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Dona, 43

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About Me

*******I have been notified that my profile reads like an autobiography.......so: I just want to finally be happy~***anybody looking for a one-night stand need not apply**********I really wish that just ONCE I could meet a wonderful man to convince me that there ARE some good guys left out there....********If you don't get anything else out of this profile, just know these 4 things: I WILL NOT date an alcoholic, I WILL NOT date anyone that is using or addicted to drugs, I will NOT date anyone whose ex-girlfriend or ex-wife is going to stalk me and threaten me and my children....and I WILL NOT date a serial rapist or axe murderer. I'm not interested in someone that sits in front of the TV yelling at Sports ALL day and night, or politics ALL day and night, and who's only clothing is all camouflage and totes around guns ***. Am I asking for too much??? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^Seriously ...I am over 40 years old and I have NO interest in a purely sexual or a situation of any type BASED on sex. If there is awesome chemistry between two people, the sex (eventually) will be great based on the friendship/relationship/chemistry that is already in place. I don't expect 25yr old men to understand this, but 40 yr. old men should know better.**If you're not having FUN, why do it???? I like music, karaoke, dancing, roller coasters, adventure, pets, and trying something new. I just want to be happy with someone special. I miss having someone to share my life with. I love to sing karaoke, I love to dance, I enjoy going out for dinner. I absolutely love roller coasters and theme parks. I miss having someone to share these simple pleasures with. You MUST be a people-person.... I don't want to have to change to be with anyone, or have anyone change themselves to be with me, and I don't want to be anybody's booty call, and I don't want anyone to be mine. If that were all I wanted, I wouldn't be on here, I can find that ANYWHERE~Mission Statement: "I make mistakes, realize them, and will say that I'm sorry...I'm crazy but in a good way. Occasionally out of control but a hell of a lot of fun!! I'm emotional and say what I feel....and at times I can be hard to handle~ if you can't handle me at my worst, you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best!!!" :)I'm sorry if it sounds like I'm being fussy, but at this point in life I have lived through enough mistakes that I'm ready to be happy in love and content with my life.* I have never used drugs in my life, and I refuse to be around or expose myself and my children to that type of environment.For those of you that are a bit gun-shy regarding love and relationships.....please note: There has to be an immediate connection, but you do not FALL into love immediately. Love takes time and effort. You walk into it, taking it all in and enjoying the moments you share together. You live apart, you learn/grow together, and THEN you love eachother. It's not rocket science. :-) My status says: Looking for a relationship, but isn't that what a friendship grows into after you get through the dating process? That is...if things go well. If they don't go so well, you just consider it a learning experience about what you really want and what you don't. :-)At this point I've learned enough to know what I don't want, and I've never truly found what I dream of finding...some say that makes me bold in my flirtation and aggressive in my search?? This is sometimes mistaken for desperate, but I figure I'm doing (men)/(you) a favor by skipping the games and the bull, and being straight up and honest about my perception of things and where I stand. I typically do not date outside of my race.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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