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United States, Minnesota, Lakeland

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About Me

I am at a point in my life that I am ready to make some changes. I want it, I deserve it, and therefore I am going to make it happen!! I am very direct and to the point, sometime to direct. I believe honesty is the best policy. It may hurt sometimes but if you don't want my opinion than don't ask for it. I know I can be wrong but I don't like to admit it. I will do anything in the world that is humanly possible for my friends and family. Don't get me wrong I do have a soft and vulnerable side, which only a few select people will probably ever see. I love learning and experiencing new things. I have retired from the Army(Active, Reserve, and National Guard) after 22 years. I believe my experiences in the military has a great influence on the person I am today. In a nutshell some of the words I would use to describe me are: honest, fun, wild and crazy at times, open minded, direct, sincere, need to be in control of the situation, don't have patients for stupid shit. I'm sure I missed alot, so if you have any questions just ask. Sorry, needed to add this. If you don't have a picture or you don't have any intentions of actually being able to meet me in person, please don't waste both of our time. Thanks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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