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Sharla, 44

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About Me

I enjoy casual evenings out with good company at a winery, restaurant or a nice evening at home. I enjoy weekends filled with my kid's sports activities and downtime to just enjoy life wherever it takes us for that day or weekend. I do like to travel when time allows. My career is very important to me but not as important as my family. I pride myself on work/life balance. I am a mom to two boys 7 and 9 and love that job best. They are great kids and my dedication to them is a top priority. I am easy going but at the same time passionate about things. I will stand up for myself and those I care about. I am very efficient, hardworking and know what I want out of life. I am genuine and have a big heart. I have built a very solid life foundation for me and my boys. I miss the closeness and fun of a relationship. I teach my boys the importance of a good solid loving relationship. I hope to show them the meaning of this by meeting someone who shares the same outlook and values in life that I do. A few additional things about me:Positive attitude on life, successful, emotionally stable, tend to be more laid back, uncomplicated, no drama or game, honest, matter of fact, caring, compassionate, loves life, has much life experience, not pretentious, a great loyal friend/companion, intelligent, able to laugh at myself, independent, adaptable and easy to get along with, hardworking, goofy/funny once you get to know me, roll up my sleeves and will help someone, assertive, classy, takes pride in my appearance and my home. My expectations for others are typically quite high….same as for myself I like nice things and big accomplishments…I worked hard for them allI'd like to find someone who shares my passion for life, who is driven in their career, family focused and honest with integrity. I'm looking for a relationship that is characterized by mutual trust, respect, and admiration with someone who is kind, loyal, has a sense of humor, and has a great open attitude about life. I am interested in someone who:has life experienceis grounded, balanced and dedicated to their family/children.respectful and polite, especially to women and all mankind. has just the right amount of confidence will have by back in any situationis loving, kindfunny but knows when to be seriousunderstanding of me spending time with my girlfriends has depth and has a lot of life experienceis understanding, and a good communicator as well as a good listener.Also…A true southern gentleman warms by heart. Charles or a local restaurant.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Meadow

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Im pretty easy to get along with! I enjoy walking, fishing, shopping and of course anything you do with your honey is always fun! Family time to me is very important! I love to vacation & travel to different States each yr! I like to just get up and go pretty adventurous. I love all types of music! I'd like to find a guy that has a good heart, faithful, honest, has their self together, likes to have some fun!! I only wish there were relationships that last like the good old days! I tend to be more attracted to darker skin & hair....hispanic indian italian but not to dark! I put that on here that way nobody wastes their time! Nothing about being shallow it's about knowing what I like & want;)Also, it's easy for a guy to say I'm a nice guy but hey I'm from the Show Me State soooo you got to show me;) I'd rather you say your an ***hole if that's really what you are just don't say your nice and end up being an ass!And if you don't wanna talk/text don't be scared to say I'm pretty straight up and not into games don't have time to try and read someones mind! And for you guys that say you don't want the drama wow I have found that thru this site guys just maybe alittle more drama than the girls! Know what you want and say what you mean! I don't ahve time to beat around the bush or play guessing games!Also, if your on probation or jobless or don't have any teeth I'd rather you not contact me! I would say that probably depends on the vibe your feeling! I do not go to clubs. I did all that when I was younger and smelling like an asstray isn't very appealing for me! Going out for dinner or even cooking a meal together would be nice and a movie

  • Roseanna

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Well you have evidentially clicked on here to read a little about me, but let me warn ya it is not that exciting. lol I have been divorced since ***. I have 4 children, 19, 13, 11, 9. I completed my LPN this past summer and am continuing on to try my best to successfully complete my RN in May. I would be lying if I said that I didn't hope that one day I could wake up and everything be so different. That I would have found a connection with someone who I can call my best friend. The person who makes me laugh no matter what is going on. The person that you just cant wait to be in the same room with. The person who says what they mean and means what they say. A man that doesn't blow smoke up my *** like has been done so many times.... I am not an intimate encounter so don't bother messaging me if that is what your looking for. I love everything about the country life.. lived in town for awhile but never again. lol.... the only advantage was pizza delivery but that was about it :) I am a simple girl. Wining and dining once in awhile is okay, but the romantic stuff is the simple stuff.A good solid relationship is based on a good solid friendship that starts first and grows from there. This is not where I ever planned to discuss my life or meet someone. Its just that im not a girl who will sit at a bar and listen to all the ridiculous lines of crap. Well I may listen while rolling my eyes at them as I walk away lol. I am not much of a drinker but I sometimes will have a couple if im out with my friends. I love socializing and can talk to about anyone. If you message me and I simply say that its probably not the best match, please don't get offended we all know what we are looking for. It will somewhat bother me to tell you that just because I don't want to come across as a ***** cause I am far from that. Ill still wish you luck. I will have to say that trusting a man is gonna be a huge challenge for me... I have yet to meet one who hasn't lied, cheated, or went back to the ex behind my back. Every time I swear men off, somewhere in me still wants what some are so lucky to find. I want to sit on the porch swing with the love of my life and still feel that way 50 years from now. Im an old fashioned kind of girl looking for the old school love I guess :) So we will see what happens here. Maybe dinner, but somewhere we could talk or whatever we agree on would work for that time. :)

  • Janna

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm easy going, honest, simple and kind. Enjoy disc golfing, road trips, art festivals, craft beer, and college football...GO BLUE! It is important that you have a sense of humor. I can find the humor in almost anything and love to laugh. I love music...all kinds. A great beer or coffee would be a start.

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