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Malinda, 44

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HERE'S A CLUE...."ANYBODY LISTENING"...IS A SONG FROM A BAND!!!! KNOW WHO IT IS????THE FIRST TO APOLOGIZE IS THE BRAVEST...THE FIRST TO FORGIVE IS THE STRONGEST....THE FIRST TO FORGET IS THE HAPPIEST!!! I WEAR A BRACELET ON MY WRIST OF MY FAVORITE QUOTE...IT SAYS "BE THE CHANGE YOU WISH TO SEE IN THE WORLD" TO REMIND ME TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE EVERYDAY WITH MYSELF AND WITH OTHERS.I love poetry, art, nature, animals...I am a Pisces!!! That is who we are! Hope you read ALL of who I am!!!I am tired of games and men who say they are not like the rest...the thing is how do you know your not? Someone's word and integrity should count for something!! I would just like to meet one person who is honest and wants to date one person not play games. Is that so hard?..wish to return...Hope to at some point!!! I am way too cold here!!! need sun, sand, beach, salt air!. I live at the beach but it is too cold!!!Some things about me... I am a friendly, but very private person until I get to know someone. I have a small but close set of friends that I am loyal to. I have a daughter that means more to me than the world!!!!!! She is my gurl!!! (she passed away in Jan!!!) I like to have fun and joke around but it takes awhile for someone to get to know me and get to my heart. Trust, Honesty, and Respect mean more to me than anything. Above all else if I give you my heart you will have it forever. I am a very loyal person to my family and friends. I am very sensative and I care deeply. One of my biggest flaws is that I don't have a very good concept of time. I lose track of it A LOT!!! and I'm always running late...just accept it now!!! I don't like mornings very well (unless I've been up all night ). love thunderstorms!!! love to sleep in the early morning!!! I love the beach / OCEAN / WAVES...could never leave the smell of the salt air!!! NEVER!!! I do not smoke and prefer someone who does not but some men like to smoke when they drink...lol I like honesty ABOVE ALL ELSE IN THIS WORLD> I NEED TRUST AND LOYALTY!!!!! HATE FAKE PEOPLE WHO JUST BETRY THEIR FRIENDS AND ARE AFTER PEOPLE FOR WHAT THEY HAVE!!! HATE USERS!!!!! I am NOT on this site for a HOOK up or to meet someone for that reason!!! Maybe a lot of people are BUT I am not. I just want someone cool to hang out with and have fun. If you are lookin for that PASS ME BY!!!! I am so tired of those types!!!!Chemistry is very important and not somthing that can be faked. I would rather be alone than with the wrong person. I love affection, kissing (MAKING OUT!!!) being together, having a good time . I am a smart, sensual, creative, and outgoing person. I think I am very open minded and love to learn new things. I have found a lot of people are closed off and stuck in their ways! We all like what we like, but somtimes you have to go outside of your comfort zone!!! :)I wish more people were honest in this world! ...PS....I CAN BE VERY SHY AS WELL!!!! FOR A FIRST DATE???HMMM I HATE THE IDEA OF A DATE SEEMS SO MUCH LIKE PRESSURE. JUST LIKE TO THINK OF TWO FRIENDS MEETING FOR A DRINK OR DINNER OR HANGIN OUT TO LISTEN TO MUSIC. NO EXPECTATIONS!!!! MEETING FOR COFFEE IS GOOD IN THE WINTER - BUT I DON'T DRINK COFFEE SO HOT CHOC. P.S> I LOVE TO ASK AND BE ASKED QUESTIONS>>>>DONT KNOW WHY?????

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I like my life and love my daughter. She's the apple of my eye. My reason for breathing. I have a great family, and a small circle of friends that I am close to and enjoy spending time with. I'm in a good place at this point of my life. I'm just missing the last piece of the puzzle. A great guy. A man who's shoulder I can lean on, and who knows that mine is there for him to lean on in return. A friend as well as lover. A man who really hears what I have to say and respects what I have to say as much as I respect him. I want passion and romance in my life again. I'm waiting for that special someone who will curl up on the couch and watch a movie with me, who will cook dinner with me, share little secret smiles from across a crowded room, rub my back just because, give long soft kisses and adore me for me. Someone who's not afraid of being a little silly. Someone kind, gentle, thoughful ,honest, loving, but still a man's man.My friends and family might say I am independant,a bit shy, passionate, compassionate, loving, and a bit competative.

