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About Me

"We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly." We all have our ideas of the perfect mate. There is a difference between not settling for less and accepting what is right and will become perfect. My guess is your idea of a perfect woman did not have gray hair and a few extra pounds (and I have only a few). But I guarantee you do not know perfect just by a picture. I am not willing to pass up something special because it does not fit my vision of perfection. I have so much to offer and I hope to find the man that is willing to find out exactly what that is. I am anxious to learn about what you might have to offer as well. I am honest and true and I don't want to play games. I want a relationship, a friend, a lover, a partner. One step at a time...let's make that first step and see what comes from it.If you think you might be interested, take a chance and let me know. I bet you have a question in mind. Ask away. I respond to every message. A walk, a drink, a park, or a meal...It doesn't have to be extravagant by any means. Let's talk about it and decide what is perfect for us.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Albert

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I enjoy spending time with my kids, but would like a grown up life as well. Would like to spend time with someone that can roll with kids etc. and not be intimidated by that, but someone also that I can have a healthy one on one relationship with. If you're not serious, please don't message me and let's not waste eachother's time. I would hate to miss the person I should be meeting :) surprise me....don't kidnap me, but surprise me all the same :)

  • Abagail

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm blessed to say that I love my job! It's an incredible industry & it helps to be an aviation fanatic as well. He's all grown up (so he thinks) at 20 years of age. Honestly, I couldn't have asked for a better child. We were fortunate not to have the teenager problems that many parents have these days.I love animals, I have a dog & 3 cats but they don't live with me. Sound crazy? LOL I visit them often.I look for the good & the positive in every day. I love people with a positive attitude & say away from those that live on negativity. I'm a responsible woman but when it's time to let the hair down and get crazy and have fun, it's ON!I'm not shy. I love learning about different cultures.I was married for 22 years, it was a mutual decision. No drama, no ugliness. We still talk and are friends.Yes, it can happen, it doesn’t have to be an ugly thing if you both are adult about it. I'm single for the first time in my adult life and looking forward to the adventures that life has waiting for me!I was my mother’s caregiver after my father passed away in ***. She had several health problems and Alzheimer’s. In March of this year, her suffering ended and is in the arms of her true love once again.I've learned not to allow things to stress me out that are out of my control. Life is full of changes; you just have to roll with it.I don't play games, I keep it real. I have no expectations, I am looking to meet new people/friends and enjoy life. I'll let things happen when they are meant to happen.Always challenge yourself to do something new, it may change your life!**********************************************************************************If you are married or a racist, don't bother messaging me, there is no room in my life for you. Just sayin'!I am a strong, independent, confident woman that has self-respect. Don't bother asking for nude photos or sex, it won't happen.***NOTE***If the site shows that I'm online, it doesn't mean that I'm sitting in front of a computer screen awaiting the next message. I could be signed into the phone app but driving, actually talking on my phone, kicking the a$$ of the person who spray painted my son's truck, saving a homeless animal or whatever.I might be home but busy doing things. Things like cleaning, cooking, shaving my legs, organizing my closets & drawers, dancing to loud music, paying bills, reading a book, you get the idea...I'll stop by the little glowing screen every now and then.If I don't respond as quickly as you'd like & you get annoyed, you might want to look for someone else who doesn't have responsibilities, hobbies, activities, or interests. Just keeping it real. Be creative and surprise me!

  • Chantay

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I want someone who I can say anything to, and vice versa. That is important. It's rare anything shocks or offends me, I'm very open minded and I'm looking for the same.I took a one year break from dating, and ended up going three years I was enjoying it so much.But with my two children in high school so close to being adults and moving on, I want someone to share life with, enhance my world, and go places with. I still have a lot of living to do and I’d like company for fun and adventures.I put a lot in the Interest section, I don’t do them all regularly, just when an opportunity arises.I'm friendly, laid back, optimistic, playful, and nice. I love to laugh, and I am easily amused.I do not like, create, or tolerate drama. I don’t have any baggage. I detest lying.I enjoy anything outside. Especially walking in the rain.You can take me anywhere from a hole in the wall bar, laughing at jokes that would make a sailor blush...to a fancy event with pearls.I exercise regularly and am in extremely good shape. I can out hike healthy teenagers lolI like all sorts of music. Like the joke: My taste in music ranges from You have to listen to this!..to...Please don't judge lolI like all sorts of TV and movies. I love sci fi.I like pretty much all foods. I'll try about any food once.After my children move out I plan on getting a home that has some land around it, and big porches to sit out on. I'm looking for someone who: Is capable of messages longer than one word and good conversation.Is honest, reliable, and stable. Good natured who can also find fun in most any situation.In good enough health to keep up with me. For a first meeting I believe it should be short and sweet to give us both a chance to go home and process whether we want a second date.First meetings are usually two people who are sort of strangers, and at least one of them could be nervous, so an hour or two meeting over a beer or wine would be more relaxing than a coffee shop and caffeine. Worst case, if we don't have chemistry, we can walk away having made a new friend.

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