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Esme, 44
United States, Minnesota, Northfield

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About Me

So heres where i talk about my hobbies, goals/aspirations, etc. lol. I think it is much easier just getting to know that person and learn as you go. Now for everyone who believes inner beauty out weighs outer beauty, I do not completely disagree, but reality is that we are all attracted to the outer beauty of a stranger. Inner beauty comes after you get to know that person. we can not be attracted to someones inner beauty when we dont even know them, and since none of us know each other I'll bet the physical attraction is what leads you to sending that message. If I am attracted to you I would definitely want to get to know you. Physical attraction is what brings out sexual desire. Sex isn't everything in a relationship but it is very important. Im guessing a lot of women say that sex isnt important but i disagree, the passion two people make is juust as important as friendship is. Both of these things are important to keeping a relationship strong, it is the spice of life. Whats the fun in reading someones profile. I dont think a profile determines a connection. You have to get to know that person.I want the person I am with to be my best friend and share the same sexual desires. I like holding hands, taking walks but I like to have fun also, weather that be going out dancing, fishing, camping, golfing, etc., I just want to do it with that special person. I work long hours and am very independent. I am not so much in to the material things but more into living within my means. I think a relationship is ***. I don't see it as this is your job and that is mine. If the dishes need done and u are the one home then do them, If the grass needs cut and I'm the one home I will cut it. I am not a Cheater and don't want one. If u need more than one playmate I'm probably not the one for u. I'm tempted to say First dates always demand a crowd but I think it also depends on how comfortable you are with that person. Most of the time after just talking to someone a few times I get a feel for that comfort level, so first dates would definitely have to be something you are both comfortable with. I might even want to wear some good running shoes!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass French German Vietnamese Pets Play Sport Games
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