Total users: 61,986,510 Online users: 223,404
Harlow, 50
United States, Minnesota, Virginia

Offline, last seen Tue, 24 Mar 2026 17:51:04

About Me

Hmmm.... lets see... I find the humor in just about everything, including me. But for right now, I'm going to go with serious. We can goof around and laugh our asses off indefinitely if you're out there :) I'm in pretty good shape, and social. I'd like a man that likes to stay active and is playful. I do love to be home as well, and love that feeling when I lock the door for the night and the day is done. It would be nice to share that part of my life. Intelligence and wit are essential. Charm is optional... all done with the smoke and mirrors. If it's still a game to you at this age, please please please don't pick me, lol! Speak your mind please, because I can't read it. I don't have a list with check boxes... that spark is rare and worth tending when it strikes. I gave a lot away earlier in my life, and I have learned a lot in the process. I am responsible for my own happiness, I can't afford to be last on my list. Every day I connect with a Higher Power, and have I faith that things will unfold as they should. Even on meetville, lol. Everyday I try to appreciate what is put before me and count my blessings. Life is a journey and I love it. Okay, 97% of it, lol. I don't feast on bitterness and resignation... too heavy. I need to save room for sun showers and tree climbing and star gazing and... stuff.I love my family and friends, my home, my life. I have compassion for humanity including myself. I have goals and priorities. I am constantly learning and like trying new things. And yes, there are problems but such is life. I talk a lot and I laugh everyday. I have faith in the world (still!), I give the benefit of the doubt but I am not blind to reality. I try to face the tough stuff with some measure of courage and integrity. I believe that if you can't work toward accepting and loving yourself, including all of your imperfections, then you can't love and accept others... so I'd rather avoid that :)I really do value a passionate relationship, although I am a little shy when it comes to men sometimes. I am not in a mad rush. I am interactive and want that emotional closeness that comes over time. Music, well, I love it. Most of it. Can't do a straight diet of country or rap.I'm a work in progress all the way around and expect to remain so until the gig is up :)So say hi, and who knows.... Something fun and casual, no pressure. I think it would be good to spend some time in the afternoon checking out the museum or walking on the waterfront, but I'm open to suggestions :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Indonesian
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Edyta from Virginia | Woman | 50 years old | Aquarius
    Edyta

    Offline

    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a very loving and caring person with a good heart. I’m honest, loyal, loving, faithful and I’m also shy and quiet until you get to know me. I’m also independent, strong, determined, hardworking and dependable. I have a small Shi-tzu/mix little girl that I rescued from a shelter last year and she means the world to me!! I enjoy going to the movies, local attractions, taking walks, camping, picnics, usually anything when I have someone to do it with. I enjoy being with family and friends and quiet times at home. I enjoy thunderstorms, the changing seasons, sunsets, the smell of freshly cut grass, and the smell of a cold, crisp winter morning. I’m looking for someone to share my life with. Someone that is loyal, honest, loving, caring, romantic, faithful and enjoys the simple things in life. He should enjoy giving and receiving that all important BIG HUG for no other reason than "just because". I want someone who is my best friend, someone who will always be there for me as I will be for him. I'm looking for someone that has similar interests, and who might have additional interests that we both would enjoy!! Life is too short to spend alone, I'm looking for a serious relationship and not into games, so please don't waste my time or yours. If you have any questions, please feel free to ask!!Thank you for stopping by and reading my profile!!! Have a Wonderful Day!!! First and formost, I like to get to know someone first, either by ***, text, or by phone. Once we both are comfortable with meeting, then we can go from there!

    Chat
  • Affrikah from Virginia | Woman | 49 years old | Aries
    Affrikah

    Offline

    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    First and foremost,I'm independent,honest loyal woman that doesn't need a man, I want one.Must be loyal honest and have your feet planted firmly on the ground.have no time for games or the bs that goes with drama. I'm not a **** just putting it like I see it.i want a sexy rock and roll kind of man that is into one women ( that would be me) lil bad boy but soft spoken and polite when needed, its pretty simple if ya cant hang with the big dogs,stay on the damn porch!!...i LOVE country music racing cars,the smell of the ocean and flowers,im romantic cant help it,nice dinner one the porch when ITS NOT RAINING!!!!!lookin for my best friend,partner in crime . Love all kinds of music , not rap at all,I'm a country girl so I like to fish go mudding and pretty much any out door stuff.Don't get it twisted if you can't handle race cars, burn outs or tailgating with good redneck ppl don't bother with me , I like my life and don't intend to change,,,im simply not interested in liers cheaters or ppl that play games.Im interested in one man and when i finally find him,,i'll treat him with the respect he deserves Sweet tea, on a deck or something fun,doesnt have to be so hard,,relax and enjoy your life

    Chat
  • Michayla from Virginia | Woman | 49 years old | Aries
    Michayla

    Offline

    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Who am I?Self-confidentI appreciate sincerity, integrity, and honestyFamily and friends are very important to meI am not a game playerI am comfortable in jeans or a nice business suitA nonsmokerI am a Christian who regularly attends my Lutheran ChurchI enjoy bowling, walking my dog, surfing the Internet and getting a good bargainPeaceful but energeticNurturing but competitiveOnce you meet me, you’ll never forget me!What I've Learned in Life:Speak honestlyAct with integrityLaugh every dayFlossing is importantPerfection is impossibleShop for the best deal possibleIf it's worth it, I'll work for it; if it's not, I won'tDon't say anything you'll regret because you can't take it backHappiness is being in the moment, and having health, peace of mind and love

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: