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Bessie, 45
United States, Minnesota, Prior Lake

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I enjoy meeting new people and making new friends. The journey to something more is exciting and making memories together is our reward at the end of the horizon. I'm a laid-back, optimistic, drama-free, and easygoing country girl who enjoys the simpler things in life. I'm looking to start things off slow and see where the journey leads. Life has taken me on many twists and turns, with many exciting adventures along the way. I've had my share of valleys, but no regrets. My baggage has been dealt with, and I'm very happy with my current place in life. However, like all of us, I desire someone to share in my life, walking beside me, making new memories, and traveling the journey together. Physical attraction to me can mean someone's eyes or their smile. I'm past that point in my life where it's all about looks. Good looks fade, but a good heart, loving personality, and upbeat attitude last forever!I'm definitely looking to start off as 'friends first' since every relationship needs a solid foundation upon which to build. You must be respectful, honest, compassionate, trustworthy, and affectionate. A positive, laid-back attitude with minimal drama would be appreciated. Disclaimer: I've adopted a new healthier lifestyle in that I'm trying to quit smoking, eating healthier, and exercising more, but it will take time to get to where I want. I'm doing this for me, not to get a man to like me. If this is a problem for you, I don't apologize. I am who I am, no matter my size. Something unique and casual where we can have fun and just be ourselves. The options are as various as there are people. No matter what we do, first date must be 'no pressure, no expectations' ... just two people spending time together, getting to know one another, having fun, and lots of talking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Japanese Middle Eastern Adventure Crime Family & Kids Martial Arts Archery Basketball
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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