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Tami, 42
United States, Minnesota, Zimmerman

Offline, last seen Mon, 27 Apr 2026 13:49:11

About Me

After having been divorced for over six years now, I have found that dating at this age is a challenge. We all have so many things in our lives that we cannot change and it is difficult to find someone who fits into our lives. First and foremost, I am a mother to three talented and wonderful children, two girls, ages 16 and 15 and a boy, 13. They are a huge part of my life and I have them most of the time. So, someone who is family oriented and someone who understands that my children come first is a must.I am an honest, attractive, succesful woman who is very happy with her life, but would love to share it with someone. I am a pretty take-charge person and I know what I want and what I don't want. I am warm, affectionate, and enjoy most anything if it's with the right person. I am very direct and don't mind discussing issues that may arise while getting to know someone. I think communication is essential to a healthy, respectful relationship. If you are not looking to eventually form a relationship, then do not contact me.I own two dance studios and have owned the one for eleven years now. I love what I do and am very passionate about it. I feel very fortunate to be making a living doing what I love.I am looking for someone who is attractive, intelligent, family-oriented, and motivated. I would like a man who is able to communicate what he wants and desires and is able to actually get close to someone. I do not want someone who is looking for a one night stand or a "friends with benefits" relationship. I also do not need extra friends to chat with online, so unless you are interested in actually meeting one day, please don't bother contacting me. I've just spent too much time chatting online, only to find when we meet, there is no connection. The only true way to know is to meet. I really don't like games and want someone who is direct and honest. Though I am a take charge person, I still like to be treated like a lady and love it when a man actually makes an effort to impress. Though appearance is not everything, it is important that the person I am with takes care of themselves and is motivated. I do not tolerated laziness and apathy very well.I would love to meet you if you think these qualities describe you. Send me an e-mail and we can go from there! Something that is quiet where we can take time to talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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