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Emerita, 43

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About Me

I am an eternal optimist.! I have quite a sharp sense of humour and I love to laugh. I appreciate quick wit and sarcasm. I enjoy movies, books and I will never back down from a good conversation or debate. I have a daughter who means the world to me and of course she always comes first in my world. I love my job. I am a font of random information and can speak intelligently for literally seconds on many subjects so I am a delightful companion in any situation, failing that, I am capable of smiling sweetly and nodding politely. Parents love me, children tolerate me, animals are drawn to me, house plants die in my presence..... I hope we get to meet soon. I would like to do something where we could talk and get to know one another like a walk, a cup of coffee/tea or lunch.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Maryetta

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    ~Life is all about perspective~ you can suck on the lemon or make lemonade; your choice.I am looking for an awesome positive minded partner to compliment me both physically and emotionally. I would love to meet someone who is understanding and accepting (as I have pets which are important to me), be emotionally available, great communicator, kind, honest, respectful, love to cuddle, definitely have a sense of humour, and appreciate the outdoors - physical attraction is important to me as well since that's where it starts.Friends say I am very down to earth and I would have no problem letting you see me with my sweats on, hair up, and possibly rubber boots albeit I love to dress up as well and go out! :) I have a good job (I am financially secure now and at retirement), quite independent, confident, and energetic! I have a bucket list of adventures which I would love to explore and share with that special guy.I love to dance, listen to music, cook, travel, laugh, garden, and I am willing to try anything once. I have always been a physically active person playing sports(excelled in Track and Field) as well as some bodybuilding which I have started to dabble back into - see where it goes this time, if anything just to keep in shape. :) To sum myself up: I am fun, young for my age, spontaneous, non-judgmental, easy-going, forgiving, and I don't expect perfect! I am also very passionate which is very different from dramatic...AND a recent empty nester~******* Guys, I really find a man's eyes sexy which is part of the physical attraction for me! Take off the sunglasses and show your eyes as well please :) BONUS if you have humour which can make me giggle and smile...oh and you know how to smell good! Very very hot! :) First date would be anything which we would both be comfortable with. A walk in the park perhaps and then go from there.

  • Slyvia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Ok,so im updating my profile. No more cookie cutter profile for me,"I like long walks on the beach"...GAG!!! Truth be told im not even really a fan of the beach (salt water that is :)) its always windy,I get salt water in my mouth and sand gets into places where sand really shouldnt be lol. I actually dont mind being single,(the remote is alllll mine haha) but I love to do alot of things and hate to do them alone (I also miss being in love.)I have a daughter that is the world to me and a job that I absolutely love and would prefer not to move,but would if the connection was incredible!..I like dining out,love to cook,love massages, kissing and like to live in a clean house. I like moderate pda and you can have all the covers! Im not a small girl and probably never will be thats just the way it is. I REALLY love 80's rock,I could listen to it all day long. If I havent scared you away so far say 'Hi,' if I have, Happy Fishing!!!! :).........P.S. Well that was my attempt at humour,if you dont get it...that's OK :) Whatever we decide to do together based on our interests.

  • Annie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am first and foremost a Mom to, two very active and amazing young ladies. Life can turn busy sometimes, so we consciously make sure we balance life out with some down time too.I have many interests but I would have to say music and travel are at the very top of my list. I love all types of music, and doubt that you will ever catch me in a moment when it is not playing in the back ground. Live shows in small venues can make me connect with a whole new genre I never even knew I was interested in. I love stumbling onto new sounds. I am a bit of a travel junkie. I have made it a personal goal to work hard and save, so that I am able to travel twice a year (once with kids and once without) So far I am making it happen! I am generally a happy person, I put friends and family at the top of my priority list, but I am also keeping a space open to allow room for relationship priorities. I am a firm believer that once a decision is made to commit to someone you should be prepared to jump in with both feet. No “one-footers” please :)The online scene is not my ideal way to meet people (I prefer the real world) but I have had positive results from this site. I won’t rule out the possibility that it could work again. I am not looking forward to weeding through the “not-so-good stuff” to get to the one person that makes it all worth it in the end, but HEY who ever said dating was easy? I have met some very nice people along the way, and on the flip side of that I have also met some very …uhhh… “interesting” people too. I only ask for an honest online presentation, if you are who you say you are, then at the very least we will have an enjoyable time and can see where it goes from there. I have zero tolerance for false fronts, and I hope that you do too. I am often asked about what I am looking for? I try not to limit myself to a certain type. I never know what feature or characteristic of a person may strike me as attractive...but believe me, when it hits me, I know. Humour and height (I am 5'9" and a half without shoes) will always grab my attention, but a great smile and classy conversation will keep it. I don’t put too much emphasis on what you do for work, but I do think that it is important that you work at something. Trust and communication are what I feel make or break a relationship…please come prepared to work towards both. The only up front deal breaker I will not budge on is “addiction” IF ALCOHOL, DRUGS, GAMBLING, “SURFING ONLINE”,OR ANY OTHER UNHEALTHY HOBBIES ARE HOLDING YOU BACK IN LIFE…please correct those on your own…there is no need to share with others.Also, IF you are on here to hide behind a computer screen, and not be accountable for how you speak or treat a person ... honestly, please don't interupt my happiness. ***, may I suggest you use that waste of both of our time to visit the "Self Help" section...just sayin.Hopefully this gives you a bit of insight into who I am, and why I am here (for the right reasons). I will leave it there for now and assure you that there is a lot more to talk about. Drink and an appetizer works for me!

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