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Heleen, 42

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About Me

They say the best way to describe yourself is 'what would your best friend say about you?' So I asked them and they said: intelligent, funny, sarcastic, stubborn, ecclectic, fiercely loyal, caring and compassionate almost to a fault, strong, and independent. I would say that's pretty accurate. My daughter is almost 17 and is the light of my life and my number one priority. But she is at that age where she has her own things going on and I've found that when I have my own things going on, I'm a much better mom.I love all kinds of music (my iTunes is huge and a bit schizophrenic), I like movies (mostly comedies, action and psychological thrillers), I love doing random, silly things and totally not acting my age, spending time with friends and family and being outside when the weather is nice. I don't hunt or fish. If you do, awesome! If you don't ask me to sit in a boat and bait your hook, I won't ask you to go to a shoe sale and hold my purse. :-) Everyone should have their separate interests and hobbies that are just for them. I am looking for the same things most people are looking for: honesty, loyalty, caring, compassion, chemistry. It is nice to be needed but to be wanted is amazing. But there are those little things that you just can't quite put your finger on.....those are the best things.I could ramble on some more but probably shouldn't. :-)If there is anything you would like to know, feel free to ask!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Daniele

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hello and welcome to my profile...I have been on this sight a few times looking for the possible "one" as they say. I have met a few very good friends and have also met a few that I can say I wish I hadn't..haha! I have no high expectations of meeting my soul mate on here but I continue to try. With the busy times of everyday life it is nice to branch out in other directions to meet people. Not everyone is on here looking for the same thing I am. Believe me when I say I am not looking for the one night stand and don't want to be messaged if that is your intention. There are way too many of those on here...Have had way to many indecent proposals.I am a responsible person that has my act together. I have a full time job I have been at for 13 years. I own my home, have my own car etc... I am not looking for a sugar daddy or someone to take care of me. Although taking care of one another and being partners in life is my ultimate goal in finding a good match. I want to share friendship, companionship, responsibility and truly support one another on every level. Someone who has a sense of humor, is honest, is happy in their life and with themselves, is responsible and has a good heart are key attributes I look for. I am most attracted to those qualities as well as someone who takes care of themselves, is not clingy, has a positive attitude, and finds reasons to smile everyday, even on those tough days. I also have to say I am a sucker for blue eyes, a little muscle, darker hair and tattoos are a plus. I have tattoos as well so that needs to be ok with you. Being a sucker for those things does not close my mind to others though. I am fine if you don't have tattoos, have blonde, grey or other colored hair or no hair at all.I do work out and take care of myself and would prefer the same. I am not perfect and don't expect my partner to be either.If you are interested in chatting send me a message. Happy fishing... :-) Anything the two of us can agree on...a beer or coffee for a 1st meet is usually best and then go from there.

  • Jaimee

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I only want one man...One faithful, honest, hard working, good looking man in CLOSE proximity to me.....who takes care of himself...WHY is this so hard???? I am not interested in dating around or getting involved with alot of people at one time and I'm not interested in someone who is dating around trying to find them selves or who is just a player. I would enjoy making a friend here or there and sharing time with the right person. I am not interested in competing for your time with all the others. I am selfish that way...I can't help it. I am selective and just would like to meet a nice,simple, genuine, person who enjoys being happy and laughing who is honest and real. I am an honest, and faithful person, and I will accept nothing less than that in return. I am not a needy, clingy type of woman, and am certainly not looking for someone who wants that from me...OR who is that way themselves. I have no problem with love, affection or attention, but also enjoy my own space as well, as I think that you should to. I would love to meet someone who is genuine in their feelings and intentions, who is real, and is not looking to play games. I am old enough to know what I want, and will not settle for less. I am not looking for drama, liars, cheaters, or random sex. I just want to take the time to get to know someone , spend some time with them, hang out and have some fun, develop a friendship, go on a few dates and just see where it goes from there. I do have a 16 year old daughter and she is the biggest part of my life, so if that presents an issue with you, then it presents an issue for me. I have 4 dogs who are like my children. I also have a cat...if you do not like pets then we probably won't get along.I believe the cornerstone to ANY relationship worth having is friendship. In order to progress and to grow, you have to have someone with whom you can just enjoy their company, and nothing more! You have to be able to talk and to comminicate first and foremost. If you are ever going to get anywhere, you have to be able to just sit and hold a conversation with each other at the end of the day...if you can't, well then there really isn't much there to build on. I can be silly and adventurous or quiet and serious, depends on the time and place. I do not have to be entertained...I am quite happy hanging out at home with someone I care about, hanging out with a few friends, or going to a movie...going shopping, or something quite simple. It's really just the simple things in life that make me happy. I love going to the beach more than anything. I do not do the bar scene, it has never interested me much...and certainly does not at this point in my life. I don't really think that I will find what I am looking for there.If you are looking for the perfect woman to hang on your arm, please keep on looking. I am def. not the barbie type. I am most comfortable in jeans and flip flops or shorts and a t-shirt. I will never be one to wear heels and dresses, that's just so NOT me. I could honestly stand to lose a few pounds, and am currently working on improving that but am not going to take it to the extreme of not being able to enjoy life. I would love to find someone to work out with, as I do love to run and go to the gym. Please do not contact me if you don't have a photo posted. I will not respond. For me, there has to be an initial attraction. The pictures I have posted are from last year. *I do now wear glasses and will send an updated pix upon request..Want to know more? Send me an ***, and lets see where it may go from there.. If all else fails...I am always up for making new friends.Thank you for reading my profile and happy fishing. I think that meeting in a public place for dinner, conversation,drinks, coffee would be best. Something simple, No pressure, no strings.

  • Anjelica

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hello...Not really interested in putting up a detailed profile as I previously had on here. Gotta like what you see & I understand that. I am a single woman with a decent job and a daughter I just moved off to college. She comes home some weekends. I have my own home and my own vehicle and I know how to take care of myself. It would be nice to have a male friend around some. Not looking for a hookup or anything of that nature but also not looking to get serious overnight either. Ask away if you have any questions. Thanks. Whatever we decide...

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