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Alvena, 42
United States, Minnesota, New York Mills

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About Me

Disclaimer: I have read what I wrote and it tends to sound rather formal. That really isn’t who I am. I am a down to earth person who will pretty much tell it like it is (or at least how I see it). Notice the line about making others laugh, this is something I love to do! Anyways, read on and you’ll see what I mean…I value people who exhibit life ambition. This doesn’t mean that you are constantly looking to climb the corporate ladder, but rather you are always looking for ways to better yourself and broaden your horizon. This could mean schooling, but mainly it is doing the things that make you happy with who you are as a person. It could be learning a new hobby, taking a class or face and overcome a fear. A personal example would be facing my fear of claustrophobia by crawling through an enclosed maze in the dark. My heart was beating out of my chest and I hated every second of it, but once I was through I was very proud of my accomplishment.Family and friends are a very important part of life. I was raised within a loving family and I am still close with all of them. Even though we are now scattered around the U.S., we stay in touch and visit when possible. If my family or a friend needed me, I take pride in being there to support them in whatever way I am able.I am an outgoing person. I love to make people laugh. I would say that my brand of humor is sarcastic, but not mean. I am honest, sometimes I think I might be too honest. If someone asks a question looking for the answer to be what he or she wants to hear, I may be the right person. However, if I sense that this is the case I will ask the person if they really want to hear my opinion. Just because I’m related to you or your friend doesn’t mean that I will lie to you and tell you what you want to hear. I am an independent person, but I would love to find someone to share my life with. I don’t need anyone, but I want a special someone in my life. I feel that if you need someone, a relationship won’t work. If I need someone to be happy then I am not happy with myself, and honestly, it’s too much pressure to put on someone else to make them responsible for my happiness. I think it is important for two people to have shared interests, but also to have different interest as well. Variety is the spice of life, or so I have heard. The perfect first date is something that allows plenty of time for conversation and getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Shery from New York Mills | Woman | 44 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    This may seem shallow but in reality looks and chemistry are the first thing people do see. So if you are not appealing to most people then sorry keep looking, if you don't have a photo on your profile, please do not waste my time and contact me no matter how hot you think u are, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder (that being me). Please if you have long hillbilly hair, big beer gut, look like your 60 but are only 40 something, please keep moving. I maybe getting close to 50 but don't even come close to looking it so thank you but I am not ready to date someone that looks that old.I am a divorced mother of an awesome 9 yr boy who is my world and will always come first. That being said, it's time I found my own play date LOL. We also rescued great dog about a ***ago. I was with my ex for 15 yrs but married for 10 of those yrs. So now I am back in the dating pool. I am 43yrs old and told on a daily basis that I look much younger. I am caring, helpful, generous, honest, trustworthy and a great kisser, I also believe that I am fairly decent looking and believe it is only fair to have the same thing with the person that I chose to share my world with that being said, I am also a good person, family then friends. If I give you my heart then there isn't anything I wouldn't do for you. You would think that would be easy but....NO ITS NOT.I like most kinds of music even country but don't really care for rap. I like to cook or bake with someone, playing in the rain, watching movies, listening to music while playing cards or board game. Making ice cream sundaes, eating junk food, Kicking the soccer ball around with my son, roller skating. My idea of a good first day would be to meet at a coffee shop or casual place in between both of us and enjoy a drink, and maybe share a desert while getting to know each other.If we connect the date can always go longer.

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  • Adelina from New York Mills | Woman | 41 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I enjoy spritzing free perfume from Sephora,frequenting the samples at COSTCO, I am an in the closet wino..and itz gotta be Moscato or a Reisling or nothing.Im overly inquisitive..so they tell me...what do u think?Im addicted to 80s sitcoms..with that i love rainy sundays so i can pop in a dvd. I hate touchy people other than friends and family, and of course luv ones ;).-sumthings are just best to keep secret!Please note I am NOT looking for a hook up, and if u drink more than socially im not interested, sorry thats just not my lifestyle, as well as smoking...nicorette it, then lets talk...just saying...youd think that was a given but Im puttin it out there. **i didnt think this wuld b an issue but...i cannot date a 20yr old..thanks for the shout out but that wuld b sumthing my 18yr old son wuld not understand..also i dont have ur energy....

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  • Shawn from New York Mills | Woman | 43 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Are you intelligent, confident, employed and lacking a criminal record? If so my cooking ability and golf game will complement your great smile. My job brought me to the area 6 years ago and I've enjoyed exploring the city and burbs with my friends, but would like to have a good man show me some of his favorite spots. So, if you are honest, taller than me, have a sense of humor and would like to get to know a woman who is a good combination of a lady and a tomboy - shoot me an *** talk. I am looking for a long term relationship, if you are not, I wish you luck in your search but please don't contact me.

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