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About Me

Let me add...if u live with ur baby mom, dont contact me...Hey guys...I am 39 years young and looking for someone to be my best friend. I'm from NY...and yes have the attitude...but am also a genuine no bull kind of girl. I have 2 kids and they run my world! I'm looking for a man...a real man...that doesn't play games and knows how to treat a woman.!! I'm not a big go-out girl...but I do like to once in a while. I prefer to hang at home..cook out..swim..and go to bed early to share a lot of quality time. I hope I can find a good honest man to squeeze onto! Please do not contact me if your looking for a sex partner...lol I'm saving myself for that special someone!!! ***Seriously...only hit me up if your interested in a forever relationship... I'm tired of the serial daters!***Note to the men of the world: Just be honest!!! A strong woman can handle anything and should have the right to decide what is acceptable.... Stop lying... U wont get anywhere in life... past a first or second date...lol I like to go to a game/bowling/movies/dinner....pretty much i think first dates are over rated. It does not have to be spectacular! Just as long as we can spend a little time together...I haven't really dated in a long time...and I don't like that 1st time pressure...lifes tooooo short! All I really want out of a date is for a man to be himself! I don't get impressed easily...but I do appreciate!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

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    WOW! so many great guys on here! With so much to offer...it was really a hard decision ..but I did find someone that I would like to focus on and see whats in store...so best of luck to you and don't settle for anything less than what you want n b true to u! God Bless :) surprise me !

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a very outgoing, athletic person who enjoys time with friends but also enjoys a quiet romantic night at home with a special someone. I love to laugh and smile alot. Life's too short not to enjoy it. Walks on the beach or on a hiking trail in the mountains is always relaxing to me. I love being spontaneous and just having fun sometimes, although I can also be serious when I need/want to be. I enjoy different kinds of music and like to dance but really don't feel I'm very good at it - but I can laugh at myself with you. I'm looking for someone who values life, romance, family, and who will share this wonderful, beautiful life with me that we've all been given.......I'm looking for a serious relationship that will lead into a lifetime of shared memories and good - no GREAT times! I believe a first date should be spent sharing information about each other. Maybe meeting for coffee, lunch, or dinner and taking a walk afterwards just to share some laughs. First dates are always so awkward but I believe that if it's with the right person, the awkwardness will disappear FAST! and before you know it you're talking to each other and laughing as if you've known each other your whole lives. At the end of the date, if it feels right, I believe a soft, gentle kiss would be the perfect ending until we meet again.

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Im a happy mom of 2 kids. I love to be outside. Camping, fishing, or just staying home. I really dont know what all to say. But. Im looking for friends. Going somewhere to talk and get to know more about each other.

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