their life or those who go out of their way to create it. If you have an ongoing battle with your ex(es), baby drama, more than one baby momma, unable to pay your bills, take care of your responsibilities and constantly blame everyone else (except yourself) for your life woes, We are not a match. I live a simple, drama-free life because I prefer it that way. Anywhere quiet so we can talk & get to know one another better

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rebecka

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Where are you? For me, a true connection is hard to find. I have a great life so finding a match for me would be icing on the cake. I keep pretty busy working and playing and going to grad school so my match would need to understand my schedule and work around it. I would expect my match to have a life without me and still do those things that he loves. There is a place in a relationship to be with our friends and do our own thing as well as be together. In my free time I enjoy going to festivals, dancing to live music, watching movies, creating art, and traveling. I also enjoy the great outdoors and adventures. I am an avid recycler and am also into alternative healing. I am rather shy but once you get to know me I am silly and very open. I value honesty, compassion ,and flexibility. I would love to be with someone who is easy going, fun, and funny. So, if you are out there and are a gentleman who respects woman, I'd love to hear from you. I would like to meet as friends first to see if we like each other in person. A casual coffee or drink is a good start. If we have a connection, who knows, it could turn into dinner. After that I have no idea. If I'm with someone I like it doesn't really matter what we do.

  • Emeline

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi there - About me - I'm generally laid back, low maintenance, and I like to laugh. I'm comfortable in just about any setting and have a variety of interests. I have an adventurous spirit and like to try new things. I love to be outside and active, especially on a sunny day, and love to do anything that involves water. I'm honest and direct, sometimes to a fault, and I don't play games. I guess like most people on this site I'm looking to meet someone that I connect with. I tend to like confident men with integrity, someone who knows who he is and what he wants, is genuine, and has the ability to be compassionate and kind. I am more attracted to the guy who drinks beer and drives a pickup than I am the guy who drinks martinis and drives a sports car.My life is pretty good but having a partner to share it with would be nice. I'd like to meet the right guy, but new friends are great too. Drop me a line if you want to chat!

  • Cherelle

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I enjoy the simple things in life. I have strong family values and a good work ethic, looking for the same. Enjoy walking and talking.

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