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Lainey, 41
United States, Minnesota, Rushford

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About Me

Alright ya'll-This isn't my first time at this particular Dog & Pony Show...A girl is a lil' wiser this time around! Sooo, if you're not really looking for a relationship-please look at someone wanting to just hang-out. That's not me. I don't want to get to know you, only to have you disappear...??? My time is valuable and I hope yours is too. I'm a girl, so I won't tell ya I'm simple-ain't no such thing!! ;-)I'm a lot of things, but easy ain't one of em... That doesn't mean I'm a Diva or a Drama Queen. It means I do my own thing and color outside the lines. I have a brain and know how to use it. I question authority, in my book that's a good thing. I have opinions and expect you to also. I'm not looking for a "yes" man. I know we won't always agree but do expect respect for our personal point of view. I will treat you the way I'd like to be treated. I don't like to do things half-hiney'd. Go big or go home. I don't pull punches. I fight fair but if ya box me into a corner, I'll come out swing'n... I'm Irish & Italian-so you're danged if ya do & you're danged if ya don't... The hair is red for a reason. :-pCowboy-up! Cuz you're look'n at 10 pounds of sugar in a 5 pound sack!! :-**UPDATE*Here's a baseball analogy for ya boys:A girls look'n for the DH. There's only one on the team for a reason. You can be the DH on a Minor League team, that's just fine. Noone starts out at the top. However, you must be the DH & When ya step up to this plate, ya better not bunt...ya best be knock'n it out of the park... ;-) If you're think'n what I really need is a Closer-nope cuz that's me! I can't hit worth a dang but if you've read all of the above, ya know I can pitch it to ya just fine... :-D 70% of life is showing up... Impress me... :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a single parent of a 22 year old daughter who is married and on her own. My son is15 and spends time between my home and his fathers. He is my number 1 priority. I have been out of a serious relationship for about 4 years....so the time has come to dive back in. I would love to go back to school... just waiting for the right time. I am very happy where i am...where i have been...and where i am going.......just thinking maybe someone by my side would be nice :)Time decides who you meet in life, the heart decides who you want in your life, but behavior decides who will stay in your life ~ A first time should be short, sweet and simple.....just enough to see if u have a connection and plan the second date.

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi, I am a 43 year old divorcee looking to start over. I can be very shy at the start but I warm up very quickly. I feel that I have a quick wit and a pretty good sense of humor. i love to laugh, I believe that there is no better sound than a full belly laugh. I enjoy taking long walks, hiking, listening to music either live or on my ipod, going to the movies, hanging out with friends and from time to time relaxing in a warm bubble bath. Being in my 40"s has been a rebirth for me, I am happier, wiser, more confident and perfectly okay with myself. I have a few dents from my journey but these dents have have helped to shape the woman I am today. Meet for coffee or drinks -- get to know one another.

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I believe that in order for any type of relationship to work, they MUST be able to TALK, be HONEST, & Enjoy some of the same things in Life. I’m looking for a guy who wants to LIVE LIFE! Someone who is: HONEST, Opened Minded, CARING, RESPECTABLE, INTELLIGENT, Funny, Communicates in more than one way, Shares some of my own interests, Brushes their teeth, Believes in solving problems – not walking away from them, Likes the Ocean, is Down-to-Earth, and can still enjoy the simple pleasures in life… (Also, Someone who is not stuck on themselves & thinks they are God’s gift to Women!)My Children are & always will be #1 in my life! I have three Beautiful & Wonderful Sons (& one Beautiful & Wonderful Daughter-in-law)... They are my greatest gifts... The Oldest ***is Happily Married; The Middle ***is “Dating”; (Both of whom live out-of-state) & The Youngest one died in a fatal car accident at 18... I know how Precious Life is & value it more than ever… I Love hanging out with Family & Friends, but I also enjoy spending quality time with the one I’m with. I was married for 24 years & have been given the gift to start all over again...Blessings for a Beautiful & Awesome Day!& "Yes, I like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain." I’d like to get to know a guy through messages first & then later the phone, before that first date. But when that time comes…Let's take a walk OR meet for coffee/tea, & just talk - getting to know one another is the Best First step any two people can do! Communication is the First Key to any relationship!If we click, there could be a Second & Third date... etc... If all goes well, we'll take it from there... I'm not gonna say that I'm looking to get married, because I want to know someone INSIDE & OUT before I even think about 'our future.'So right now, I'm only looking, Fishing so to speak... The bait I have isn't "all that" but I'm working on it!If I find someone and we enjoy each other's company, Great!

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