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Dierdre, 44

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About Me

I am an independent, professional female looking to get out and enjoy life a little. Positive, laid back and patient, I enjoy doing most anything if the company is good. I enjoy learning about people and learning new things. I love going to the beach,travel, festivals,camping,sporting events, concerts, and backyard BBQ's.Love weekend getaways, even if its the next town over... finding the local flair and enjoying what is offered.Although I am comfortable in most any atmosphere, black tie to roughing it, I prefer an atmosphere that is laid back, as opposed to glamour and the "in crowd"- that gets old fast. Although I love to feel like a woman and be girly, I am far from a high maintenance kind of girl. I am open minded and respect others differences and beliefs. I would like you to be the same. I have a quirky sense of humor and love to laugh. You will see me smiling a lot... starting to get a few smile lines as a result... I think of it as souveniers of a life well lived.I am a little shy at first until I get to know you. Many people have described me as a good listener and someone they can freely talk to. I suppose this is a good quality to have in my profession. Think quiet school teacher :) I do, however, love a good conversation and enjoy hearing another's thoughts, even if they are different from my own.Physically, I never know how to describe because physical traits are in eye of beholder. I would say I am a little on the chunkier side, but I am not obese. Some men find me very physically attractive, and some, I am not their cup of tea. As we age, its always a constant battle to improve ourselves,but I am comfortable with myself, one way or the other. I only add this part because I do not want to be misleading. If you are wanting ultra fit Barbie/adult movie star body, then I am not for you. I am the mother of three adult children and a grandmother. I have spent a large part of my life trying to make a difference in the lives of children. If you don't like children, then you are probably not the one for me.I am a hopeless romantic that is quickly becoming jaded. Why is it so hard to find someone looking for the same things? If you are the following, please contact me:-Single/Divorced-enjoy getting out and having fun/enjoy a quiet evening at home-- are wanting a GOOD girl that knows when to be bad.-are literate: yo mami, your so sexy, TypINg liKe tHis doesn't fly ( I am not grammar police, but please sound like an adult with intelligence)-don't play games- don't leave me guessing because of the three day rule- if you want to text or call then do it- otherwise I am going to take it as a sign you aren't interested.- on that note, Honest. If I am not the one for you, just say we are looking for different things.- aren't completely shallow -are over age 35-are wanting more than a fwb, booty call. I understand it takes time to cultivate a friendship, but DO NOT CONTACT ME if this is only what are wanting. It is wasting MY time.-like having interests of your own, and like your girl to have the same - are wanting to reassure my hopeless romantic self that there are still good guys out there.If you made it through this profile, kudos to you, hopefully I have sparked an interest that will be mutual. I have no ideal first date in mind... what truly matters is the company!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Malinda