  • Dierdre

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am an independent, professional female looking to get out and enjoy life a little. Positive, laid back and patient, I enjoy doing most anything if the company is good. I enjoy learning about people and learning new things. I love going to the beach,travel, festivals,camping,sporting events, concerts, and backyard BBQ's.Love weekend getaways, even if its the next town over... finding the local flair and enjoying what is offered.Although I am comfortable in most any atmosphere, black tie to roughing it, I prefer an atmosphere that is laid back, as opposed to glamour and the "in crowd"- that gets old fast. Although I love to feel like a woman and be girly, I am far from a high maintenance kind of girl. I am open minded and respect others differences and beliefs. I would like you to be the same. I have a quirky sense of humor and love to laugh. You will see me smiling a lot... starting to get a few smile lines as a result... I think of it as souveniers of a life well lived.I am a little shy at first until I get to know you. Many people have described me as a good listener and someone they can freely talk to. I suppose this is a good quality to have in my profession. Think quiet school teacher :) I do, however, love a good conversation and enjoy hearing another's thoughts, even if they are different from my own.Physically, I never know how to describe because physical traits are in eye of beholder. I would say I am a little on the chunkier side, but I am not obese. Some men find me very physically attractive, and some, I am not their cup of tea. As we age, its always a constant battle to improve ourselves,but I am comfortable with myself, one way or the other. I only add this part because I do not want to be misleading. If you are wanting ultra fit Barbie/adult movie star body, then I am not for you. I am the mother of three adult children and a grandmother. I have spent a large part of my life trying to make a difference in the lives of children. If you don't like children, then you are probably not the one for me.I am a hopeless romantic that is quickly becoming jaded. Why is it so hard to find someone looking for the same things? If you are the following, please contact me:-Single/Divorced-enjoy getting out and having fun/enjoy a quiet evening at home-- are wanting a GOOD girl that knows when to be bad.-are literate: yo mami, your so sexy, TypINg liKe tHis doesn't fly ( I am not grammar police, but please sound like an adult with intelligence)-don't play games- don't leave me guessing because of the three day rule- if you want to text or call then do it- otherwise I am going to take it as a sign you aren't interested.- on that note, Honest. If I am not the one for you, just say we are looking for different things.- aren't completely shallow -are over age 35-are wanting more than a fwb, booty call. I understand it takes time to cultivate a friendship, but DO NOT CONTACT ME if this is only what are wanting. It is wasting MY time.-like having interests of your own, and like your girl to have the same - are wanting to reassure my hopeless romantic self that there are still good guys out there.If you made it through this profile, kudos to you, hopefully I have sparked an interest that will be mutual. I have no ideal first date in mind... what truly matters is the company!

  • Van

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I have always been a happy, fun loving, free-spirit. I try to also temper that with a focus on being grounded, down-to-earth, and accepting of the realities of life. I continually strive to learn from my life experiences and grow as a human being. Giving something back has always been an important concept for me, so I try to incorporate that in all of my endeavors, be they work related or fun.; Red Rocks. I love almost all outdoor activites. I hike with my dog on a daily basis for my sanity as well as his.I love good food and drink, whether it be a fresh simple taco with a crisp beer, or an elaborate fine dining meal with a good wine. To make it simple, I try to find pleasure and enjoyment in all things I do. Life is good, but it could be better with someone to enjoy it with.I am looking for a relationship where we can help encourage and bring out the best in each other. Where we can work through life's difficulties and challenges together and be better for it. A relationship where we support each other in moving forward and pursuing dreams. A relationship where we can both find peace and contentment in the chaos of life.

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