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Sharla, 44

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About Me

I enjoy casual evenings out with good company at a winery, restaurant or a nice evening at home. I enjoy weekends filled with my kid's sports activities and downtime to just enjoy life wherever it takes us for that day or weekend. I do like to travel when time allows. My career is very important to me but not as important as my family. I pride myself on work/life balance. I am a mom to two boys 7 and 9 and love that job best. They are great kids and my dedication to them is a top priority. I am easy going but at the same time passionate about things. I will stand up for myself and those I care about. I am very efficient, hardworking and know what I want out of life. I am genuine and have a big heart. I have built a very solid life foundation for me and my boys. I miss the closeness and fun of a relationship. I teach my boys the importance of a good solid loving relationship. I hope to show them the meaning of this by meeting someone who shares the same outlook and values in life that I do. A few additional things about me:Positive attitude on life, successful, emotionally stable, tend to be more laid back, uncomplicated, no drama or game, honest, matter of fact, caring, compassionate, loves life, has much life experience, not pretentious, a great loyal friend/companion, intelligent, able to laugh at myself, independent, adaptable and easy to get along with, hardworking, goofy/funny once you get to know me, roll up my sleeves and will help someone, assertive, classy, takes pride in my appearance and my home. My expectations for others are typically quite high….same as for myself I like nice things and big accomplishments…I worked hard for them allI'd like to find someone who shares my passion for life, who is driven in their career, family focused and honest with integrity. I'm looking for a relationship that is characterized by mutual trust, respect, and admiration with someone who is kind, loyal, has a sense of humor, and has a great open attitude about life. I am interested in someone who:has life experienceis grounded, balanced and dedicated to their family/children.respectful and polite, especially to women and all mankind. has just the right amount of confidence will have by back in any situationis loving, kindfunny but knows when to be seriousunderstanding of me spending time with my girlfriends has depth and has a lot of life experienceis understanding, and a good communicator as well as a good listener.Also…A true southern gentleman warms by heart. Charles or a local restaurant.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Elvira

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I've taken a lot of time off of dating. I am not interested in casual dating as it is stated here, but all dating has to start as casual. Different people bring out the different facets of us, so I'm not making rules. I'm also not having expectations that aren't reasonable. We may miss out if we do that. If I knew what worked I wouldn't be here. I am in absolutely no hurry and want to take the time to develop a solid relationship. There's not much of a chance of me changing my basic nature at this point. I am always open to personal growth though. I don't have the desire or strength to be what I'm not. Wasted a lot of time doing that, it doesn't work:) It's just words here, the chemistry and the intentions will determine a second date. I'd prefer to wait until that happens before getting too personal here. I don't expect sparks flying everywhere when first meeting someone, but there should be a few. I love children! However, mine are grown and I'm really looking for the same. How about a smoothie, slushie ? No pressure, expectations, and no booze please. Short and sweet.

  • Arlyne

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a very hard working professional woman. I am divorced and have a grown son and daughter-in-law and a grand daughter. I love to work hard and play hard. I enjoy going out with friends and having dinner and drinks. I love to travel. I absolutely love riding motorcycles. I am looking for someone to enjoy life with. I do not need a pen pal so I am not interested in endless texting.

  • Nakia

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am funny, sarcastic, loyal, hard working, and ready to move on in my life! I have a good job, I have a car, I own my own house (Well, the bank really owns most of it, but I make the payments!). I am an extrovert and get my energy from being around others. I enjoy time with friends but also enjoy things like watching movies with someone special. I see WAY too many kid movies lately...I need someone to rescue me from Monsters University and take me to see Grown Ups 2!! HAHAHA!I have a ***lb labradoodle who believes he is my shadow and that he is a lapdog! I don't play any ***, but LOVE to karaoke! I don't really know how to dance, but would LOVE to learn. Can you teach me? I don't speak any other languages, but I know a little sign language and for about ***a semester in college, learned some Esperanto. I LOVE that I know what Esperanto is....do you know? An Alaskan cruise is on my bucket list. With all the cruise mishaps recently, that scares me a little more than it used to, but still would love to do that!I love music. I can't think of any music that I hate. I even like country and some rap. Favorites: 80's and current pop stuff...I must say this, apparently...I want to have fun as much as the next girl...but do me a favor, be a decent man and if you aren't interested in pursuing a long term relationship at some point, please pass me by. I have limited time and if there isn't a purpose to my dating, I am out. Not interested in just hooking up for the sole purpose of hooking up. Must have interest in LTR eventually.If you are interested in some day being in an LTR and my profile interests you, I would love to talk! Message me. : ) Let's do something fun and silly...Meet at the Target CD section and discuss music. Then stop at the Starbucks in the front of the store and have a drink and talk a little more. If there is chemistry, we can get a pizza at the in-store Pizza Hut too!! LOL!!!

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