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Katey, 43

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I am an intelligent, fun, adventurous and playful woman. Not afraid to be alone but would prefer to have someone that I can be close to and share my thoughts and experiences with. I'm not sure exactly if I am looking for a long term relationship. I am looking for someone to spend time with that has the same interests. Someone I can relax with, laugh with, have fun with, and simply enjoy life. Mostly I am looking for someone I can be myself with. If I can find someone out here like that then committing myself to that someone would come naturally. I have a tough job that can be very stressful and demanding at times and downtime with alot of fun and laughing is a must for me. I enjoy outdoor activities but I also love staying in. In my opinion cooking dinner together with a person you care about and snuggling up on the couch with a good movie is just as fun, if not more, than going out. I LOVE music with a passion (just about everything except newer rap music) and can honestly say that if I had the choice to be blind or deaf (God Forbid!) I would pick being blind over being deaf any day. I have to have music in my life and feel that I would probably go crazy without it. There is nothing like getting in your car and turning up the radio to a favorite song and singing along at the top of your lungs after a bad day at work. It just *** my mood and makes me feel better. I could live without my television. I could NOT live without my radio! LOL. I also love to read and read anything from science fiction, horror, suspense, fiction, biographies, history, and the paranormal. I have many favorite authors from all types of genres. I love to paint (oils are okay but I prefer acrylics), but I haven't had much time for it lately. I am also trying to teach myself how to play guitar (it's been a painful experience so far...LOL.) I love the outdoors especially in the fall season. I love going to the park. I love bird watching and have several bird feeders around my house. I guess that's something that I do because it reminds me of my Mother. I love going to plays, the ballet, the symphony, art and history museums (the side of me that loves culture). But I also love going to live concerts (especially harder rock) and have been to so many I have lost count (the side of me that loves the unrefined), singing karaoke with my girlfriends, going to movies, etc.. I try to spend as much time as I can with them. And I also love going to the zoo.As I said, I have a tough job but I am totally in love with it. It is actually something that happened by accident. I couldn't have imagined myself doing it but now that I am I couldn't imagine myself doing anything else! I prefer to think that I am unique. I am not looking to trap anyone, smother anyone, or make them feel like they are accountable to me for every minute outside of my presence. I have my own likes and dislikes, my own interests. My world will not revolve around you as yours should not revolve around me. I believe you should not become so wrapped up in someone else that you forget that you are your own person and have your own identity. I believe in sharing your life and experiences with someone, not living your life and experiences through someone. In having your own interests and keeping your own identity, I believe you have more to share and offer to a relationship. I would like to say that although I believe it's important to have your own interests, and even healthy to spend time away from each other, spending time with the person I care about is also important to me. I am a very loyal person. When I care about something I care deeply. And when I love someone I love deeply. I am a very "touchy feely" type of person. I'm not afraid to show physical affection. I love to touch, hug, kiss, hold hands...So the person I am looking for would naturally have to feel comfortable with that and would not be afraid to initiate physical affection on their own. I'm looking for someone who is not afraid to talk. Good conversation is important. I know in life you can't get eveything you want but I would love to find someone who wants to share themselves such as their thoughts, feelings and life experiences. This is what makes life interesting and what makes you who you are. I can be opinionated and I am not afraid to voice it at times. Of course I know there is a right time and a wrong time and also a right way and a wrong way to express it. I'm not rude or callous and would never say or do anything to hurt someone intentionally. I would hope for the same thing in the person I am looking for. Going to the zoo would probably be my first choice, although I have NEVER been able to get someone to take me to the zoo as an actual date. LOL. My second choice would probably be a picnic and maybe a walk in the park.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Garnette

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am looking for a long-lasting relationship. Not dating around, not multiple guys on the hook, not a hook-up. I want a connection, chemistry and compatibility in one relationship. I really want to find someone who is somewhere close to the stage of life I’m in (which, after plenty of dates with plenty of good guys of various ages I’ve come to see is related to age…lol…duh!) Hence the profile rewrite.I have to admit I’m a little hung up on age, but only because I work hard to stay fit and current and I’ve found that a lot of people (men and women) close to my age have sort of given up. I’m aging and it shows, but that’s not a free pass to quit caring about my health and appearance. I feel good about who I am right now. I’d like a similar attitude in my partner. You don’t have to be a triathlete, just practice healthy living habits.Both my kids are still living with me. My daughter is 20 and my son is 15. So, I’m still very committed to being a good mom, (and I find it really attractive if you’re into being a dad) but as they’ve gotten older I find myself with more time available to develop a social life…yay! :) I just rewarded myself with a birthday vacation in Vegas and loved it! (Posted some pics to my profile.) I want to do more traveling, but have always felt like the kids or the home should come first. I see that changing a lot in the next few years. I say this so you know I have time for you and that I want to make room in my life for the right man. I realize I can’t get a complete picture of who you are from a few paragraphs and some pictures, but I’m probably not going to respond to a guy who only posts one pic and doesn’t take the time to write more than, “Hit me up if you wanna know the rest.” C’mon…you have to at least try!There’s a lot more to me than what I’ve written here so please don’t think you know me just yet. If after reading my profile you think we are on the same page, please reach out. I promise not to be rude or stupid...unless you are…and even then, probably not. Lol. Thanks for reading. I think the first date is actually the second date. I mean, really, the first time you get together it's usually for coffee or a drink. Does that count? Well, maybe if it lasts longer than an hour or you kiss each other goodbye. I think a date is when you actually make a plan to do something together...like take a drive with no destination on a misty autumn morning when the sun is still trying to break through with a hot mocha in my hand, music in my ears, my hand on my guys thigh. No talking, just breathing it all in. You in?

