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AlaniOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I am a very happy, stable gal and lead a nice, drama-free life. I have supportive friends and family, a great job, and a career I love. I am very active and like to work out. And eat. I teach middle school kids and like to blame them for my lack of maturity. They make every day an interesting one and when they're not driving me crazy, give me reasons to smile even when I don't want to. I hog the bed, but am great at sharing everything else. I'm a great listener and like to hold hands. I am very independent, so I'm not looking for anyone to save me- just someone to complete me. An immediate goal of mine goal is to avoid any events with the words tough or mud in them and one of my long-term goals includes being one less fish in the sea.
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SeonaOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I have decided to update my profile. We should all do that every once in a while shouldn’t we? Reexamine ourselves…So first let me tell you a little bit about myself. I am a single mother of two wonderful teens that live with me 100% of the time ***cats). I recently went back to school and now work with special-needs children, which I really enjoy. However, I am contemplating going back to school in the fall to work towards a diploma. I am happy and in good spirits 99% of the time regardless of what life throws my way. I still consider myself a ‘happy endings’ type of person. I have a sarcastic sense of humor. I have been described as quirky and like the fact that, at times, I can be a big goof. I don’t mind laughing at myself and love to make others laugh. I am not afraid to make an ass of myself and consider myself a pretty confident person. I still sing Christmas Carols badly, eat chocolate, snore, and dance around the house (without good dance moves). I love to read, am a movie fanatic, enjoy cooking, and am trying to find the motivation to be a more active person. I am still very curious about life and think I look and act younger than I am.Here’s the main reason I wanted to update my profile. I’ve noticed a lot of people state that they don’t want someone with scars or emotional baggage. But doesn’t that just mean that you haven’t really lived or loved? I have scars, how can I not? At 42 I can say that I have loved and I have been hurt. This doesn’t mean I don’t want to try again, and it certainly doesn’t mean that I am not a trusting person. I still believe in true love. What I have noticed is that, as we get older, we tend to think our perfect match will be perfect from the get go and I’m not sure that’s realistic. We all have faults, no one is perfect. I have blue days, I don't yell often but it happens, my ass is bigger than I'd like it to be. Basically, I'm human. There are going to be things about me that annoy you. The question is, does the good outweigh the bad? Can you look past those idiosyncrasies, even get a chuckle out of them? I’m looking for a partner that will compliment me, not complete me. I am hoping for a mutually supportive, fun relationship full of romance, caring, tenderness, and laughter.I have been divorced for over ten years. While it was crushing at the time it was the best thing to happen to me. I have become a confident and capable woman in that time. It made me the woman I am today and a great mother. I am a catch (excuse the fishing reference)! So, all those scars and baggage help make us the person we are – and propel us to become the person we wish to be.I’m going to end with a quote by Marilyn Munroe, “I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” And my best is pretty damn good!I don’t mean for this to sound materialistic but it has been an issue in the past so I will address it. I am a single mother supporting two children on my own. Finances are always an issue and I live on a very modest budget. I cannot afford fancy trips or expensive dates, not that I wouldn’t enjoy them. I just feel guilty that I cannot reciprocate. Many in my age range seem to be at a more comfortable place financially while I see myself as just getting started, or starting over. Hmmm, I'd like to start with a few *** phone calls and then we can chat about a get together, maybe a walk or coffee/tea?... We all know there has to be some kind of physical spark.
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CorineOffline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I like to consider myself to be intelligent and witty. I enjoy to laugh because life is too short to take everything so seriously. I like positive people to make me smile and enrich my life as I hope to do for them. I remain pretty active with my kids and our horse. My ideal man is someone that either shares my love of horses or can understand the passion I have and time spent with them:) I'm just getting back out there again...taking things slow is a must....I mean what's the hurry right? Not looking for any "intimate encounters." So if that is your intention that I am not the girl for you! Honesty is crucial...if ur not looking for a relationship then ur just not at that point and that is fine but I feel I am ready to find a special guy so please dont be dishonest saying you are. That one confuses me...no need to b dishonest:( Im a pretty laid back kind of girl but always up for something new and crazy:). Im a pretty text book gemini...I get bored kind of easy and love change and spontaneity. This profile nowhere defines me or gives a clear picture of who I am. I feel Im still a work in progress:). I open minded and try not to be judgmental...afterall who am I to judge anyone?? My pics are curr ent and as you can tell I do have curves which I embrace:). So if ur looking for a woman that is waif and boney...again im not the girl for u!! Im comfortable in my own skin:). My workouts consist of lifting 25 lb saddles onto a horses back and taking care and maintaining a showhorse. No better exercise bc im spending irreplaceable moments with my kids!! I do not feel Im the most photogenic and look better in person. I also dont look my age...hear that frequently...good genes I guess. Im interested in what this journey may bring. Im realistic that there will b those th at I meet that there isnt that romantic attraction but hey you can never have too many friends:). Public place a must but anything jointly agreed upon:)