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Hi, I'm ValerieOk, so you've heard it all before, but what I'm looking for is:Fun, witty, charming, responsible, confident, not arrogant, patient not pushy, totally single... Seeking White Male Self sufficient, employed or independently wealthy, vehicle (with a valid license). Be a productive, contributing member of society. No adult arrests, NO FELONS!!!! Must be able to voteNo drugs, No PotMust have time for this fun loving chick. Some chivalry welcomed. No Duck Dynasty Beard. Public display of affection not a problem, must be gentle, nurturing and can kiss and show affection..Laid back and go with the flow kind of guys are what I like. I am a "thicker" gal and go to the gym 3x's per week and eat right -I'm a size 12, 40D bust ....I am a self sufficient, self employed, small business owner. Educated, well traveled, open minded and a speak my mind. Sometimes too much. I will ***, text and talk on the phone before I meet you. But don't get too comfortable just texting me. I like to chat on the phone for a little. I like going out, socializing, most things other than FISHING (I have a fish out of water phobia) and CAMPING (in a tent), but would camp in an RV. I am not very "outdoorsy" meaning I don't fish or camp....but I will sit by a bonfire, walk, bike, canoe, swim, go to beach etc......someone take me muddin' - I have never been! I also have never been kayaking or surfingPossibly interested in fetishes if you tell me in advance, I like open mindedness so feel free to ask. I am not interested if you have a noticeable deformity, glass eye, wheelchair, jacked up or missing teeth. Sorry, just being honest. I am allergic to alcohol, specially wine.... and I don't mind you drinking as long as you do not get stupid. I like tats on others and myself. I have no kids and have never been married. I have been single and playing for some time and am ready for someone solid.; raised! But not such a cracker....Can you drive a stick shift - I hate driving my cars? Something casual...meet & greet...walk around the park, or meet at a coffee shop

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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