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Shantae, 42

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About Me

Im a 42yr old divorced Mother of 2 Sons, of 16 and 21. Been divorced now little over 2yrs. 21yr old is on his own. I have my 16yr old all the time. Hoping to meet a fun, good hearted, faithful, funny, romantic gentleman. Would settle for faithful LOL. I like laughter. LOVE comedy. I can find funny in anything and at anytime.My kids too once I start or they do, so a sense of humor is a MUST!! I love anything 80s, music, movies. Love to meet a man who is also into 80s sh*tlol. Trust me we will have fun :) Concerts, beach vacations. Rides to no where. Spontaneous weekends away I miss it. Cookouts, Holidays and good times. RAVENS football LOL. Anything else u wanna know just ask. :) Meet at a public place like a mall or restaurant. I dont mind a man with a few extra pounds, but no big men sry. Just my preferance. I am in NO hurry. I like to take things slow. Please no men who are overly touchy and feely on the first date, thats an *** off. Not looking for a "GOOD TIME" aka one night stands etc. Thats what ya looking for theres other websites for that..LOL. I love chemistry and if its there as we date we can then move along as we both feel comfortable.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lia

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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