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About Me

I am currently in a relationship that has lasted 9 years to date, and it has come to point to where we are making it a polyamorous (Having a relationship with more then one person) relationship. We have decided that if we find someone whom we form a strong connection with, then we are able to have a long term secondary relationship with that person. For a long term relationship I am looking for nice guys who are looking for something different, are willing to share, not jealous, and not possessive. A person that would want to hang out casually with the both of us, have a couple dates with myself, and that doesn't mind me splitting my time up between being with them and my family.I am very open minded and as long as you don't act like a jerk, I am willing to chat and see if we connect. We do have two children, so we cannot make plans at the last minute. We do require that both of us meet you before I will go on any dates. If you are really high on yourself or a creep, then please don't message me. If you are not either of those things, I will message you back. If you don't hear from me to quickly, it is because I only have a limited amount of time to reply and receive a lot of messages each day.We are both very easy to get along with and if you have any questions, please feel free to message me or my fiancée. My fiancée's profile is *** it can be found under Male seeking Female for long term.I/We would like it if you could send a pic or two to me if you don't have any posted on your profile.So lets recap my main points above.- I am looking for a possible long term relationship.- We must both meet you before any dates can occur.- I can't make last minute plans because I have two daughters.- If you are a creep or high on yourself, then don't bother messaging me.- I will reply to all messages that I get, unless you are to high on yourself or a creep.- If your profile has no pictures, then please send me some in your message to me. Depending on the person and the situation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I have moved back to Calaveras County after spending over 15 years living in the good old South and several in the DC jungle. I have 3 very active kids that I love spending time outdoors with. If you are not comfortable around kids, then I am probably not the girl for you. Life should be fun and full of happy moments. I love to laugh and enjoy spending time with people who smile a lot. I am a social person from a big family and have great friends. I would love to meet some one who likes to be around people but also likes to do things just the two of us.There are so many great things to do and places to visit in the foothills and the surrounding cities. I am truly blessed by my location. The possibilities are endless!I love to cook, garden, listen to live bands, hanging out with friends and family and being in the water! Now that summer is here I am ready to enjoy a more relaxed schedule and fill my spare time with fun activities! Tennis, soccer and golf are my favorite sports to play, I am a bit competitive. I also really enjoy traveling and trying new things and experiences. I have a great job, own a home and would love to meet some one who is also financially stable, loyal and honest. I am looking forward to making new friends and building new relationships, from there I guess we can see what happens. I have been out of the dating game for some time but any first date where we can hang out, talk, maybe grab a drink, have dinner and get to know each other would be fun. I am always open for suggestions. I am a bit old fashion so for me any first date though should be planned by the guy and when a guy says, "meet for coffee and see if anything is there," sort of sounds like a cop out to me. So something planned, that is fun where we can hang out, talk, maybe grab a drink, have dinner and get to know each other would be fun.

  • Dan

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a beautiful Italian woman who is a great mother, hard worker and a wonderful cook. I love life and am very grateful for my kids and job. I am looking for a man who has the same dreams as I. The passion to crave life to what I want. I feel that I work all the time and do not want to waste my precious moments looking for someone who says they are what they are not. No DRAMA. The real deal. coffee...

  • Kerenza

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Looking for that special someone who can make me smile and laugh each and every day. I have a motorcycle that I enjoy during the summer months. It would be wonderful to meet someone to share this experience with, since every nice day chances are good I will be on my bike heading wherever the roads takes me that day and hopefully you will be with me. I do not have any children however, I do have a 14 year old English Setter who is spoiled rotten and has been since I got him when he was 12 weeks old. I have a wonderful career that I enjoy most days like everything it has its moments. I am not looking to play head games have played enough of those. Please don't be shy. Drop me a line lets see where it goes. Coffee or a walk on the waterfront.

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