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About Me

Hello there! Okay, here's a little bit about myself...I am a Guidance Counselor in a public K-8 school. I love my job and wouldn't want to do anything else. To make this easier, I asked some friends to describe me and here are the results: fun-loving, sweet, adventurous, motivated, family oriented, considerate of other's feelings, and energetic. I am quick-to-smile and somewhat inquisitive! I enjoy all sorts of activities and will pretty much try anything once - I’ve gone sky diving, cliff diving and accomplished the knee-hang catch on a flying trapeze! I enjoy fine dining, traveling to tropical islands, rollerblading, roller coasters, hiking, some snow skiing, pistol shooting, obstacle/adventure running/races (i.e.: Tough Mudder 2x), and CrossFit for exercise! I am the type that loves getting dressed up and going to a nice restaurant one night and maybe camping out by a fire the next; I can suit the occasion and enjoy doing so. I spent a great deal of time in college and working hard. I own my own home and am financially independent. Ive had several (very) long term relationships (8 years, 7 years, and 6 years each) and although none of them developed into a life-long future, I feel that I am a better person because of them.I have fulfilled all of my academic and career goals and hope to meet a man who has done the same...hence, who is ready for a committed relationship. I am looking for someone who I can share myself with - someone who will be my love, as well as my best friend. I am finally ready to meet the man who I am meant to be with. Although I am not looking for a relationship that is only "convenient", I have tried the long-distance thing once or twice and have found it difficult. I do also understand that everyone is on their best behavior during the get-to-know-you stage...which is why I do not tend to jump into things. I will try to be as up-front as possible in this.Having said that, I prefer to meet sooner than later. As much as I appreciate good writing technique, as illustrated in *** &/or text messages, I would much rather meet early on to determine if there is a spark between us - which is absolutely necessary!! ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Edain

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm an artist, exceptional manager, Aunt Extraordinaire, and I have both a wicked sense of humor and a deep, compassionate soul. I love my job, love the people I work with, and love being able to laugh and make others laugh while excelling in my profession. I love to paint, but my inspiration comes in waves and if the tide is high, you may not see me for awhile. I work really hard and have a busy schedule, but I have a deeply fulfilling professional and personal life. If I make time for a date, it had better be a good one ;)I love the outdoors - hiking, kayaking, trail running, camping, etc. and regularly attend Chargers home games and also enjoy day games at Petco Park. I have back- I love to explore, rarely order the same thing twice at any restaurant, and will try just about anything once. I'm a fantastic cook, have family and friends who work in the food/wine/beer industry, and while I eat extremely healthy 80% of the time, I greatly enjoy decadence for the other 20%. Honesty and integrity are key foundations for me, so if you struggle with either, please don't bother. I rarely turn on the tv, but love quiet evenings with Netflix, a good meal, and a glass of wine. I meditate, practice yoga, and pamper myself on the regular. Something where we can have fun and laugh :)

  • Jami

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I thought this site might be a good way to meet some new people, maybe make some new friends or something more! I'm not looking to jump head-first into something serious, rather to start off casual and if it's there then it will progress naturally. Some of the more important characteristics I am looking for are honesty, a good moral compass and family values, sense of humor (mine can be dry/sarcastic but I can take it as well as I dish it out!), intelligence, and the ability to just have a good time!!! Physical attraction is important as well, but that doesn't mean looking like a model...and I'm more interested in what your profile says than your shirtless self-photos taken in the mirror anyway! But please be taller than me...it's the only physical characteristic I require. I am not interested in anyone who is playing games or brings drama with them...I've done my time with that! (FYI...kids do NOT equal drama, I have no problems with meeting someone who is a dad!) I like sports (Mets/Jets fan...keep your negative comments to yourself!...LOL!), love going to baseball games, going to the track to watch horse racing, playing poker, skiing, fishing, dining out, drinks at a bar (no clubs!), road trips to anywhere, or just staying in & watching a movie, playing a board game or cards, enjoying a home cooked meal and a bottle of wine, just spending time with a quality someone. It's more about who you're with than what you do that determines if it can be a good time. I'll try just about anything once so if you have other interests that are important to you I'd be willing to give them a try! My family & friends are a very important part of my life...too many people I know lose touch with their friends when they enter a new relationship, but mine will be a part of my life forever...and maybe you'll get to meet them one day! Something out of the ordinary and fun, where the opportunity to talk is there but short enough that if there isn't a mutual interest we're not stuck with each other for hours...and if it's going well we can always find something else to do!

  • Stephenie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm 5'7" and... I have curves and carry some extra pounds! I am most comfortable with no/very little make up, wearing my favorite jeans and tennis shoes. I enjoy family and friends, movies, dinner, or going for a few drinks. I like to laugh and can be a smarta** and a lil sarcastic. I have 3 children, they are and always will be my life. They are my first priority, something that I find isn't always understood. And because I have children, I can be somewhat reserved and cautious.Over the course of time, I have come to a better understanding of what I'm looking for, in a relationship. Mainly, by ruling out the things I DONT want. Though I enjoy a drink or two with friends or at home around the fire, a bar is not where I care to spend all my time. The kind of relationship I want, involves compromise, support, sharing, honesty, tenderness, and passion. I want a partner, someone that I can share the good and the bad with. Someone that i can feel safe with, safe enough to show the real me. Someone that I can trust with my heart. I want someone that makes me want to be the best that I can be. And when I'm not, can accept me just as I am. I don't want love with conditions, or love only when times are good.Honesty is a HUGE deal for me...if your not revealing the real YOU here (age, location, interests), I'm not interested. I'm looking for a SINGLE guy, separated or otherwise. I prefer taller guys with a big build. I can be a strong and opinionated woman...I want a man that has a mind and opinion of his own. Someone who's not afraid to be heard and uses his voice. There are times when we won't agree...that's what life is about...be prepared to argue your side! Questions? Ask...that's how we learn things about one another! I'm not interested in a long distance friendship or relationship!

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