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Tami, 42

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About Me

After having been divorced for over six years now, I have found that dating at this age is a challenge. We all have so many things in our lives that we cannot change and it is difficult to find someone who fits into our lives. First and foremost, I am a mother to three talented and wonderful children, two girls, ages 16 and 15 and a boy, 13. They are a huge part of my life and I have them most of the time. So, someone who is family oriented and someone who understands that my children come first is a must.I am an honest, attractive, succesful woman who is very happy with her life, but would love to share it with someone. I am a pretty take-charge person and I know what I want and what I don't want. I am warm, affectionate, and enjoy most anything if it's with the right person. I am very direct and don't mind discussing issues that may arise while getting to know someone. I think communication is essential to a healthy, respectful relationship. If you are not looking to eventually form a relationship, then do not contact me.I own two dance studios and have owned the one for eleven years now. I love what I do and am very passionate about it. I feel very fortunate to be making a living doing what I love.I am looking for someone who is attractive, intelligent, family-oriented, and motivated. I would like a man who is able to communicate what he wants and desires and is able to actually get close to someone. I do not want someone who is looking for a one night stand or a "friends with benefits" relationship. I also do not need extra friends to chat with online, so unless you are interested in actually meeting one day, please don't bother contacting me. I've just spent too much time chatting online, only to find when we meet, there is no connection. The only true way to know is to meet. I really don't like games and want someone who is direct and honest. Though I am a take charge person, I still like to be treated like a lady and love it when a man actually makes an effort to impress. Though appearance is not everything, it is important that the person I am with takes care of themselves and is motivated. I do not tolerated laziness and apathy very well.I would love to meet you if you think these qualities describe you. Send me an e-mail and we can go from there! Something that is quiet where we can take time to talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Flora

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Trying again ... I am a good-hearted woman that seeks the same in a man. I would like to be a priority in someone's life rather than an after-thought. I enjoy a wide variety of things such as walking, taking long drives, traveling, playing sports as well as attending them, gardening, going to the symphony, and cuddling on the couch watching a movie. I'm pretty low-key and definitely low-maintenance. As for music, I enjoy just about everything.I'm pretty much an open book. If you want to know something, just ask me (please keep it PG and under). In a relationship, I must have respect, common courtesty, honesty, trust, and open communication. If you can't give that to me, then please don't waste my time.Finally, guys...if you can't take a picture without your sunglasses on, then how am I to see your eyes? You could look like CeeLo Green underneath those things. Can't take that chance. Also, please stop taking pictures of yourself in the restroom. I'm sure you could find someone to take the picture for you. Just an fyi...I'm a pretty flexible person and non-judgemental, but if all your photos are of you holding something dead and that's your passion, I'm not for you. ***UPDATE*** If one of your profile pictures is of your dog doing its business, please move on. Seriously!***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. I reserve all rights under UCC***without prejudice. *** It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.*** For a first date/meeting, I like to keep it low key/low pressure. We could meet for a drink, or maybe in a park and just go for a walk. We can talk and really get to know the other person on a more personal level. You really can't tell how you'll click with someone until you do it in person.

  • Dessie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hoping to find a "great catch" - -someone who makes me laugh, smile and have fun no matter what setting we are in. My ideal match should be smart, have a great sense of humor, and be stable in their career. My ultimate goal is to meet someone tall, preferably dark & larger build. I like the simple things in life: spending time in the sun & being near the water, traveling to any place warm and tropical...There is nothing better than watching an awesome sunset! I also enjoy small "dive" bars, comedy clubs, live shows/theater/entertainment, shopping, hanging out with friends and family, or drinks around a campfire. As for music, I like almost anything - Top 40, country, reggae and jazz. A great first date could be meeting for lunch/dinner/or drinks, a park, or anywhere we can talk and get to know each other.

  • Shalonda

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    ACTIVITIES: Spending time with family and friends; BBQs; watching Cardinals baseball or Mizzou football; I'm a Packers fan -; Listening to live music at Sky, Trainwreck, Side Bar, BB's, Beale, or ***; going to a winery on a beautiful day;; watching a movie; bon fires and star gazing; cooking together or dining out; travelingMUSIC: Blues, Classic Rock, 80s, Pop; STL SymphonyFOOD: Steak, BBQ, Sushi, Italian, Mexican, Indian, Chinese. Chocolate is my absolute favorite! ME: I'm fun, honest, trustworthy, and a true sweetheart. I enjoy all kinds of things. It mostly depends on the person, rather than the activity. I would like to meet someone who is positively enjoyable to be around and likes to laugh. ~ Someday I really do want my Happily Ever After ending. I'm interested in dating & having fun without any pressure or assumptions. If it happens, it happens. :)MY DATE: I'm looking for a genuine, caring man who wants to share the adventures ahead and chooses to see the positIve in situations. He is sincere, has integrity, and values honesty. He enjoys talking about a variety of topics and has a sense of humor. Confidence is sexy; arrogance is not. I want a passionate man, one who is family-oriented and focused. I enjoy being treated like a lady. Affection and intimacy are VERY important to me. I'm looking for the kind of love that is unmistakable; you feel it with just a look from across a crowded room or a touch. We have the kind of closeness in which we are totally into each other, and yet supportive of each other's individuality. Thanks for reading this far. I wish you much happiness and love. KEEP IT SIMPLE AND FUN! Lots of fun! Don't tell me all your ex-drama on the first date. Keep it light and flirty, with lots of eye contact. The right man can make me blush just through eye contact. Let's meet for either coffee or drinks, appetizers or dinner. It's nice to talk and get to know each other. I'm also up for a game at a sports pub. I'm not afraid to eat bbq ribs or hot wings on a first date while wearing a white jacket, but please tell me if I have something on my face! LOL BY THE WAY: A simple kiss goodnight is fine IF we're both feeling it, but Mr SixHands&Tongue is not appropriate on the first few dates. It's sad that I even mention this, but I've had to push men off of me. Please, only gentlemen need apply! BEST QUOTES I'VE SEEN ON HERE LATELY: "A great first date isn't about an arousal - it's about an awakening!" "Distance is a mere thin line between two hearts. True love will find its way, even blindfolded.""THE KISS is a deliberate action. You can tell a lot by the way a person kisses you or by the way they respond to yours. You can express gentle affection, playful closeness, ecstatic joy, or even just plain old desire. So many things can be relayed without words through the kiss.""Life is short. Break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably and never regret anything that makes you smile""Eve was not taken out of Adam's head to top him, neither out of his feet to be trampled on by him, but out of his side to be equal with him, under his arm to be protected by him, and near his heart to be loved by him."QUESTION OF THE MONTH: Integrity: Do your actions match your words, and do you keep your word? OLD QUESTIONS OF THE MONTH: Do you prefer tequila, vodka, or rum? If none, then what?College football or pro football? How do you show chivalry on a date? What ever happened to good, old-fashioned communication when people actually spoke to each other in the moment, either in person or via telephone? (When you could see or hear his/her reaction or expression before he/she composed a response and you had a better feel for who someone was, rather than what he/she presented in a text or ***': Thank Goodness for densely populated regions of educated people.

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