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Alessandra, 48
United States, Minnesota, Windom

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The sea must be very crowded these days. Maybe all the fish are crabs. I hear a lot from guppies, half my age or less. Not flattered. Not interested. Would only be interested in someone within 10 years of age 48. I would not hold much hope for us otherwise. Likes: Good company. Good sense of humor. Many types of music, especially rock, all eras. Laughing, sharing, planning AND being spontaneous, strength, honesty, creativity, intelligence, thoughtfulness, being proud. The little things. Passion. Having fun and enjoying life. Being responsible. Helping each other. Messages, notes, communication. Optimism. Respect. Understanding. Peace. Chemistry, sparks, butterflies. Kindness. Neatness. Handiness. Travel near and far. Straight shooters. Being real. I am as real and down to earth as they come.Dislikes: Drama, lying, excessive drinking or gambling. Being a grown man's mom. Smothering. Phones, unless you are calling to make me laugh, smile, or make plans, and don't keep me on one too long. Bossiness. Wastefulness. Selfishness. People who never seem happy and/or never smile. Users. Guys that put on a good front to impress in the beginning, and so it all falls apart later when the real guy becomes apparent. Thank you!I said I want to date but nothing serious. I also said I am just looking to hang out. This does not mean I am just looking for sex and I never want anything serious. Companionship is most important, being able to hang out like friends and have fun, and many, many things can be fun. If the time is right to get serious, and the feeling is mutual, then fine, we can get serious. If not, at least we tried and maybe made a new friend. Coffee and/or a walk in the park. Good conversation and see where it goes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Greek
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