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Bernardina, 47
United States, Minnesota, Windom

Offline, last seen Fri, 19 Dec 2025 02:19:02

About Me

Tired of working and sleeping. I would like to get a life in between. I have a 9 to 5, so to speak, office job and am co-owner of a flea market based business, specializing in art, depression, and collectible high end glass. I am celebrating having the first Saturday off in months by sitting at home semi watching a sorry "chick flick" on, of all things, the Lifetime channel cuddled on the sofa with a pot bellied pug. How pathetic is that? Just sayin'.Born and raised in IL. I love the ocean, it brings a certain peace and serenity. Not to mention landing a 20lb Red *** it's perks. I also enjoy live music and playing pool. Not much of a drinker or into the bar thing but as luck would have it, music and pool typically go hand in hand with bars. I rarely use the word hate but I hate karaoke. There are 2 types of people who participate in karaoke, those who can and those who can't. Not trying to hear those who can't, which is the majority of those who sing, and I am totally envious of those who can. I can't sing a single note no matter how hard I try. It's my belief that trucks should have 4 doors, cars should have 2 and minivans shouldn't exist. For me, a car must be equipped with at least 8 cylinders and a clutch. Speed freak to the core, I don't want to watch, I want to drive.I guess you can say that I am not your typical female. I do not like shopping, I go in get what I need and get out. I don't like spending money. Don't mind making it, I just like keeping it. Not a girly girl. I don't mind getting my hands dirty and will not cry if I break a nail. I will bait my own hook and be more than happy to let you take a fish off of it, as it just might be the only one you have a chance to touch all day. My friends call me if they need an alternator changed or their dryer fixed. Actually, that was the same friend. Anyway...I am honest, reliable and faithful. It's my philosophy that anything worth doing, is worth doing well. If you ask for my opinion make sure you really want it for it will not be sugar coated. Make no mistake I am not mean or vicious, just brutally honest. Morality, integrity and common sense are ones most valuable possessions.As i'm sure you have already guessed I do have a sense of humor, am opinionated and have a type A personality. Those are not bad things. I will stand up for those who cannot stand for themselves, speak for those who are not being heard, and I will advocate for what I believe to be good and right. I could be happy with a picnic on the tailgate of my truck, overlooking a lake, talking about life, love and the abyss into which all left socks disappear.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Martial Arts Sport Western Golf
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    Keren-Happuch

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'm looking for someone to enjoy my life with. I have 2 kids and a 4 yr old granddaughter who are my life!! We are goofy and silly, laugh a lot! I guess I'm looking for someone for the rainy days to cuddle with yet can handle my sarcastic sense of humor. I love to laugh!!! I don't want anyone with issues or drama or someone who's looking for an easy girl, I'm definitely not that! I love float trips, bbq, giving people trouble but like it in return. Only serious ones need to write me!! I'm not doing this just for the fun of it. I want someone to share my life with. Someone who knows how to treat a women, be respectful, considerate and caring, passionate and looking for the same in return. Be honest, i hate liars and cheaters!!!! just want peace and happiness :). I'm single because I choose to be so don't think I'm desperate, I'm far from that! I love me and my life but if I meet someone I do, if I don't, I don't. We need to start off as friends and see how it goes:) Anywhere we can talk

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  • Reenie from Windom | Woman | 50 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm a fun loving and compassionate girl. I love fishing ,camping ,and boating. Like to dance go on long walks on a moon lit beach. I love all types of music ,I have two beautiful grown daughtersThey are my life! as a family we love,we have standards morals and family values,memories and laughter believe you get what you give. And actions speak louder than words. Honesty,trust,communication, compassion loyalty,passion,laughter are very much a part of a good relationship!!I have a big heart I love helping out anyone in need, I love to snuggle,hold hands,huggs & kisses love affection, receiving it ,as well as showing it,Moon lighting in my poolwith floating candles everywhere is very relaxing.; friends,i love being a mother!! was married 25 yrs,divorced now for seven on good terms,I love and believe in God ! im independent,like to enjoy life to the fullest, love to make memories,love being out doors,went hunting a few times ready to go again lobe dressing up.or jeans and t shirt and boots not scared to get dirty I feel laughter is very healthy,i love making people laugh hate to see someone cry that makes me cry,life is too short ,we need to enjoy every minute we can ,we are not promised tomorrow,thats why I am on an adventure to get out and do things ive never done.and yes I do have a bucket list. I am a lover not a fighter,but ill fight for the ones I love, if yr lookin 4 a 1 nite stand keep lookin but not here ,Im looking for MY MR RIGHT, A you on here we will see,LIVE,LOVE,& LAUGH,BE HAPPY! ENJOY LIFE LOVE YOUR FAMILY, After talking on the phone and getting to some what know each other.I would say make a decision together what u both would like to do,I dont feel the need of a man having to pay money to meet me.thats what we are both on here for,im not about whst u can do for me im not a taker,im more of a giver,

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  • Selina from Windom | Woman | 49 years old | Sagittarius
    Selina

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    It's really all about the simple things in life that I enjoy.... sitting outside with a bottle of wine, taking the dogs for a walk in the park, snuggling on the couch with my man while watching a great movie. I love to laugh and have a good time with the person/people I am with. I'm easily amused, which I believe is one of my finest qualities. I've been told that I have an engaging laugh... others just start laughing because I'm having such a good time. My 2 sons are terrific kids ***good grades, holding down jobs, and not into drugs, staying out of trouble and I love spending time with them, when they can squeeze time in their busy schedule for Mom..I'll take it!! As far as music goes... I enjoy the good ol' classic 70's and 80's rock that I grew up with, soft rock, top 40 stuff, and a little country as well. As long as it's NOT rap or the blues.I'm looking for someone that is kind, has a great sense of humor, considerate, honest, and knows how to treat a lady. I enjoy most cuisines....Mexican, seafood, Chinese, Italian, even sushi once in awhile. I love to cook, especially when it's NOT just for me. I've been going to Faith Church now for a little over a year and now actually LOVE going every Sunday. After a few dates, I would love to have someone sitting next to me with the same values. I'm pretty laid back, easy going... not hard to get along with. One of my passions is my dogs... so if you're not an animal lover..then I really don't believe we will click. I'm very open-minded and am willing to try and experience all that life has to offer. I love to dance...I took dancing lessons for years... tap, jazz, ballet, etc. and also really got into the country line dancing for a few years and loved it and am trying to get back into dancing again; however, it's no fun alone. (hint, hint)Life is too short to be alone and sit in front of the computer. Let's chat for a little and then maybe get some coffee ... or an adult beverage would be great too.. Looking forward to getting to know you. Don't be afraid.. just say Hi. First date... I would think we'll meet for coffee/cocktails... we'll agree on something, I'm sure.

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