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Bessie, 45
United States, Minnesota, Prior Lake

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About Me

I enjoy meeting new people and making new friends. The journey to something more is exciting and making memories together is our reward at the end of the horizon. I'm a laid-back, optimistic, drama-free, and easygoing country girl who enjoys the simpler things in life. I'm looking to start things off slow and see where the journey leads. Life has taken me on many twists and turns, with many exciting adventures along the way. I've had my share of valleys, but no regrets. My baggage has been dealt with, and I'm very happy with my current place in life. However, like all of us, I desire someone to share in my life, walking beside me, making new memories, and traveling the journey together. Physical attraction to me can mean someone's eyes or their smile. I'm past that point in my life where it's all about looks. Good looks fade, but a good heart, loving personality, and upbeat attitude last forever!I'm definitely looking to start off as 'friends first' since every relationship needs a solid foundation upon which to build. You must be respectful, honest, compassionate, trustworthy, and affectionate. A positive, laid-back attitude with minimal drama would be appreciated. Disclaimer: I've adopted a new healthier lifestyle in that I'm trying to quit smoking, eating healthier, and exercising more, but it will take time to get to where I want. I'm doing this for me, not to get a man to like me. If this is a problem for you, I don't apologize. I am who I am, no matter my size. Something unique and casual where we can have fun and just be ourselves. The options are as various as there are people. No matter what we do, first date must be 'no pressure, no expectations' ... just two people spending time together, getting to know one another, having fun, and lots of talking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Japanese Middle Eastern Adventure Crime Family & Kids Martial Arts Archery Basketball
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm quiet until you get to know me, modest, analytical, kind-natured, secretly optimist, and humorous college-educated (Bachelors) career woman. Interested in creating new memories, adventures, and a friendship with a special guy. I'm a firm believer in mutual attraction, chemistry, and the randomness of fate, a.k.a. lady luck.My goals and aspirations are pretty simple right now. Just to live in the moment and appreciate the now. Maybe learn a new dance step and go on a geocache hunt. My faith and family are important to me, so I'm active in the church and organized sports. I walk daily. I'm a business professional and worked all of my adult life. I balance my personal and professional life to ensure I'm not overly busy and have time for fun. My music has catchy lyrics and a peppy beat. I enjoy pop, rock, jazz, RB, disco, dance/techno, crossover country, classic, and big band. Not a fan of rap or heavy metal, but have been known to like a song or two in those categories.I like different types of movies including action, comedy, foreign, mystery, military, sci-fi, and romance.Looking for a smart, witty, physically fit man with a magnetic personality who has common morals, values, and interests; and is willing to try new things. Does this description fit you? What's your story? *** *******Interested in Divorced or Widowed Guys. Not interested in Separated Guys.***** We could try a mini date like going out for coffee, a glass of wine, breakfast, or even ice cream to see how things go. What are your ideas for a 1st date?

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    ~ I'm usually in a good mood, playful, and affectionate. I want to spoil the right guy and be spoiled too! Not into kinky, crazy stuff...just normal 1 on 1 dating. I do usually date younger guys, but not a requirement if you're upbeat, fun, and youthful. (Cute and tall helps too! Ha) ~~I like pretty much all types of music...can only take country music in small doses though! :) It would be nice to meet somewhere public, maybe have a drink and just talk to see if we click.

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  • Nikita from Prior Lake | Woman | 42 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I was raised by free-thinking, hippie, artists who gave me the gift of self exploration and expression and a sense that anything is possible. I am hard working, self motivated and driven as well as being really good at relaxing and doing nothing :)I am open-minded, open-hearted, and ever evolving.I'm doing my best to live in the moment and experience and enjoy every interaction and situation as it comes without expectation or attachment to outcome.I'm not necessarily searching for my next partner right now. I do want to eventually be in another long term, exclusive relationship and I would like to let that evolve naturally. Right now I am having a blast dating and getting to know some wonderful people.After ending a 20 year marriage it's great to be experiencing myself in relation to men in various forms of friendship and intimacy.I tend to be drawn to people who are bold, open, intelligent, strong, funny and joyful with a little bit of edge or grit...I believe that everyone who comes into our lives is there to teach us something and I am very much looking forward to all that I will learn.I don't drink at all because it doesn't agree with my stomach. I will say though, that I am relaxed and silly enough without it...Being with people who are drinking moderately doesn't bother me one bit. In my opinion the glass is neither half full nor half empty. It's FULL with half air and half liquid. Ha! What I’m doing with my life:Being an awesome mom to three daughters (16, 18 and 20). Holy shit! I have a 20 year old...Running my own business that allows me lots of time to explore other things.I'm the chair of the stewardship and fundraising committee at a kooky, left wing church. I am not at all religious but quite spiritual.I volunteer at CAMH, co-facilitating a skills/support group for parents of teens with severe emotion dysregulation.In the next five years I hope to buy a place in the country and gradually get to a point where I spend half my time there.I recycle and compost but every once in a while, when the fridge gets really bad, I will just dump it all in the garbage...I read a lot of non-fiction. I really enjoy books about spirituality and also sex, I read a lot of books about sex. Both theory and practical... in terms of fiction I mostly read dramas...I also enjoy a trashy magazine (people, us) from time to time.I love going to small intimate performances (cabaret, plays, music, comedy shows)I like all kinds of food and I'm a pretty great cook. I don't eat out very often and I try to focus on eating mostly fresh and healthy food.I don't like eggplant!I think that meeting in person is the best way to really get a sense of each other so let's do that right away :) Just a casual face to face to see if we want to get to know each other a bit more. Coffee or tea, a walk in the park...

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