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Dierdre, 44

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About Me

I am an independent, professional female looking to get out and enjoy life a little. Positive, laid back and patient, I enjoy doing most anything if the company is good. I enjoy learning about people and learning new things. I love going to the beach,travel, festivals,camping,sporting events, concerts, and backyard BBQ's.Love weekend getaways, even if its the next town over... finding the local flair and enjoying what is offered.Although I am comfortable in most any atmosphere, black tie to roughing it, I prefer an atmosphere that is laid back, as opposed to glamour and the "in crowd"- that gets old fast. Although I love to feel like a woman and be girly, I am far from a high maintenance kind of girl. I am open minded and respect others differences and beliefs. I would like you to be the same. I have a quirky sense of humor and love to laugh. You will see me smiling a lot... starting to get a few smile lines as a result... I think of it as souveniers of a life well lived.I am a little shy at first until I get to know you. Many people have described me as a good listener and someone they can freely talk to. I suppose this is a good quality to have in my profession. Think quiet school teacher :) I do, however, love a good conversation and enjoy hearing another's thoughts, even if they are different from my own.Physically, I never know how to describe because physical traits are in eye of beholder. I would say I am a little on the chunkier side, but I am not obese. Some men find me very physically attractive, and some, I am not their cup of tea. As we age, its always a constant battle to improve ourselves,but I am comfortable with myself, one way or the other. I only add this part because I do not want to be misleading. If you are wanting ultra fit Barbie/adult movie star body, then I am not for you. I am the mother of three adult children and a grandmother. I have spent a large part of my life trying to make a difference in the lives of children. If you don't like children, then you are probably not the one for me.I am a hopeless romantic that is quickly becoming jaded. Why is it so hard to find someone looking for the same things? If you are the following, please contact me:-Single/Divorced-enjoy getting out and having fun/enjoy a quiet evening at home-- are wanting a GOOD girl that knows when to be bad.-are literate: yo mami, your so sexy, TypINg liKe tHis doesn't fly ( I am not grammar police, but please sound like an adult with intelligence)-don't play games- don't leave me guessing because of the three day rule- if you want to text or call then do it- otherwise I am going to take it as a sign you aren't interested.- on that note, Honest. If I am not the one for you, just say we are looking for different things.- aren't completely shallow -are over age 35-are wanting more than a fwb, booty call. I understand it takes time to cultivate a friendship, but DO NOT CONTACT ME if this is only what are wanting. It is wasting MY time.-like having interests of your own, and like your girl to have the same - are wanting to reassure my hopeless romantic self that there are still good guys out there.If you made it through this profile, kudos to you, hopefully I have sparked an interest that will be mutual. I have no ideal first date in mind... what truly matters is the company!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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