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Stephenie, 44

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About Me

I'm 5'7" and... I have curves and carry some extra pounds! I am most comfortable with no/very little make up, wearing my favorite jeans and tennis shoes. I enjoy family and friends, movies, dinner, or going for a few drinks. I like to laugh and can be a smarta** and a lil sarcastic. I have 3 children, they are and always will be my life. They are my first priority, something that I find isn't always understood. And because I have children, I can be somewhat reserved and cautious.Over the course of time, I have come to a better understanding of what I'm looking for, in a relationship. Mainly, by ruling out the things I DONT want. Though I enjoy a drink or two with friends or at home around the fire, a bar is not where I care to spend all my time. The kind of relationship I want, involves compromise, support, sharing, honesty, tenderness, and passion. I want a partner, someone that I can share the good and the bad with. Someone that i can feel safe with, safe enough to show the real me. Someone that I can trust with my heart. I want someone that makes me want to be the best that I can be. And when I'm not, can accept me just as I am. I don't want love with conditions, or love only when times are good.Honesty is a HUGE deal for me...if your not revealing the real YOU here (age, location, interests), I'm not interested. I'm looking for a SINGLE guy, separated or otherwise. I prefer taller guys with a big build. I can be a strong and opinionated woman...I want a man that has a mind and opinion of his own. Someone who's not afraid to be heard and uses his voice. There are times when we won't agree...that's what life is about...be prepared to argue your side! Questions? Ask...that's how we learn things about one another! I'm not interested in a long distance friendship or relationship!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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