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Kristle, 41
United States, Minnesota, Minnetonka

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Hi, I'm ValerieOk, so you've heard it all before, but what I'm looking for is:Fun, witty, charming, responsible, confident, not arrogant, patient not pushy, totally single... Seeking White Male Self sufficient, employed or independently wealthy, vehicle (with a valid license). Be a productive, contributing member of society. No adult arrests, NO FELONS!!!! Must be able to voteNo drugs, No PotMust have time for this fun loving chick. Some chivalry welcomed. No Duck Dynasty Beard. Public display of affection not a problem, must be gentle, nurturing and can kiss and show affection..Laid back and go with the flow kind of guys are what I like. I am a "thicker" gal and go to the gym 3x's per week and eat right -I'm a size 12, 40D bust ....I am a self sufficient, self employed, small business owner. Educated, well traveled, open minded and a speak my mind. Sometimes too much. I will ***, text and talk on the phone before I meet you. But don't get too comfortable just texting me. I like to chat on the phone for a little. I like going out, socializing, most things other than FISHING (I have a fish out of water phobia) and CAMPING (in a tent), but would camp in an RV. I am not very "outdoorsy" meaning I don't fish or camp....but I will sit by a bonfire, walk, bike, canoe, swim, go to beach etc......someone take me muddin' - I have never been! I also have never been kayaking or surfingPossibly interested in fetishes if you tell me in advance, I like open mindedness so feel free to ask. I am not interested if you have a noticeable deformity, glass eye, wheelchair, jacked up or missing teeth. Sorry, just being honest. I am allergic to alcohol, specially wine.... and I don't mind you drinking as long as you do not get stupid. I like tats on others and myself. I have no kids and have never been married. I have been single and playing for some time and am ready for someone solid.; raised! But not such a cracker....Can you drive a stick shift - I hate driving my cars? Something casual...meet & greet...walk around the park, or meet at a coffee shop

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am very comfortable with who I am. I sometimes use the term "Healthy Narcissist" which is very different from an "unhealthy" one. It's not about ego, it's about loving yourself from a deep understanding of yourself, flaws included. (So that explains my bikini pics for starters...) I feel you should always walk into a room knowing that you are bringing your best. However, this doesn't mean with an attitude. Open your heart on this life journey.I am looking (more "open to" rather than "looking") for someone who is really comfortable with who they are NOW. However, the catch is that you are open to "change" in all aspects of your life. Change is a good thing. I thrive on change.I love people in general, but I am mostly attracted to fit, tall, black, confident, smart men AND fit, sexy, smart, confident woman. Having an open mind and a kind heart are a MUST! I am very sensual and have high kundalini. I love to travel and meet the locals. Volunteering and giving back are important to me. I seek to volunteer in organizations/places that have an authentic purpose, and everyone involved has real passion. A little (or a lot) of adventure is awesome.I am an avid lucid dreamer, and I teach and write about it. "Today, Today, live like you wanna, let yesterday burn and throw it in a fire, in a fire....live like a warrior." by Matisyahu Recent fan. Love his songs, don't know much about him....but damn good songs that touched me.I am inspired by real people who have a positive outlook on life even after overcoming amazing adversity. . I see this life as a series of learning experiences, and respect the relationships I have no matter if they are brief or long. Passion, love and intimacy are not just bound to long term relationships, but relationships MUST always be respected, honored and truthful.I seek to really LIVE and give in all areas of my life. I have an intense spiritual side and surround myself with positive people who respect this life and respect people. I am spiritual, but do not believe any organized religion is the right one.Laughter...comedy. I can't go a day or a few hours without it! Surround yourself with friends or acquaintances that know how to laugh and you will be living a good life. I desire what I myself am bringing; a fit body, a quick wit, intelligence, sensuality, kindness and a great sense of humor. Respect. Understanding. Chemistry. Lust. Honesty, Openness, Sense of self, Passion, Fun, Laughs, Sweet caresses, Going out, Hanging with friends at a BBQ or a game, Kissing, Making out, Fun sex, Awesome cosmic sensual spiritual sex. Someone that can stimulate my mind as well as my body.I believe we have many soul mates for many different reasons. They can be our friends and/or our lovers.IF you actually read all of this, and you want to see if we can be friends...or lovers...or etc. In your response put the words "Lucid dreaming" somewhere. It is NOT a requirement...lol. But would maybe help.And in case you missed it...."I love people in general, but I am mostly attracted to fit, tall, black, confident, smart men AND fit, sexy, smart, confident woman. Having an open mind and a kind heart are a MUST!"Namaste' *Depends on the day and time of day.

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