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Hildegarde, 44
United States, Nebraska, Aurora

Offline, last seen Sun, 26 Apr 2026 01:45:58

About Me

I am a very logical, common sense person. Honest & trustworthy but have a very low tolerance for BS & games. In person, I am shy and somewhat reserved at first , but goofy, quirky & fun the more comfortable I get. I love to laugh, smile & have fun... and I would go out of my way for the person I love, but I can't build you up & put you on a pedestal if I don't trust & respect you first. I am looking for : a kind-hearted, dependable & loving gentleman that enjoys the simple things in life. Someone I can trust... A man of his word. A man who takes responsibility for himself, his actions, his family and home; and who has a good work ethic. Someone who is faithful, who respects the person he's with enough to give the relationship 100%, who's willing to truly work as a team to make it work. Someone who loves God, who enjoys watching football, walking/running, going to the beach, movies, music, festivals and road trips. Someone who likes to hold hands, someone who is inspired & passionate about what he loves & believes in. Anyone can *say* they like/love and appreciate you. I want someone who shows it... not so much with material gifts, but with their behavior. I love a BIG heart, but also a strong back bone. I LOVE integrity - doing whats right even when it's not popular; doing what's right even when no one's watching. Treating others the way you want them to treat you. What I'm not looking for (i.e. BS): ***Negativity: Life is way too short be so focused on the negative. If you're unhappy with your job or some aspect of your life, do something about it. Complaining solves nothing. ***Game player: I have no interest in someone who makes plans they have no intention of keeping; who's so self-centered that they give no thought or concern about wasting other people's time, etc - You will always know exactly where you stand with me. I expect and want the same. Speak up. No games. ***I am also not interested in people with constant unnecessary drama in their life or those who go out of their way to create it. If you have an ongoing battle with your ex(es), baby drama, more than one baby momma, unable to pay your bills, take care of your responsibilities and constantly blame everyone else (except yourself) for your life woes, We are not a match. I live a simple, drama-free life because I prefer it that way. Anywhere quiet so we can talk & get to know one another better

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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