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Illa, 45

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About Me

Hobbies: I have many interests and am willing to try new things. I enjoy running, watching sports (I'll play some), traveling, and being with friends and family. I really want to try my hand at kayaking!What makes me unique: I will do a lot for someone who appreciates me as a person and truly wants to be with me.As far as what I want to be or do "when I grow up" ...I would love to tell you that over coffee!! I envision a good first date as a relaxing evening walking on the beach or St Armand's sipping on some coffee. Great conversation would be a must.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Verena

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hoping to meet my new best friend. I'm a sweet, unassuming, kind, funloving, outgoing, stable, secure, HAPPY, career minded and intelligent gal would like to meet a new best friend. I have everything in life but my ideal partner. Is that you??I will let you be my hero for all the right reasons... not the wrong ones. I'm already happy but someday I hope to find someone equal - not a savior or someone to complete me, more like a friend, confidant and partner who makes everything seem sweeter. So if I must travel through life alone and never meet Mr. Right, I'm OK with that.When it comes to what one is looking for I think people need to keep an open mind and not make a laundry list of what an "ideal" mate is. Come on, when you start to make ridiculous demands and unreasonable expectations, you're probably setting yourself up for disappointment and failure. We are not applicants seeking an audition... Or atleast I'm not... I'm willing to wait for the right man.I prefer considering dealbreakers...you know... if exhibited, behaviors you will not allow yourself to tolerate. Some of mine are: financial irresponsibility, illegal drug use, inability to control alcohol intake, previous history of unlwaful misconduct and or involuntary incarceration, abuse of any sort, lack of a moral compass, cruelness and disrepsect of others, and oh yea, infidelity. If you have NOTHING positive to say about the previous women you have chosen and it was ALL her fault... you should know I'm pretty smart and probably not the one for you. Only on occasion is it soley one sided and no one is perfect. Occasion is the exception, not the rule....:)I enjoy many things and prefer to be active. You can usually find me spending time outside when its not raining. Day trips to the city are great and occasional weekend trips to the shore are even better. And of course long rides on the motorcycle are the best. (I could teach you to ride, but I'd rather you already know - either way it isn't a big deal.) I dont mind if you have children, I could be a good friend to the children of the right person.I'm hoping to find someone who balances me, brings light to my life and inspires me. So send me a note if you are interested, don't just add me to your favorites or try the photo bingo game.... I don't and won't chase a man.I try to live for fun and excitment... so say hi and let's get this show on the road. :) The only thing I'm pretty serious about is my career. My home is pretty important also as is my partner, being a responsible person and a good citizen.I'm already happy so I enjoy doing just about anything. And I'm pretty open minded and liberal in thought from my years out West. Does it really matter? Meeting someone new is tough enough so let's do something fun and the odds can wait. Note: If meeting you is like doing a business transaction I think I'll pass; I already have a job and I do my own taxes. I have very little free time and don't want to waste it sitting and being bored. Besides I have a great fun playful side that you're bound to fall in love with so let's go engage in some shenanigans that won't violate any laws.You only live once!! Don't waste it.

  • Jeanna

    Online

    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hello, I have been on here on and off, and now back on...hoping some of the goons are gone, scary. My blocked list was longer than my number of messages, lol. I enjoy doing fun things outside, summer is my favorite season. I like camping, swimming away from the boat and to take it all in. I enjoy spending time with my girls, they are first and foremost in my life. I am a simple girl. I enjoy going out when I have studies up to par, I am going to school studying business and being the best I can be. I have children that mean the world to me just need someone in my life to enjoy it all plus the alone times. I have been on the same job for 12 years, so retirement is 18 years away!!! An accomplishment I consider. I have dreams of writing a book of my life, no time like the present, but not time yet or haven't scheduled time to start. I have things I want to learn and do one is learning to play the guitar. I need someone to help but can entertain myself if that "has" to be the case. I am not a materialistic person by no means, so material things do not impress me. Good conversations, and funfilled laughs are always good ;). I appreciate men that are respectable, considerate and knowledgeable of what makes a woman happy, I don't do very well with not much to say. I like to go out and run into friends I haven't seen in awhile. I have every other weekend without my children and one is raised and on her on. The kid free weekend is my time that I like doing spontaneous things, going out with friends, this is my time to date or be with friends. Finding a good match is important to me. I look at pictures, but more so of what is in the back ground. I respect myself and and expect the same. I want to know you first and let you know me to see if it is okay to bring the important factors in the equation, not a rush there at all. I work full-time days and go to school part-time.I am looking for someone that is looking to find a relationship not a hook up. I feel that friendship is important and to have that you must take time to get to know someone to like someone, once you like someone you can take it to another level, if not you have made a friend with no strings. I want to find my male best friend. I want to be someone's remarkable not replaceable. I have been divorced for quite awhile and am ready to spend time with someone. I am pretty independent. Looking to change some of that and "eventually" if the right one comes along grow and make a life with someone special one day. If there is more you would like to know just ask.**********Heads up, if you are not caucasion, I will not respond, please I am very firm on this. I do not have a problem with friends, but I date my own race only.***************************************************Another heads up. PLEASE do not add me as a favorite if you have not even sent me a message. .I feel like your next pin up..and I am not here to be anybody's that.And I do not care to see pictures of your hairline that is not on your noggin. K? Thanks. You can't respect me if you don't respect yourself. Dinner and conversation, or coffee on a Saturday morning. It will not be hanging at your house, sorry I have a few morals:)

  • Lashawna

    Online

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hey there.. I'm very out going and social. I'm looking for positive people to have in my life. Let's get together. Casual, a chance to talk and get to know each other.

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