• Aurora
• Nebraska
• United States

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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

Just ask me.. Well, that would be up to us :) There is NO "I" in "TEAM"!!)

• Aurora
• Nebraska
• United States

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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

Yes, I do smile. All the time actually. I just don't like to in pics. Makes me look like a bubble butt. :)***Update: I know Im not a Beauty Queen, but I also know Im not the Bride of Frankenstein either. Having said that, I do have a type....just like everyone else on this site. We all decide to *** on what we are attracted to. That doesn't mean I base everything on looks. But you have to start somewhere. Let me just say now, if you *** I dont respond....I am sorry. There is nothing wrong with you or with me. Just means there wasnt enough in common to start anything. About Me:***......I am currently a work in progress. I woke one morning and finally decided it was now or never. I am down 20 lbs and back in the gym. However, if you read this....I still am not one of those health freak types. I have just reached a point in my life where I want to look better and feel better. it's for me and me alone. I live on my own my my son who just turned 15. I also have a daughter who is 21 and on her own and soon to be married. I've been divorced now for 5 years and have been in a couple of serious relationships and dated several times. I was burned pretty bad in this last relationship,but I am back looking again. (Crazy fool huh?) I honestly don't think all men are the same. I'm a very positive thinking person and I know there is someone out there for me. A little about me...... I have a somewhat sarcastic sense of humor. So you have to be able to handle that. I cant help it. I love to laugh and feel that laughter warms the heart. I rarely meet a stranger and am easy to get along with and always wake up in a good mood. I'm an excellent cook, or so I've been told. I believe that love and friendship is a two-way street. Although it is rare that both people in a relationship give the same amount at the same time; it is important they both strive to give at least 100% at all times. Its my opinion, when you care about someone, you want to please them and make them happy (without keeping score). Seeing them happy, makes you happy. If both parties are of this belief life would be so much easier.I love to watch movies.). Am willing to try new things, although I'm afraid of heights, so no jumping out of an airplane please. I try to keep an open mind. I don't feel that I am at all clingy. I like to have my alone time just like anyone else. I really don't like double standards. While I think being healthy and taking care of yourself is important, its not the end of the world if you gain a few pounds. I dress nice, fix my hair and I fix my face. BUT....I'm not going to stress out over 10 pounds! If you think that is where true beauty lies, move on please....I'm not for you. Besides, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Although I'd say I'm Average in body type, I listed A few extra pounds. Average is subjective. Most of the men in my life have said I am curvy & large in all the right places. Maybe a little thick (working on that), but no where near large. Again, I think I'm average.What I'm looking for......I'd like to find someone that I can be myself with. Whether I need to be serious, silly or a little bit crazy. I don't want someone that I would be afraid of being honest with. Life is too short to waste time being judgmental or unforgiving. If someone hurts me, I get over it quickly. And I forgive quickly. Almost to a fault. I expect the same in return. I am not perfect, so I WILL make mistakes. As will you. Please don't humiliate me for it. I'm a great conversationalist and naturally Id like to find another. Show an interest in me. I don't have a problem txtn/emailing you, but if you don't ask questions or take the initiative to reach out to me 1st at times, I might get the impression you're just not that into me. Seriously. If you don't know what to say, ask me about the weather! I can work with that. I'm a little old fashioned. I like the guy to take some initiative. I'm not looking for perfection. Not even close. I want to be loved, to love, to be respected and appreciated. There isn't anything I wouldn't do for those I care about. Last but not least......chemistry. Its a must. If it's not there, why bother?I don't know what else to say, It's rather hard to find things to write about yourself without sounding too negative or overly confident. I guess to sum it up, I think I am fun to be around and interesting. I know I must have some faults though..........Maybe not. Just kiddin. I am looking for someone who would be kind & gentle natured. Slow to anger and quick to forgive. Someone who can be serious, funny, passionate and knows how to treat a lady. I am looking to find that kind of relationship that just the thought of seeing the person puts a smile on my face. Someone to always look forward to seeing and spending time with. I think this is what we are all looking for. First date would probably be dinner and a movie or dinner and someplace quiet to talk. I would rather get to know the person. I am not hard to please.

• Aurora
• Nebraska
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

I am genuine, outgoing, and love to smile and laugh. I can be a complete goof, but also have a serious enough side that seems to attract people telling me some of their deepest secrets or problems. I am honored when people put their trust in me, and I take that trust seriously. I would describe myself physically as kind of athletically curvy - if there is such a thing! I am easy going and open minded, and would like to find someone of a similar mindset. I love to golf, cook, travel, spend time at the lake - (camping or cabin life). I don't have kids, but I love having them in my life (and they seem to like me!)...it just didn't happen for me. My dog is a big part of my life...she has been a solid companion through good and not so good times. I return the favor by being dog's best friend. Not a crazy dog lady - just someone who recognizes that I am her world. Obviously a dog person, but also grew up with horses and a veritable 'arc' of animals, and so have a huge appreciation for animals in general. Giving back to our community is important to me - I do it in my daily job, as well as in volunteer capacities. I am creative, and enjoy photography, travel, drives, watching planes at the airport, ski boats, sailboats - anything near water Except my golf ball); mornings at the farmers market with a good coffee, hockey/football games, or going to see a movie or a play at MTC. As fas as music... my radio is often set to 103, 106, ***& CBC...- pretty much everything except heavy metal...and even that has its little place. I am a positive person, who appreciates the little things in life... the smell of the rain, the sound of the leaves in the wind, comforts of home, spending time with friends. Integrity is important to me, as is communication, and thoughtfulness. I can be the life of a room, but also very much so appreciate quiet times and some solitude. I have an incredibly full life, but it is missing sharing part of it with someone special. I would say what makes me stand out it is my smile, laugh and outgoing personality. I will talk to anyone - from street people to CEOs. We are all people and deserve respect! When you get to know me, you would find that I would do anything for those who are close to me. I am very affectionate, and enjoy close and meaningful relationships .As far as my expectations: I am looking to meet someone to get to know, and have fun... from there we see what happens! I may send you a message commenting on something that strikes me as interesting, I am not afraid to tell you! I would love to meet someone who has a positive outlook, and sees their beer stein as half full! The one thing I don't really understand is why so many guys have pictures where they look slightly 'mean' or possibly incarcerated ;) Just not what I am looking for!! Smiles everyone, smiles. Cheers! Depending on the season/mutual interests, I imagine a coffee/tea date would be nice - or meeting for a drink, or a casual dinner, walk in a park, movie, bowling or whatever works! I am pretty easy going and often willing to try anything new!