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United States, Minnesota, Le Center

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About Me

Family is important, but my sense of family extends beyond those who share my DNA to the people in my life who step up to the plate for me when required, who I trust have my back when it counts, and for whom I do the same. Fitness (and overall healthy living) plays an important part of my day-to-day life - for the social aspect, blowing off steam after a challenging day, and maintaining balance. I'm not religious, but a strong spirituality informs what I do, how I see the world, and how I treat people. I've been told I can be a bit of a sass (who, me?), and I've yet to disagree... I definitely enjoy trying new things, with varying degrees of commitment and success... (Spanish lessons, kayaking, boxing) and welcome a challenge. Try to laugh daily, and at myself often - it's key to keeping perspective. Self-improvement and personal growth are somewhat of a passion. More of a morning person, though not obnoxiously so...don't like the cold, but will make the best of a rainy day...TV doesn't take much priority for me, but love a good movie - a great book even more so. Would love to connect with someone with a similar intention to infuse joy whenever and wherever possible, with a clear sense of what they want to create in life. Certainly not without our imperfections, (that is, after all, what makes us real and loveable) yet we are committed to mimizing the drama and chaos, maximize fun on a regular basis, and agree that games are for whiling away the rainy afternoons. We don't just give lip service to ideas of respect, honesty, and integrity, but come to relationships expecting to be held accountable and authentic...and would do nothing less than hold each other the same way. You 'get it' when I say that it's not about the stuff we have, but the passion we share...simple as that...and can't help but get excited about the future we're creating as "that couple". You know, the one that everyone hates, because we're so happy and such a perfect fit...If this sounds like you - great - can't wait to hear from you! If not, hope what you ARE looking for is just a mouse click away.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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