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About Me

First let me say that I am a bit old fashioned, If a man doesn't have the courage to write me a message to say hi when he is interested and see if there is any connection then I don't view him as a person I'd be interested in. I'm not into people that can't take the bull by the horns so to speak. :-) I am normally attracted to someone who is out going but not prideful and self involved. I also like the person I'm dating to be in somewhat good shape(not perfect) and not be too thin. I need someone to hold onto...lol. I'm a bit like a sweet quiet storm that is nice to enjoy and is soothing to the soul. The kind that makes you want to cuddle up and just listen as it rumbles in the distance, And sometimes I'm bright, sudden, exciting and fun. The kind that gets your heart beating fast! That makes you want to dance and feel the sweet rain on your skin. I am a mixture of both the quiet, peaceful, serene, laid back part of the world but I also get charged, eager, passionate and ready for the excitement that the world has to offer. Why pick just one way to live. I'm here to learn and enjoy life along with learning from my mistakes, and I have made many mistakes in life and am humbled. I'm hoping that I can find someone who understands the true meaning of being humbled and can be thankful for all the blessings that are given to us to try again and again. I am not one of those who believes that I am always right, actually everyone has a rightness in their own logic but it comes down to finding the best way to accomplish things together with compromise on both sides. My relationship with God is also very important to me and I hope to find someone that may not be perfect but loves God and strives to be a better person everyday. I'm extremely honest and loyal and never falter in my promises to be true to the person I love. I was married for 17yrs and there is no drama or craziness between my ex and I. We are still friends and on good terms with each other. I am a very cuddly type of person and I love to give hugs and touches through out the day to the person I love. I am not object-oriented, materialistic or overly concerned with fashion and looks but I work hard to be able have adventures and I keep myself in pretty good shape. I'm not the kind you will find in a gym but I prefer to workout in the beautiful outdoors whether it's raining or not, bring it on. :-) I don't like to crowd others, and sometimes need space to myself but I also love get togethers with friends and family.I'm a phlebotomist who loves my work. I work with donors who are amazing and giving. I am blessed with a job that can help save peoples lives and it humbles me.I have three great children-18, 7 and 6, full of energy who like to do anything outside. We like to go camping, hiking and swimming. As long as it's outside they're up for it, even helping out doing yardwork.I also love to joke around so If I like you, you're in for it ;-)PS. If you don't have your divorce papers signed and dated please do not contact me. It's a waste of everyone's time and energy. I like to go on walks in a park or laying on a lawn and talking when I first meet someone, but I'm open to whatever you'd like. :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Lashon

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I didn't want to do this, but a friend talked me into it, so here I am...stepping out into the boat and making my first cast out into the online sea of fish. And for once, I'm totally at a loss to know what kinda lure to use lol :PABOUT ME: I'm a happy go lucky girl that is blessed and grateful to have worked hard to achieve pretty much everything in life that I've ever dreamed of. I'm just missing the cheese to my macaroni (bonus if you know what movie this is from); a companion who can commit to enjoying this ride called life with me. I will say up front that I'm so much more than meets the eye and will give you a run for your money activity wise lol. I am very laid back, have a huge heart, am extremely loving, and am a unique combination of a tomboy and a lady. I dress for the occasion, but on average, I wear very little to no makeup (I'm told this suits me) and am perfectly comfortable in a tshirt and jeans or stilettos and an evening gown.Indoors, I enjoy reading, doing jigsaw puzzles, playing brain games (logic puzzles, sudokus, crosswords, etc.), video games and watching sports. If you LOVE sports and really enjoy spending Sundays watching the NFL ticket and keeping up with your fantasy team, we are definitely going to get along. One of my bucket list items is to go see a game at every NFL and MLB stadium. I have plenty of stadiums left to see and would love to share that with a guy that would appreciate that type of thing.I enjoy being outdoors too biking, hiking, fishing, shooting, and going to concerts (and so much more). My music taste ranges from country, top 40, metal, to rap and I even play classical music (flute) and I love to dance. If you can drive a boat you get bonus points!! :D ABOUT YOU: I am looking for an unselfish man of integrity that knows how to prioritize and treat a woman with the love, common courtesy and respect that she deserves. He knows what he wants, is honest and true to his word, is willing to commit (if it comes to that), and doesn't cheat or play mind games. I need a kind-hearted man that is emotionally intelligent, is confident in who he is, loves to laugh and play and would be proud to have a girl like me that: enjoys many of the same activities, is intelligent, owns my home and car and makes a good living. Ideally, my match would enjoy spontaneous (or planned) traveling...whether it be day trips to museums or historic sites, weekend trips to the beach, lake, mountains, or awesome vacations to go see some of the many wonders of the world. He would also enjoy evenings in cooking dinner, sipping beverages of choice and just spending some time together watching our favorite tv shows, movies, snuggling and chatting. A sports fan would be a bonus. I would be blessed to find a guy that values family (and wants to build a strong one) and understands that his companionship, love, and willingness to play don't cost a thing, but they are are priceless in my eyes. If it sounds like I'm what you're looking for...what can it hurt? I'd like to hear from you :) Going to a sporting event, grabbing lunch, dinner or drinks, hiking, biking, dancing, playing pool, etc. Honestly, I would be up for almost anything and just happy and appreciative that you took the time to plan something fun for us to do :)

