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Selma, 41

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About Me

I AM A BIG WOMAN!!!! If that is a problem then dont bother wasting your time or mine...I am not here to play games...I want someone who truely wants to be with me...And yes sex is important but it isnt everything and there has to be some physical attraction or you wouldnt even be reading this...lol...So who knows if your sincere shoot me a message...Just never know what might happen...I am a divorced mom of 2 girls ages 19 & 21...They are both in college and live with me...I have dated a few times since my divorce.I dont need a man to support me I need a man to spoil me...I have been married twice first cheated and had other kids the second choose gambling over family...I am an open book wanna know something just ask...I am Shift Manager at McDonalds...i work early mornings usually 5am to 1pm...Im a big girl. so if your looking for a barbie i aint it...If you dont have a pic and still live with ur mom dont bother contacting me....I am done being played and lied to...A man wants to be with me he is gonna have to prove it...Not only telling me but showing me...Actions speak louder than words.... Dinner and a movie or just going to the river watching the sunset talking getting to know each other...Dont like bars and dont dance....Dont expect a meeting after only talking to me a few days....i wanna get to no you first...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Storm

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Most importantly, my life has no complications and I don't want to add any. I am independent and hard-working. I have one son who is 18 and headed to college soon. I am at a point in my life where I have established myself and would like someone to share my time with. I like spending time with my family and friends. I enjoy movies, music, concerts, camping, bonfires, and anything fun! I think friends would describe me as outgoing, confident and funny. I would like to meet someone who likes to go do things, be active, is also okay with staying in, is fun and likes to laugh. I'm open to suggestions. Would prefer something where we could get to know eachother.

  • Felicitas

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Update:I had this section filled out, then changed it and didn't write a lot, but wanted to give it another try. I'm on this site because I would like to meet someone special that I can get to know and, hopefully, build a relationship with. I have been on here for a few months and have a better feel for this site now. I am looking for someone who is honest, caring, intelligent (please be able to write more than a few words...it's hard talking to complete strangers, but easier if they include something about themselves) and who is truly looking for a relationship. I am not adverse to making friends on here either though. I completely understand that not all matches will work out, but please let me know honestly what is going on. I will do the same in return. I also do not like to feel like, if we have talked a couple of times that we are in some unspoken relationship. I do my best to get back to everyone, but I'm sure I've missed a few. Please also understand that, as a woman, I don't feel comfortable giving out my phone number in the first couple of messages as a general rule. I guess that men probably feel the same way. Also, while I totally understand that some people do not want to continue messaging on here forever, I also think that both people should be comfortable when getting in touch off of the site. I try to be sensitive to the needs of others and hope for the same. While I understand that some people become frustrated and, sometimes, even bitter by their experiences with online dating, I believe that for it to work out, they need to let go of those thoughts if they want a positive outcome. I hope this all makes sense. I judge each person on their own merits, not on what has happened with anyone else who I have talked to. A little bit about me: I'm a single mother with two beautiful daughters. I've been blessed to have been able to be home most of the time. They are now 16 and 20 and I have more flexibility. I have worked in the healthcare profession and, in the past few years, have had the opportunity to work with animals. Currently, I am building a home based business with my sister and would like to continue to work with animals in some regard. I enjoy being around most any type of animal. I've also done rescue work. There are so many unwanted animals out there with no home and I do what I can to help out. I'm confident, outgoing, laid back, kind, honest and treat others with respect. I don't hold grudges, have no drama going on in my life and enjoy life. I'm not looking for a relationship to fill any type of void. I'm looking for someone to share life with, but I'm not needy and believe in giving people their own space as well as together time in a relationship. For that to work, there has to be trust. I trust people until they give me a reason not to. I ask for the same in return. As much as I enjoy spending time together as a couple, I also enjoy time with my children, my family and some time with my friends...some alone time is nice also. Thank you for taking the time to read this and, if you are interested, please drop me a line. A first date should be somewhere both people feel comfortable enough to get to know each other and enjoy each others company.

  • Jill

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am looking for a relationship, but also just to take it slow, go on dates, dinners, coffee, see if there is a connection and take it from there. I have 2 children ages 17 and 15 that keep me busy and I work from home. I own my own business and have flexible hours. I enjoy going down to the shore in the summer for weekends. I enjoy going to the movies, and even just staying home and cooking and enjoying a nice night in. Just looking to connect with that special person and enjoy our time together.

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