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Phillida, 44

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About Me

If you have drama in your life, unresolved emotional or commitment issues, afraid of taking a chance, married or separated then please skip my profile. I'm a working professional, single, financially stable, no baggage or emotional issues. I'm here to give 110% of my effort to someone that is willing to the same in return, no games!I'm not here to waste my time ...... my time is very valuable. I'm here in search of a real connection leading to a relationship only, not endless dating! I'm looking to be in a commited relationship with someone.I'm honest! Straight forward, laid back, open minded, conciderate, I express how I feel...... I hate drama and avoid it at all costs. I hate to raise my voice or yell. I hate arguing but I love to debate, I'll admit when I'm wrong, I seek out answers to questions I can't answer, I have a big heart, I communicate well........I depise going to bed upset or angry..... I confront major issues *** turning away. I'm motivated, ambitious, determined and like to stay busy but I enjoy down time to relax...... I like to see visual progress in my work at the end of a day. I'm protective and respectful..... I can't stand disrespect unless I did something to deserve it, I don't like it when other people are disrespected.I'm generous to friends and family..... I'm friendly and get along with most anyone to a point. I'm confident, but not****. If I see something I want I figure out a way to make it happen. I'm passionate, sensual, and sexual. I have high standards, I have simple but usually expensive taste......I am more of a trend setter than a follower!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Malinda

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    HERE'S A CLUE...."ANYBODY LISTENING"...IS A SONG FROM A BAND!!!! KNOW WHO IT IS????THE FIRST TO APOLOGIZE IS THE BRAVEST...THE FIRST TO FORGIVE IS THE STRONGEST....THE FIRST TO FORGET IS THE HAPPIEST!!! I WEAR A BRACELET ON MY WRIST OF MY FAVORITE QUOTE...IT SAYS "BE THE CHANGE YOU WISH TO SEE IN THE WORLD" TO REMIND ME TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE EVERYDAY WITH MYSELF AND WITH OTHERS.I love poetry, art, nature, animals...I am a Pisces!!! That is who we are! Hope you read ALL of who I am!!!I am tired of games and men who say they are not like the rest...the thing is how do you know your not? Someone's word and integrity should count for something!! I would just like to meet one person who is honest and wants to date one person not play games. Is that so hard?..wish to return...Hope to at some point!!! I am way too cold here!!! need sun, sand, beach, salt air!. I live at the beach but it is too cold!!!Some things about me... I am a friendly, but very private person until I get to know someone. I have a small but close set of friends that I am loyal to. I have a daughter that means more to me than the world!!!!!! She is my gurl!!! (she passed away in Jan!!!) I like to have fun and joke around but it takes awhile for someone to get to know me and get to my heart. Trust, Honesty, and Respect mean more to me than anything. Above all else if I give you my heart you will have it forever. I am a very loyal person to my family and friends. I am very sensative and I care deeply. One of my biggest flaws is that I don't have a very good concept of time. I lose track of it A LOT!!! and I'm always running late...just accept it now!!! I don't like mornings very well (unless I've been up all night ). love thunderstorms!!! love to sleep in the early morning!!! I love the beach / OCEAN / WAVES...could never leave the smell of the salt air!!! NEVER!!! I do not smoke and prefer someone who does not but some men like to smoke when they drink...lol I like honesty ABOVE ALL ELSE IN THIS WORLD> I NEED TRUST AND LOYALTY!!!!! HATE FAKE PEOPLE WHO JUST BETRY THEIR FRIENDS AND ARE AFTER PEOPLE FOR WHAT THEY HAVE!!! HATE USERS!!!!! I am NOT on this site for a HOOK up or to meet someone for that reason!!! Maybe a lot of people are BUT I am not. I just want someone cool to hang out with and have fun. If you are lookin for that PASS ME BY!!!! I am so tired of those types!!!!Chemistry is very important and not somthing that can be faked. I would rather be alone than with the wrong person. I love affection, kissing (MAKING OUT!!!) being together, having a good time . I am a smart, sensual, creative, and outgoing person. I think I am very open minded and love to learn new things. I have found a lot of people are closed off and stuck in their ways! We all like what we like, but somtimes you have to go outside of your comfort zone!!! :)I wish more people were honest in this world! ...PS....I CAN BE VERY SHY AS WELL!!!! FOR A FIRST DATE???HMMM I HATE THE IDEA OF A DATE SEEMS SO MUCH LIKE PRESSURE. JUST LIKE TO THINK OF TWO FRIENDS MEETING FOR A DRINK OR DINNER OR HANGIN OUT TO LISTEN TO MUSIC. NO EXPECTATIONS!!!! MEETING FOR COFFEE IS GOOD IN THE WINTER - BUT I DON'T DRINK COFFEE SO HOT CHOC. P.S> I LOVE TO ASK AND BE ASKED QUESTIONS>>>>DONT KNOW WHY?????

  • Ligia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I try my best to be good at a variety of different things rather than exerting all of my energy towards one aspect of my life. Search for energetic person, who hasn’t yet got tired of fun.

  • Lyndsay

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a down to earth, easy going person, dont like drama or materialistic things, love the ocean and walks on the beach, sports, country music and spending quality time with my two kids. They have taught me a lot about life and love. All I want to find is happiness and someone to except me for who I am and love me just the same. I wish to find my soulmate someone to laugh with me and have fun whether it be as a family or just the two of us, my lover and my best friend.

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