Total users: 63,187,219 Online users: 227,386
Caprina, 44

Online

About Me

So...I truly am looking for my heart of gold/soulmate...that person who can give and receive what I can...who can often anticipate my thoughts/desires before I articulate them...who "gets me" and enjoys that he does...who never tires of gazing into my eyes and merging. This is of course what I can reciprocate.I do think/feel that LOVE IS THE ANSWER to virtually everything...call me an idealist...I like that! Of course one must be willing to work for it as for anything/one whose presence fills us with absolute delight and whose absence leaves tears to fill an ocean.I do know this person is out there and I SO-O-O look forward to "swimming" with you! A friend used to say "It's a good day because I love my wife" ... the truthful simplicity of that says it all...I have been very fortunate to see aspects of that and I want "the whole enchilada"!FIND ME HEART OF GOLD...I AM READY TO LOVE AND BE LOVED BY YOU! In every moment " love is the drug that I'm thinkin' of". Intimacy is my forte...and it is yours also! I like to go out for dinner and have a real experience together...I never regret this whether we want to pursue it or not.SPECIAL NOTE: I have been on this site for quite some time with lo-o-If you messaged me because you REALLY thought we were a match and I didn't respond please message me again.NEW NOTE: I am seeking someone who is financially"mature" as I am i.e. you can afford a home and vehicle,appreciate fine,"foodie" dining and can take us out sometimes, and have the wherwithall to travel with me regularly to various places on the planet(near and far). I am at a place in my life where this matters!!TRUTH,HONEST COMMUNICATION AND PASSIONATE INTEGRITY ARE ESSENTIAL!! BE HAPPY!! :-)My first career was in music so I am very much into being surrounded by sounds of various types!....there really is too much so that is all for now(!!)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Seona

    Online

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I have decided to update my profile. We should all do that every once in a while shouldn’t we? Reexamine ourselves…So first let me tell you a little bit about myself. I am a single mother of two wonderful teens that live with me 100% of the time ***cats). I recently went back to school and now work with special-needs children, which I really enjoy. However, I am contemplating going back to school in the fall to work towards a diploma. I am happy and in good spirits 99% of the time regardless of what life throws my way. I still consider myself a ‘happy endings’ type of person. I have a sarcastic sense of humor. I have been described as quirky and like the fact that, at times, I can be a big goof. I don’t mind laughing at myself and love to make others laugh. I am not afraid to make an ass of myself and consider myself a pretty confident person. I still sing Christmas Carols badly, eat chocolate, snore, and dance around the house (without good dance moves). I love to read, am a movie fanatic, enjoy cooking, and am trying to find the motivation to be a more active person. I am still very curious about life and think I look and act younger than I am.Here’s the main reason I wanted to update my profile. I’ve noticed a lot of people state that they don’t want someone with scars or emotional baggage. But doesn’t that just mean that you haven’t really lived or loved? I have scars, how can I not? At 42 I can say that I have loved and I have been hurt. This doesn’t mean I don’t want to try again, and it certainly doesn’t mean that I am not a trusting person. I still believe in true love. What I have noticed is that, as we get older, we tend to think our perfect match will be perfect from the get go and I’m not sure that’s realistic. We all have faults, no one is perfect. I have blue days, I don't yell often but it happens, my ass is bigger than I'd like it to be. Basically, I'm human. There are going to be things about me that annoy you. The question is, does the good outweigh the bad? Can you look past those idiosyncrasies, even get a chuckle out of them? I’m looking for a partner that will compliment me, not complete me. I am hoping for a mutually supportive, fun relationship full of romance, caring, tenderness, and laughter.I have been divorced for over ten years. While it was crushing at the time it was the best thing to happen to me. I have become a confident and capable woman in that time. It made me the woman I am today and a great mother. I am a catch (excuse the fishing reference)! So, all those scars and baggage help make us the person we are – and propel us to become the person we wish to be.I’m going to end with a quote by Marilyn Munroe, “I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” And my best is pretty damn good!I don’t mean for this to sound materialistic but it has been an issue in the past so I will address it. I am a single mother supporting two children on my own. Finances are always an issue and I live on a very modest budget. I cannot afford fancy trips or expensive dates, not that I wouldn’t enjoy them. I just feel guilty that I cannot reciprocate. Many in my age range seem to be at a more comfortable place financially while I see myself as just getting started, or starting over. Hmmm, I'd like to start with a few *** phone calls and then we can chat about a get together, maybe a walk or coffee/tea?... We all know there has to be some kind of physical spark.

  • Melissa

    Online

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Well let me start off by saying I am a very proud mother,and I am going to school for the medical field, that and my job take up a lot of my time. I am getting to old for the drama and BS that come with some men. Just be honest and don't try to take me for a fool, because it wont work! I am not a biotch, but.. well you know. I LOVE sports especially baseball and football since my boys both play. I dont really have any hobbies other than shopping and spending time with my kids. I love children and that is a must for you! I love getting out as much as I can. I am a country girl and LOVE Country music mainly, Top 40's, Classic Rock, some Rock, and dance music of course, I love to shake my moneymaker! I am unique in that I am NOT like most girls, I DONT cheat, LIE or steal. I am honest and upfront, but it keeps the BS at a minimal right? I am NOT out for your money or your things or better yet even a piece.. I want someone who is REAL, down to earth, honest, faithful, and loves to go out and have fun and explore new things. If you want to know anything more maybe you can send a message and ask. I am an open book and will give the best answer I possibly can! I would love to be taken care of and I am a bit old fashioned in that I think the man should open doors, pay and be able to hold down a decent conversation of something more than sex.. good company will get you more dates and more for me too LOL

  • Veronica

    Online

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am ready to start my life...the first half of it was a dress rehersal, I'd like the rest of it to be for real. I have just gotten my Associates Degree in Medical Assisting. I am kind, caring, compassionate, have a great sense of humor ( I crack myself up anyway!!) I am working on losing weight and treating myself better. I don't exercise much at the moment, but that will be changing! So, don't pass me up just because I haven't listed all the activites you like to do; I am willing to try anything!! I am ready to get out there and live!! I am looking for a man that is kind, caring, has a great sense of humor, enjoys a little romance and isn't too shy and reserved. Someone who shares my beliefs about life or at least respects my opinion. I am looking for a man that I can in general, just enjoy life with. I enjoy reading, hanging out watching movies, down time. I make jewelry as a stress reliever. Family time is very important to me as well. I don't exercise much, but that is something I'm getting into! I love to travel and take road trips. My favorite music genre is rock. I still love the 80's but love a lot of current artists as well. I'm addicted to British TV. Their sense of humor is great!Feel free to send me a message if I seem interesting to you, or crack you up as well! Take care and best of luck in your search!! It's hard to think what I would like to do for a first date. But I would like it to be in a setting where we can talk and get to know each; maybe dinner or a coffee date.

Follow Us: