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Helga, 42

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About Me

I'm a mental health and substance abuse therapist. Dont be afraid to message me because you think I'm going to diagnose you haha! My work is the main focus of my life. It's not that I'm a workaholic or anything, its just that my work gives my life meaning and purpose. My friends would describe me as nice, kind, friendly, respectful, compassionate, patient, tolerant, trustworthy, intelligent, and funny. I tend to be kind of shy at first, but as I get more comfortable, I can be silly and goofy :-) Other "personalities" I could have chosen to describe me are: animal lover, artsy, bookworm, class clown, film/tv junkie, gamer, free-thinker, humanist, professional, and traveler. In a relationship, I am very affectionate (I thrive on affection). I have ADD, so sometimes I.....ooo look, a squirrel!! I am not a big sports fan, but I do enjoy watching football (both pro and college), MMA, and basketball. I promise, I won't try to have a relationship talk while you are watching the Super Bowl or whatever lol. I'M NOT INTO COUNTRY-WESTERN CULTURE OR GUYS MORE THAN A FEW YEARS OLDER THAN ME!!! I eventually want to be in a long-term, monogamous relationship, but you have to date to get there, right? So, here I am. If you are reading this before messaging me, thank you! PLEASE do not message me if you are looking for a hook-up! I'm sure there are plenty of women that are on this site for that. Although, I am finding that men who are looking for a hook-up don't read profiles lol.**Update: I cut my hair, so its real short now. I've left my other pics up because they are all recent pics and I still look like that except for my hair :-) Also, sorry, but I am not a Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Model. I see that many men on here are looking for that. Just about anything, dinner, bowling, coffee, etc, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kasi

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am interested in beginning the "next chapter of my life" as they say. I am a hopeless romantic and enjoy the "little things" that being in a relationship can bring. I am looking forward to meeting someone who is vested in the future and what a relationship can bring to his life. I am a firm believer in treating others the way you want to be treated. I think positively and am outgoing. Friends and family would describe me as: sincere, caring, helpful, and hard working.I have 2 children. My son is almost 16 and my daughter is 13. I enjoy attending their sporting events and seeing them grow into young adults. I own/rescued three dogs, all black Labrador mixed breeds. I enjoy my job and have been teaching for 20 years. I enjoy being a mom, friend, and teacher but am missing the significant other in my life. I love the beach and hope to retire there some day. I enjoy spending time with friends and family. I also enjoy a variety of music and mostly listen to country music and a fan of Kenny Chesney. My favorite quote:Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away. Nice lunch/dinner/meet and them see if there's a mutual connection.

  • Zaria

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'd love to meet someone who wants a great dating relationship. If it goes somewhere great. No pressure. I like hanging out with friends, going out to movies, staying in, and doing new things. I'm a talker....and a pretty lgood listener. Then again I can share a quiet night, also. Bonfires, long walks, working out, trips to Chi town, weekend getaways are things I enjoy. White Sox, too.I'm in the middle of a career change...almost done with my associates degree... Computer aided drafting. I love how life keeps changing! I love my kids, no doubt! I'm looking for a man with a great smile who uses it often! Public affection....kinda think that's sexy. Swearing in front of my mother...NOT! Meeting your friends...awesome! Helps to get to know you.....meeting my friends...great as long as you don't hold them against me! Love meeting new people. Can't have enough friends. I guess one of my goals here is to find the other half I'm supposed to be with. If you are really shy....I'm not your gal. If you love to laugh and are outgoing, sexy but family orientated, too...maybe you're the one? Drop me a note....no really.....drop me a note! Coffee, favorite hang out, dinner. Something with a little fun thrown in!

  • Sariyah

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm a Christian lady that likes to travel and laugh and have fun. I've been divorced 4 years and have 2 awesome kids 18 and 11. Looking for someone to spend time with and laugh with. I am a rare female that loves sci-fi and action movies. I work full time as a graphic designer and office manager for an engineering firm in OKC and I am building my own freelance graphic design business with some great headway. If you are honest and are willing to share your heart and passions and are truly looking for someone to have a relationship with then message me. I'm not a game player and not looking or hookups....just a kind gentleman to share time with laugh with and see where that leads. I'm told I'm hilarious and I love to laugh!! Why waste time chatting for months. Let's meet for coffee and see what's there! Anything fun and quiet so we can talk.

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