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Family is important, but my sense of family extends beyond those who share my DNA to the people in my life who step up to the plate for me when required, who I trust have my back when it counts, and for whom I do the same. Fitness (and overall healthy living) plays an important part of my day-to-day life - for the social aspect, blowing off steam after a challenging day, and maintaining balance. I'm not religious, but a strong spirituality informs what I do, how I see the world, and how I treat people. I've been told I can be a bit of a sass (who, me?), and I've yet to disagree... I definitely enjoy trying new things, with varying degrees of commitment and success... (Spanish lessons, kayaking, boxing) and welcome a challenge. Try to laugh daily, and at myself often - it's key to keeping perspective. Self-improvement and personal growth are somewhat of a passion. More of a morning person, though not obnoxiously so...don't like the cold, but will make the best of a rainy day...TV doesn't take much priority for me, but love a good movie - a great book even more so. Would love to connect with someone with a similar intention to infuse joy whenever and wherever possible, with a clear sense of what they want to create in life. Certainly not without our imperfections, (that is, after all, what makes us real and loveable) yet we are committed to mimizing the drama and chaos, maximize fun on a regular basis, and agree that games are for whiling away the rainy afternoons. We don't just give lip service to ideas of respect, honesty, and integrity, but come to relationships expecting to be held accountable and authentic...and would do nothing less than hold each other the same way. You 'get it' when I say that it's not about the stuff we have, but the passion we share...simple as that...and can't help but get excited about the future we're creating as "that couple". You know, the one that everyone hates, because we're so happy and such a perfect fit...If this sounds like you - great - can't wait to hear from you! If not, hope what you ARE looking for is just a mouse click away.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marci from Le Center | Woman | 41 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi to all you men out there!Thanks for stopping by. Just like you guys it's a challenge what to write and how much....so here's a little teaser to hopefully peek your interest to send me a message.Active outdoorsy funny loving chick with a huge heart. I'm a mom to two beautiful kids that I share every other week. I love my career and work to be able to do the things I'm passionate about. I've been described as a red hair, a little firey at times but a big mush inside. Love living in the moment and would like to meet someone who is passionate about life!Ps...If you don't have a pic I will NOT reply! So don't bother.

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  • Anette from Le Center | Woman | 44 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Just sayin'About me: Inquisitive, impulsive smart-ass looking for same to share sarcastic comments and ride shotgun on last minute road trips.While I’m not way out there on the edge, even at this stage of life I lean more toward the side of edgy than otherwise. Therefore, I tend to be more compatible with people who have a bit of grit themselves. While I’m not adverse to being outside (especially road trips), I prefer more cerebral, or at least inside, pastimes. I read a fair bit, enjoy watching HBO type series and documentaries. Much of my social life is taken up with good food and a few drinks (or the occasional tequila inspired singalong) with my circle of friends. It would be nice to have an escort for local cultural events, from noisy live music to gallery openings – I don’t get out to them enough for my liking.Laughter in my life is essential. I am a compulsive wisecracker.Love my job, but not a workaholic by any stretch of the imagination. I'm not rolling in dough but I have a comfortable income, which is enough - I'm not all that interested in the ceaseless acquisition of material goods. thanks and congrats for having the patience to get this far! Now my wish list:Smarts are VERY important - I'm a bit of a brain groupie. While it's not a deal breaker, you've got at least some university level education and list at least one intellectual pursuit in your profile to raise my interest. You should be into brainy people yourself. Seriously brainy people. I do the Sunday NYT crossword. In pen. It would be nice to share - I can do the across clues and you can do the down ones.Sense of humour is a MUST. Silly is good. So is sarcasm. Honesty, integrity and a keen interest in the world around you is essential as well.My politics are quite left leaning , so if you even thought about voting conservative, we’re not going to get along. I’m a wishy washy atheist, so if religion is your bag, sorry but I can’t see us connecting.Appearance? Height doesn't matter much. Seriously - Bald guys too - Yul Brenner was one hot fella! You know how to dress yourself, which means you own a suit for special occasions and recognize that fleece and running shoes are for outdoorsy activities only. A little panache is always appreciated.Sorry, under 50's only (in my head I'm still 25). Thanks for getting through all this! If I've peeked at your profile, or added you to fav's and don't message, that's likely me leaving the ball in your court. :) (and if I've added you more than once, I'm not a crazy stalker, just have a scattered memory) Oh, and I can't stress this enough: If you're not wearing a shirt in your photos, thanks but NO thanks! Some things should be left to one's imagination. First date? I'm pretty flexible. Lecture? Sure! Tractor pull? You bet! See above re: Impulsive! Just a coffee date is fine too.Also, if the weather ever gets better, and you have a motorcycle, boy do you have my interest. Although I think that's a second date, not a first. :)

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  • Emerita from Le Center | Woman | 43 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am an eternal optimist.! I have quite a sharp sense of humour and I love to laugh. I appreciate quick wit and sarcasm. I enjoy movies, books and I will never back down from a good conversation or debate. I have a daughter who means the world to me and of course she always comes first in my world. I love my job. I am a font of random information and can speak intelligently for literally seconds on many subjects so I am a delightful companion in any situation, failing that, I am capable of smiling sweetly and nodding politely. Parents love me, children tolerate me, animals are drawn to me, house plants die in my presence..... I hope we get to meet soon. I would like to do something where we could talk and get to know one another like a walk, a cup of coffee/tea or lunch.

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