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Oretha, 41
United States, Minnesota, Minnetonka

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About Me

Let's get real ... every time I get on here I feel like I'm being interviewed. LOL. I've tried this website a couple times and all anyone wanted to talk about was sex. Sent me running ...I'm a slow mover wanting to start slow ... move slow and be real. I'm NOT interested in married men...men who only want sex or to talk about sex. Confidence is nice but no need for your big Ego here. All I want is to be myself and have fun with someone who wants to talk, hang out and get to know me. No games, no lies, (no reason to) By the way it creeps me out when I have only talked with a guy for about a week and he's asking if I wanna come over or wondering why I'm not texting him back after a couple of minutes ....Slow down dang!!!! Lol :) PLEASE don't get me wrong I want to go out ..I like to text and talk...I want to get to know people. I have 5 kiddos one in college one on his way to college soon so yes four at home. I'm not intense..needy..crazy ..or full of any drama and don't want a guy to be either. I have an amazing job ..make good money and am extremely independent. I have kiddos to take care of so if you don't have a job ..please get one before contacting me. Again I have 5 kiddos ..hence (Must Love Kids) they are 21, 17, 15, 12 and 9. Four of them live at home..for most men this is the deal breaker ..for me they are my life. So if this scares or bothers you please don't contact me.. I am strong and very independent and want my guy to be the same. I'm not a skinny or average girl ..I'm a full figured woman so again if you want the model body ..keep searching cause its not here lol... By the way I'm loyal, giving, loving, extremely faithful to my guy and will bring a better half to your world. If any of this still interests you feel free to in box me. :) I'm not really sure. Something mature and comfortable....I LOVE to laugh, eat, maybe a movie? I'm really laid back not picky and definitely not high maintenance. Not a princess but really like a gentlemen and someone I can call my friend.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian South American Comedy Thriller Archery Golf Computer Games
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