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    HERE'S A CLUE...."ANYBODY LISTENING"...IS A SONG FROM A BAND!!!! KNOW WHO IT IS????THE FIRST TO APOLOGIZE IS THE BRAVEST...THE FIRST TO FORGIVE IS THE STRONGEST....THE FIRST TO FORGET IS THE HAPPIEST!!! I WEAR A BRACELET ON MY WRIST OF MY FAVORITE QUOTE...IT SAYS "BE THE CHANGE YOU WISH TO SEE IN THE WORLD" TO REMIND ME TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE EVERYDAY WITH MYSELF AND WITH OTHERS.I love poetry, art, nature, animals...I am a Pisces!!! That is who we are! Hope you read ALL of who I am!!!I am tired of games and men who say they are not like the rest...the thing is how do you know your not? Someone's word and integrity should count for something!! I would just like to meet one person who is honest and wants to date one person not play games. Is that so hard?..wish to return...Hope to at some point!!! I am way too cold here!!! need sun, sand, beach, salt air!. I live at the beach but it is too cold!!!Some things about me... I am a friendly, but very private person until I get to know someone. I have a small but close set of friends that I am loyal to. I have a daughter that means more to me than the world!!!!!! She is my gurl!!! (she passed away in Jan!!!) I like to have fun and joke around but it takes awhile for someone to get to know me and get to my heart. Trust, Honesty, and Respect mean more to me than anything. Above all else if I give you my heart you will have it forever. I am a very loyal person to my family and friends. I am very sensative and I care deeply. One of my biggest flaws is that I don't have a very good concept of time. I lose track of it A LOT!!! and I'm always running late...just accept it now!!! I don't like mornings very well (unless I've been up all night ). love thunderstorms!!! love to sleep in the early morning!!! I love the beach / OCEAN / WAVES...could never leave the smell of the salt air!!! NEVER!!! I do not smoke and prefer someone who does not but some men like to smoke when they drink...lol I like honesty ABOVE ALL ELSE IN THIS WORLD> I NEED TRUST AND LOYALTY!!!!! HATE FAKE PEOPLE WHO JUST BETRY THEIR FRIENDS AND ARE AFTER PEOPLE FOR WHAT THEY HAVE!!! HATE USERS!!!!! I am NOT on this site for a HOOK up or to meet someone for that reason!!! Maybe a lot of people are BUT I am not. I just want someone cool to hang out with and have fun. If you are lookin for that PASS ME BY!!!! I am so tired of those types!!!!Chemistry is very important and not somthing that can be faked. I would rather be alone than with the wrong person. I love affection, kissing (MAKING OUT!!!) being together, having a good time . I am a smart, sensual, creative, and outgoing person. I think I am very open minded and love to learn new things. I have found a lot of people are closed off and stuck in their ways! We all like what we like, but somtimes you have to go outside of your comfort zone!!! :)I wish more people were honest in this world! ...PS....I CAN BE VERY SHY AS WELL!!!! FOR A FIRST DATE???HMMM I HATE THE IDEA OF A DATE SEEMS SO MUCH LIKE PRESSURE. JUST LIKE TO THINK OF TWO FRIENDS MEETING FOR A DRINK OR DINNER OR HANGIN OUT TO LISTEN TO MUSIC. NO EXPECTATIONS!!!! MEETING FOR COFFEE IS GOOD IN THE WINTER - BUT I DON'T DRINK COFFEE SO HOT CHOC. P.S> I LOVE TO ASK AND BE ASKED QUESTIONS>>>>DONT KNOW WHY?????

  • Ila

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hey there.I've been on here before and ya beleive it's a joke but maybe you can prove me wrong.My family and friends are the most important part of my life.I beleive honesty is the only way to be.I'm looking for somebody who beleives the same.A great sense of humour is a must.I can be a girlie girl but I can get down with the best of them.I'm not scared to break a nail lol.I love hanging out with family and friends having a couple drinks and lots of laughs.I like camping when I have time and the outdoors.I like to say I play golf lol but I'm just learning.I like to ski,and go sledding hhhmmm just to much to mention lol.I like watching hockey and Penguins all the way lol you can bet I'll be cheering lol.I like UFC,movies,I love music. I'm pretty easy going and can be a bit silly.I may not be what your looking for and vice versa and that's ok.I can only be me lol.We all have different taste right.I have included a picture so it's only fair you have one to.I'm not into ONE night stands and I'm not into the bs and if you are, you are fishing in the wrong pond.and I don't have no interest in being a replacement or a rebound so if your on a break from your relationship need not apply.I'm not meaning to sound rude in any way just putting it out there.I'm just searching for my best friend.:)AndRemember,Life is a precious gift, Love is a wonderful gift, and laughter is glorious gift. So live life to the fullest, and laugh as much as you breathe.Happy fishing. Well whatever we decide and what we both like.

  • Annalee

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am an independant woman with a positive attitude. I am sensitive yet strong in my beliefs and values. I live life everyday as if the next might not come, I'm honest, I cherish the moment, I'm not afraid to walk in the rain, I love to let my hair down, Nothing more important in life than being able to laugh out loud!!!I am a caring mom and a dependable friend, have 2 dogs whom are part of my family. I am dedicated to martial arts and write poetry as a hobby. I love to be me and not afraid to be straight forward and speak the truth. I love to dance, my favorite is Bob Marley and the 80's music is the best for me!!!My goal in life is to be the best mom, friend, someday spouse , that I can be while making myself happy as well, cause truth be known that if you yourself is unhappy so will they b. As my karate *** "you must love yourself first"! Look in the mirror do you like what you see if not.... only you can change it, don't blame anyone else!!!!! Dance in the rain , walk on the beach, just hang out and have a conversation and get to know each other. I would just be natural, and do my best to have a good time. Immediately I would feel either a connection , strong vibe, or a nothing in common feeling, but hey mr. Right is out there and I'll find him....

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