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Sharla, 44

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About Me

I enjoy casual evenings out with good company at a winery, restaurant or a nice evening at home. I enjoy weekends filled with my kid's sports activities and downtime to just enjoy life wherever it takes us for that day or weekend. I do like to travel when time allows. My career is very important to me but not as important as my family. I pride myself on work/life balance. I am a mom to two boys 7 and 9 and love that job best. They are great kids and my dedication to them is a top priority. I am easy going but at the same time passionate about things. I will stand up for myself and those I care about. I am very efficient, hardworking and know what I want out of life. I am genuine and have a big heart. I have built a very solid life foundation for me and my boys. I miss the closeness and fun of a relationship. I teach my boys the importance of a good solid loving relationship. I hope to show them the meaning of this by meeting someone who shares the same outlook and values in life that I do. A few additional things about me:Positive attitude on life, successful, emotionally stable, tend to be more laid back, uncomplicated, no drama or game, honest, matter of fact, caring, compassionate, loves life, has much life experience, not pretentious, a great loyal friend/companion, intelligent, able to laugh at myself, independent, adaptable and easy to get along with, hardworking, goofy/funny once you get to know me, roll up my sleeves and will help someone, assertive, classy, takes pride in my appearance and my home. My expectations for others are typically quite high….same as for myself I like nice things and big accomplishments…I worked hard for them allI'd like to find someone who shares my passion for life, who is driven in their career, family focused and honest with integrity. I'm looking for a relationship that is characterized by mutual trust, respect, and admiration with someone who is kind, loyal, has a sense of humor, and has a great open attitude about life. I am interested in someone who:has life experienceis grounded, balanced and dedicated to their family/children.respectful and polite, especially to women and all mankind. has just the right amount of confidence will have by back in any situationis loving, kindfunny but knows when to be seriousunderstanding of me spending time with my girlfriends has depth and has a lot of life experienceis understanding, and a good communicator as well as a good listener.Also…A true southern gentleman warms by heart. Charles or a local restaurant.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Nakia

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am funny, sarcastic, loyal, hard working, and ready to move on in my life! I have a good job, I have a car, I own my own house (Well, the bank really owns most of it, but I make the payments!). I am an extrovert and get my energy from being around others. I enjoy time with friends but also enjoy things like watching movies with someone special. I see WAY too many kid movies lately...I need someone to rescue me from Monsters University and take me to see Grown Ups 2!! HAHAHA!I have a ***lb labradoodle who believes he is my shadow and that he is a lapdog! I don't play any ***, but LOVE to karaoke! I don't really know how to dance, but would LOVE to learn. Can you teach me? I don't speak any other languages, but I know a little sign language and for about ***a semester in college, learned some Esperanto. I LOVE that I know what Esperanto is....do you know? An Alaskan cruise is on my bucket list. With all the cruise mishaps recently, that scares me a little more than it used to, but still would love to do that!I love music. I can't think of any music that I hate. I even like country and some rap. Favorites: 80's and current pop stuff...I must say this, apparently...I want to have fun as much as the next girl...but do me a favor, be a decent man and if you aren't interested in pursuing a long term relationship at some point, please pass me by. I have limited time and if there isn't a purpose to my dating, I am out. Not interested in just hooking up for the sole purpose of hooking up. Must have interest in LTR eventually.If you are interested in some day being in an LTR and my profile interests you, I would love to talk! Message me. : ) Let's do something fun and silly...Meet at the Target CD section and discuss music. Then stop at the Starbucks in the front of the store and have a drink and talk a little more. If there is chemistry, we can get a pizza at the in-store Pizza Hut too!! LOL!!!

  • Richarda

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    NEW UPDATE ***For the A$$CLOWN who is stalking MY page and reporting back to my ex.....Can we say GET A LIFE and move the hell on!A lil bout me, I have 3 amazing children 2 which are younger, 8 yrs & 5 months old.. I'm NOT looking for a daddy for them, I do pretty damn good being a mommy n daddy on my own! I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, NOR am I a booty call! I'm not looking to jump into a relationship, no hearts broken if it doesnt work out, BUT if we connect on that level im all for it!! I don't date several men at once! Im a shy girl until I get to know someone..I enjoy the simple things in life..I like to think im down to earth, family comes first, im not a bar fly, but like to go out once in awhile.. I love the outdoors in the summer, n snuggle on the cold days... My pictures posted are ALL within the last 2 months.. Please be respectful n not trashy or just move on. Anything else just ask....I will NO longer respond to messages if you don't have a profile pic of YOURSELF up!!Oh n yea, I don't like forcing smiles in my pics, they feel fake! so don't message me just to tell me to smile lol.. I smile all the time in person!!! Open for ideas

  • Serafina

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I first have to say go bengals ,lol they are my team guys. So im looking for my team player . The one i can spend my time with and lean my head on when I am having a rough day.. I am ready to find the one i can look at the stars with and tell my dreams and share my fears with.I hate drama so if u have any please leave it at the door before entering. I love all kinds of music, and love all kinds of movies. So if I seem your type give a yell and ill reply back , thanks for taking the time to read this. Oh yeah and I ain't a girly girl if thats what you want sorry it aint me... We'll have to see

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