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Lashon, 41

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About Me

I didn't want to do this, but a friend talked me into it, so here I am...stepping out into the boat and making my first cast out into the online sea of fish. And for once, I'm totally at a loss to know what kinda lure to use lol :PABOUT ME: I'm a happy go lucky girl that is blessed and grateful to have worked hard to achieve pretty much everything in life that I've ever dreamed of. I'm just missing the cheese to my macaroni (bonus if you know what movie this is from); a companion who can commit to enjoying this ride called life with me. I will say up front that I'm so much more than meets the eye and will give you a run for your money activity wise lol. I am very laid back, have a huge heart, am extremely loving, and am a unique combination of a tomboy and a lady. I dress for the occasion, but on average, I wear very little to no makeup (I'm told this suits me) and am perfectly comfortable in a tshirt and jeans or stilettos and an evening gown.Indoors, I enjoy reading, doing jigsaw puzzles, playing brain games (logic puzzles, sudokus, crosswords, etc.), video games and watching sports. If you LOVE sports and really enjoy spending Sundays watching the NFL ticket and keeping up with your fantasy team, we are definitely going to get along. One of my bucket list items is to go see a game at every NFL and MLB stadium. I have plenty of stadiums left to see and would love to share that with a guy that would appreciate that type of thing.I enjoy being outdoors too biking, hiking, fishing, shooting, and going to concerts (and so much more). My music taste ranges from country, top 40, metal, to rap and I even play classical music (flute) and I love to dance. If you can drive a boat you get bonus points!! :D ABOUT YOU: I am looking for an unselfish man of integrity that knows how to prioritize and treat a woman with the love, common courtesy and respect that she deserves. He knows what he wants, is honest and true to his word, is willing to commit (if it comes to that), and doesn't cheat or play mind games. I need a kind-hearted man that is emotionally intelligent, is confident in who he is, loves to laugh and play and would be proud to have a girl like me that: enjoys many of the same activities, is intelligent, owns my home and car and makes a good living. Ideally, my match would enjoy spontaneous (or planned) traveling...whether it be day trips to museums or historic sites, weekend trips to the beach, lake, mountains, or awesome vacations to go see some of the many wonders of the world. He would also enjoy evenings in cooking dinner, sipping beverages of choice and just spending some time together watching our favorite tv shows, movies, snuggling and chatting. A sports fan would be a bonus. I would be blessed to find a guy that values family (and wants to build a strong one) and understands that his companionship, love, and willingness to play don't cost a thing, but they are are priceless in my eyes. If it sounds like I'm what you're looking for...what can it hurt? I'd like to hear from you :) Going to a sporting event, grabbing lunch, dinner or drinks, hiking, biking, dancing, playing pool, etc. Honestly, I would be up for almost anything and just happy and appreciative that you took the time to plan something fun for us to do :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mckinley

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Where do I start, independent, secure with myself and priorities straight. Or the same stuff adventurous, fun and giving ect. I have a lot to offer to the right person. Very simple, definitely doesn't take a lot to make me smile. Simple things in life mean so much. I have 2 amazing kids. My children are my world, they will always come first..I have tattoos and piercings, just being up front. I don't mind getting dirty, also love getting dressed up. Love the outdoors. I have a license for both motorcycle and pistol. Want to know more, I would be happy to tell you. Just being able to sit somewhere and have a conversation with someone. See if there are butterflies, Sparks, or to even maybe make a new friendship.

