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Janeth, 47

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About Me

Hello,I have 2 kids... one is 17 and pretty much does her own thing, and I have a 12 yo son who still enjoys hanging out with mom every once in a while. I like going local and state parks, hiking the trails, fishing, and doing volunteer work.I've been a runner for over 30 years, I weight train, and I like to geocache, ...which is part exploring in nature and part techy ....I also play a couple of *** try to eat healthy and as organic as possible. Being healthy is important to me. Trying to withstand the effects of aging for as long as possible. It seems that every time I run into someone from high school, they always recognize me...and I never recognize them. So maybe it's because I haven't grown older looking since then, or it's because I never grew up, lol.I tend to be pretty opinionated on certain issues that are important to me, but am more than willing to listen to other viewpoints. I consider myself a person who sticks up for others almost to a fault. I guess the hardest part of dating for me is that I'm an extremely nice and honest person. I keep expecting and I know there's got to be a man out there that is just as honest and nice as I am...that is kind to others, optimistic and fun. I don't treat people who are currently in my life based on how I've been treated in the past. It seems that there are too many people out there that are extremely guarded by what they have experienced. For me, every day is a fresh start. I am very "low maintenance" and down to earth type of woman. I'm not into shopping in stores or buying tons of clothes...there are better ways I like to spend money. I'm financially prudent and stable...not looking for some guy to support me. But, I also don't need a financial leech as well...that's what my kids are for, lol. I have a great sense of humor and use it to help in difficult times by making light of just about any situation. I would like to meet guys who are active, have a great sense of humor, are honest, enjoy life, and are optimistic. Finally, I am looking for someone to have a relationship with. I am not looking for a FWB or a one night stand...so, if that is your intention, please move on. Don't waste my time or yours. Thank you....so, I'm keeping my profile up for now, but might be looking elsewhere for my new best friend. Due to the uncertainty of the future, I'm still looking to meet new people, but not looking to get into a LTR until I've "settled down". Low key... just a cup of coffee or a beer and conversation... see if there is any spark

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Helaine

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a hopeless romantic looking for sparks, chemistry, etc. Having that magnetic connection is my only criteria…it’s either present when two people meet or it’s not. I am not looking to rush in to anything more than establishing a friendship to get to know one another. For me, half the fun is the anticipation of what could be once that spark is *** about me and what I am hoping to find in a man…So me, this is hard. I do not like to shine the light on myself and avoid being in the public spotlight whenever possible. That said, I can adapt to almost any situation…from public speaking to welcoming compliments when required. People that are close to me would say I am loyal and committed to those I love. Honesty, trust, and generosity are values I live by and seek in others.I consider myself a handful…hence the “brave man” caveat. I have high expectations…I’m ambitious, independent, active, and make the most out of every day, situation, opportunity, etc. I’ve been known to get too absorbed (okay, self-absorbed) with work or doing menial tasks. I benefit from being around someone who is able to distract me with humor and spontaneity. I have a strong personality…I can hold my own when needed. I do best with men who are easygoing, but who can also put me in my place. Though I don’t necessarily like to be told what to do or hear the word no, it’s kind of a turn-on in a twisted sort of way. I’ll stop there. At this point in my life, I am ready to throw caution to the wind. I have ditched my checklist of what to look for in a man and *** opted to follow my heart (and yes I feel stupid saying that as I’ve always made decisions with my head…over thinking things and being way too cautious).…did I mention I’ Qualities I admire in a man include a sense of humor, good taste without being pompous, someone who values a dollar but doesn’t lose sleep over money spent…I don’t do cheap, but respect a man who is practical and who lives within his means. I appreciate someone who enjoys the finer things in life though comes across as low-key and casual…a man who’ Ideally, a person that has the tendency to be calm and collective in tense situations, treats people kindly (never rude), avoids taking life or self too seriously, and has the ability to laugh in uncomfortable/tough situations. I know that’s a tall order…I did mention high expectations somewhere in this write-up. So the other half of the equation is the ability to be flexible, open-minded and forgiving……being able to make amends and overall keeping ones ego and heart in check.Yup, there’s more…a guy who is independent. Someone who enjoys alone time just as much as being together. And when together, doesn’t mind being spoiled just a bit. I am not one to talk on the phone at great lengths but appreciate a man who can communicate. Oh and someone who is liberal enough to allow me to pick up a tab or take charge from time to time…you fill in the dots. Though I consider myself tolerant and open-minded, there are a few traits that I wouldn’t be able to overlook…racism/prejudice, superiority complex, over inflated egos, substance abuse, cruelty, dishonesty, and promiscuity. I feel I should provide some sort of disclaimer so here it goes…I am not looking for financial security (nor to support someone), a husband (though not opposed), or a father for my son (he’s got one)…Just sparks. I like to keep it simple…enjoying a meal and good conversation together while drinking a bit more wine than either of us should.

  • Margene

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    This is the unique me…Must enjoy kids.I’m in love with nature and the quiet of the great outdoors, laying in the grass, just listening to the winds blow or gazing up at the stars on a dark, clear “” night… I enjoy camping, campfires and fishing; especially fishing in the early morning when the fog is still and the sounds of the waves hitting the shore are so crisp. Swimming at night is a favorite also. Being a water person, it relaxes my soul. Other outdoor fun activities I enjoy are Snowmobile riding and shooting clay pigeons; although I do need some improvements with hitting the target…. LOL... Want to be the one to help?Music is very important to me, coming from a musically inclined family, I play the guitar and have written a couple of my own songs. I like the 70’s music genre and I love to go dancing whenever I can!Crocheting in one of my hobbies. I like a neat and tidy home, not a lot of clutter. Beauty, nature, and wildlife is my decor theme. My viewing preference is documentaries, scary movies and the occasionally comedy, like “”. I thought it was hilarious.I have no motorcycle, but I have a motorcycle license. My dream is to own my own motorcycle some day and ride with a significant other (Who says you’re to old to try new things??? Not I.)Catholic is my faith, and I try to go to church on Sundays.I usually start out shy, I may fumble words at first, but once you get to know me, I may talk your ear off! I LOVE to laugh, my aunt says I have a beautiful smile, and I have a great sense of humor. Who am I to argue with her??? First and foremost my special someone, must love and respect nature! Be passionate, but not be possessive. I will let you, be you, you let me, be me. Must have common sense smarts, with good *** confident without always needing praise. A love of laughter is high priority. And, so I feel loved and appreciated, I need a one woman man, who isn’t always flirting with every woman he sees.I am choosing wisely this time, I want to get it right. Hope you do too…(friends are good too.) So, if you are interested in a comical, honest, caring, old fashion sorta gal…could we chat? Lets talk about it and make a decision together.

  • Alyvia

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hello! Thanks for checking out my profile. Life is good; but it would sure be better with a special man at my side to enjoy everything that life has to offer. I am an independent, confident woman and can hold my own in just about any situation. I run my own business with the theory of work hard, play harder. I am realizing that I want to experience more in life and really want to experience it with someone special. The outdoors is where I am most comfortable, but I clean up pretty good ;) How about if we chat a little and see if we find any common ground or interests? Something simple where we can talk and get to know each other

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