  • Jocelyn

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am an extremely curious person, which sometimes gets me into a bit of mischief. I use humor in all aspects of my life whether dealing with a client at work or with friends and family. I am a country girl born and raised but love to travel, explore, see plays and musicals, go to museums, etc. I am independent and assertive. I do have an opinion but express it in an appropiate way. Trust me one's h***'9") has nothing to do with their personality or the way they can handle themselves. I believe in compromise and kissing your partner good night because you never know if that will be your last opportuntunity to express yourself. I believe in romance. Does anyone understand the concept anymore? I am a passionate person whether it's an idea or concept, or a relationship. I am silly, sensual, adventurous, like to cuddle, and seems to be a magnetic to just about any type of critter. I love flowers, butterflies, and most animals.I'm looking for a man who is open-minded, excepting of others, funny, curious, adventurous, and honest. I'm looking for that special person who makes me smile with a random thought and lets me know he's missed me by the way he looks at me. A man who makes me feel special in simple ways. Someone who likes to cuddle, take walks, or spend a weekend exploring new areas or just each other. I'm not looking for a game player or someone who needs a certian type of woman to make him feel good. Family and friends are important and so is sharing those important to me with a special someone. I WILL NOT respond to you if you live too far away. IN ADDITION: If you have been communicating with someone by messages, chat, and/or phone and then just disappear without an explaination it is game playing. I don't need it and don't want it.Please don't add me to your favorites if you have no intention of contacting me. If all you're interested in is a hook-up don't bother, not interested. This is a process so please don't except me to meet you on the first message because I won't. It is important to me that we get to know each other a little bit through online messages, texting, phone, etc before we have our first meet. This process doesn't have to take months but it is necessary and required. If I sound like a bossy, **** I'm sorry because I'm not. I'm just wanting to make things clear so you understand what is important to me. Wow, describe a first date. Let's see. IF it was the right time of year I think I would plan a day at Hidden Lake Gardens. We would spend time walking the gardens and trails, talking and sharing stories so we can get to know each other. We could sit next to thhe pond and watch the swans and other wildlife enjoy their day. At some point find a secluded spot to have a picnic. Then if we choose to stay after dark we could enjoy the sunset and the night sky through an opening in the trees. Some nights the Gardens even provides telescopes for more up close viewing.This I would not necessarily consider a first meeting but a first date. I believe there is a difference.The first meeting would be in a public places/ The location would depend on where you lived. A mall, restaurant, coffe shop, etc are all choices.

  • Janna

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Just updated my photos per someone's request...LOL! Many of the men on here keep saying they want someone real, adjusted, stable, no head games..... Then why is everyone so afraid to chat?! I am a divorced single mom of three and love my life and am happy. But, I want to find someone to share all of that with. I have been in the dating game for about 4 years now....Have had one relationship for about a year and have met some great friends along the way. Have also met my share of crazies, stalkers and liars.....so if you are any of those, move on...If you are real and looking for someone real, read on....I am ready for someone who feels the same and is able to appreciate and reciprocate thoughtfulness, spending quality time, and the beautiful things life has to offer, which includes my three children, eventually, and my dog...LOLI have a strong sense of self and what I want and deserve out of life, and more importantly, what I don't want and what I don't have time for. Now, that I am in my forties I would like to find someone who feels and wants the same. I want someone who I can have an intellectual conversation with but can be silly at the same time. I like to joke around and have been told I have a sarcastic sense of humor....Life is too short to not laugh at things that go on around us including ourselves! I also love going anywhere for no reason at all and enjoy and great night out with adult conversation and a few drinks..... Especially because I have them off! LOLI love my career, middle school students are interesting to say the least, and I feel so blessed to have a job that I like to go to work each day! Not many people can say that....Enough about me.......So, do you enjoy family and friends, a backyard barb-e-q with a fire pit in the summer, exploring new places with tween children who love life? If any of this sounds like you please, let's chat.....I know you are out there somewhere........... If you *** will respond.....If you don't take a chance you never know!!!!!!!! Meet for coffee or a picnic to see if we get along.......or whatever? I am open to just about anything.....

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