  • Milissa

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I have explored alot of it and continue to do so. I love salt water fishing, beaching, just about anything outdoors I love. A few goals I have is to get my Bachelors degree in my profession,I love what I do for a living. Knowing I was able to let someone be with there loved ones another day is rewarding. Not everyone can hear about the medical field so if your soft stomached sorry. Things about me... I am straight forward, trust is everything once you broke it forget it go away! I think I am too compassionate and put others before myself but realizing I have lost alot by doing that so I am trying to put alittle piece of me first. The people close to me I will give the shirt off my back to them if I could. I am a loyal friend if I say it I will do it. Ones word speaks of there character I strongly believe.I have two boys and they are my world and first in my life, but I make time to enjoy mine as well.I want to live my life with no regrets and experience everything that there is to offer and having having fun all in one. Don't mind going to a sports bar and having a couple but won't become a slush just like the atmospher sometimes to break up the everyday routine oh and a good cheeseburger helps. For the first date...Well I wouldn't say a date but definately in a very public place meeting. Enjoy a good time laughing and enjoying the company and see how well it goes. You never know I might have a friend that you get along with better who is single "chuckles"

  • Lyndsay

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Yes, I do smile. All the time actually. I just don't like to in pics. Makes me look like a bubble butt. :)***Update: I know Im not a Beauty Queen, but I also know Im not the Bride of Frankenstein either. Having said that, I do have a type....just like everyone else on this site. We all decide to *** on what we are attracted to. That doesn't mean I base everything on looks. But you have to start somewhere. Let me just say now, if you *** I dont respond....I am sorry. There is nothing wrong with you or with me. Just means there wasnt enough in common to start anything. About Me:***......I am currently a work in progress. I woke one morning and finally decided it was now or never. I am down 20 lbs and back in the gym. However, if you read this....I still am not one of those health freak types. I have just reached a point in my life where I want to look better and feel better. it's for me and me alone. I live on my own my my son who just turned 15. I also have a daughter who is 21 and on her own and soon to be married. I've been divorced now for 5 years and have been in a couple of serious relationships and dated several times. I was burned pretty bad in this last relationship,but I am back looking again. (Crazy fool huh?) I honestly don't think all men are the same. I'm a very positive thinking person and I know there is someone out there for me. A little about me...... I have a somewhat sarcastic sense of humor. So you have to be able to handle that. I cant help it. I love to laugh and feel that laughter warms the heart. I rarely meet a stranger and am easy to get along with and always wake up in a good mood. I'm an excellent cook, or so I've been told. I believe that love and friendship is a two-way street. Although it is rare that both people in a relationship give the same amount at the same time; it is important they both strive to give at least 100% at all times. Its my opinion, when you care about someone, you want to please them and make them happy (without keeping score). Seeing them happy, makes you happy. If both parties are of this belief life would be so much easier.I love to watch movies.). Am willing to try new things, although I'm afraid of heights, so no jumping out of an airplane please. I try to keep an open mind. I don't feel that I am at all clingy. I like to have my alone time just like anyone else. I really don't like double standards. While I think being healthy and taking care of yourself is important, its not the end of the world if you gain a few pounds. I dress nice, fix my hair and I fix my face. BUT....I'm not going to stress out over 10 pounds! If you think that is where true beauty lies, move on please....I'm not for you. Besides, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Although I'd say I'm Average in body type, I listed A few extra pounds. Average is subjective. Most of the men in my life have said I am curvy & large in all the right places. Maybe a little thick (working on that), but no where near large. Again, I think I'm average.What I'm looking for......I'd like to find someone that I can be myself with. Whether I need to be serious, silly or a little bit crazy. I don't want someone that I would be afraid of being honest with. Life is too short to waste time being judgmental or unforgiving. If someone hurts me, I get over it quickly. And I forgive quickly. Almost to a fault. I expect the same in return. I am not perfect, so I WILL make mistakes. As will you. Please don't humiliate me for it. I'm a great conversationalist and naturally Id like to find another. Show an interest in me. I don't have a problem txtn/emailing you, but if you don't ask questions or take the initiative to reach out to me 1st at times, I might get the impression you're just not that into me. Seriously. If you don't know what to say, ask me about the weather! I can work with that. I'm a little old fashioned. I like the guy to take some initiative. I'm not looking for perfection. Not even close. I want to be loved, to love, to be respected and appreciated. There isn't anything I wouldn't do for those I care about. Last but not least......chemistry. Its a must. If it's not there, why bother?I don't know what else to say, It's rather hard to find things to write about yourself without sounding too negative or overly confident. I guess to sum it up, I think I am fun to be around and interesting. I know I must have some faults though..........Maybe not. Just kiddin. I am looking for someone who would be kind & gentle natured. Slow to anger and quick to forgive. Someone who can be serious, funny, passionate and knows how to treat a lady. I am looking to find that kind of relationship that just the thought of seeing the person puts a smile on my face. Someone to always look forward to seeing and spending time with. I think this is what we are all looking for. First date would probably be dinner and a movie or dinner and someplace quiet to talk. I would rather get to know the person. I am not hard to please.

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