  • Jaimee

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I only want one man...One faithful, honest, hard working, good looking man in CLOSE proximity to me.....who takes care of himself...WHY is this so hard???? I am not interested in dating around or getting involved with alot of people at one time and I'm not interested in someone who is dating around trying to find them selves or who is just a player. I would enjoy making a friend here or there and sharing time with the right person. I am not interested in competing for your time with all the others. I am selfish that way...I can't help it. I am selective and just would like to meet a nice,simple, genuine, person who enjoys being happy and laughing who is honest and real. I am an honest, and faithful person, and I will accept nothing less than that in return. I am not a needy, clingy type of woman, and am certainly not looking for someone who wants that from me...OR who is that way themselves. I have no problem with love, affection or attention, but also enjoy my own space as well, as I think that you should to. I would love to meet someone who is genuine in their feelings and intentions, who is real, and is not looking to play games. I am old enough to know what I want, and will not settle for less. I am not looking for drama, liars, cheaters, or random sex. I just want to take the time to get to know someone , spend some time with them, hang out and have some fun, develop a friendship, go on a few dates and just see where it goes from there. I do have a 16 year old daughter and she is the biggest part of my life, so if that presents an issue with you, then it presents an issue for me. I have 4 dogs who are like my children. I also have a cat...if you do not like pets then we probably won't get along.I believe the cornerstone to ANY relationship worth having is friendship. In order to progress and to grow, you have to have someone with whom you can just enjoy their company, and nothing more! You have to be able to talk and to comminicate first and foremost. If you are ever going to get anywhere, you have to be able to just sit and hold a conversation with each other at the end of the day...if you can't, well then there really isn't much there to build on. I can be silly and adventurous or quiet and serious, depends on the time and place. I do not have to be entertained...I am quite happy hanging out at home with someone I care about, hanging out with a few friends, or going to a movie...going shopping, or something quite simple. It's really just the simple things in life that make me happy. I love going to the beach more than anything. I do not do the bar scene, it has never interested me much...and certainly does not at this point in my life. I don't really think that I will find what I am looking for there.If you are looking for the perfect woman to hang on your arm, please keep on looking. I am def. not the barbie type. I am most comfortable in jeans and flip flops or shorts and a t-shirt. I will never be one to wear heels and dresses, that's just so NOT me. I could honestly stand to lose a few pounds, and am currently working on improving that but am not going to take it to the extreme of not being able to enjoy life. I would love to find someone to work out with, as I do love to run and go to the gym. Please do not contact me if you don't have a photo posted. I will not respond. For me, there has to be an initial attraction. The pictures I have posted are from last year. *I do now wear glasses and will send an updated pix upon request..Want to know more? Send me an ***, and lets see where it may go from there.. If all else fails...I am always up for making new friends.Thank you for reading my profile and happy fishing. I think that meeting in a public place for dinner, conversation,drinks, coffee would be best. Something simple, No pressure, no strings.

  • Hildegarde

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a very logical, common sense person. Honest & trustworthy but have a very low tolerance for BS & games. In person, I am shy and somewhat reserved at first , but goofy, quirky & fun the more comfortable I get. I love to laugh, smile & have fun... and I would go out of my way for the person I love, but I can't build you up & put you on a pedestal if I don't trust & respect you first. I am looking for : a kind-hearted, dependable & loving gentleman that enjoys the simple things in life. Someone I can trust... A man of his word. A man who takes responsibility for himself, his actions, his family and home; and who has a good work ethic. Someone who is faithful, who respects the person he's with enough to give the relationship 100%, who's willing to truly work as a team to make it work. Someone who loves God, who enjoys watching football, walking/running, going to the beach, movies, music, festivals and road trips. Someone who likes to hold hands, someone who is inspired & passionate about what he loves & believes in. Anyone can *say* they like/love and appreciate you. I want someone who shows it... not so much with material gifts, but with their behavior. I love a BIG heart, but also a strong back bone. I LOVE integrity - doing whats right even when it's not popular; doing what's right even when no one's watching. Treating others the way you want them to treat you. What I'm not looking for (i.e. BS): ***Negativity: Life is way too short be so focused on the negative. If you're unhappy with your job or some aspect of your life, do something about it. Complaining solves nothing. ***Game player: I have no interest in someone who makes plans they have no intention of keeping; who's so self-centered that they give no thought or concern about wasting other people's time, etc - You will always know exactly where you stand with me. I expect and want the same. Speak up. No games. ***I am also not interested in people with constant unnecessary drama in their life or those who go out of their way to create it. If you have an ongoing battle with your ex(es), baby drama, more than one baby momma, unable to pay your bills, take care of your responsibilities and constantly blame everyone else (except yourself) for your life woes, We are not a match. I live a simple, drama-free life because I prefer it that way. Anywhere quiet so we can talk & get to know one another better

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