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Alysha, 41

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About Me

"I don't want to be his entire world....just his favorite part."For me, being in a relationship is not about being completely consumed by another...it's about maintaining your individual lives & everything that interests you...while sharing all of it, the good & bad, with another. It's not about spending ***together, giving up friends, breaking important routines or pretty much neglecting everything that has been your life up until that point. It's about still hitting happy hour with friends, but making time for him after. It's about surprise texts...just because. It's about spending time together...but also spending time apart. Above all...it's not about molding someone into your idea of perfection. Take me, faults & all...or leave me. Be with someone for all they are....& in despite of all they're not. And I'm not a hypocrite....I believe this as much for myself as I do for the guy I'm involved with. Never lose yourself to anyone!As far as I'm concerned, honesty & trust are by far the most important qualities...& are my best attributes. I am an extremely loyal, completely trustworthy person....& require the same of anyone I let into my life. I am affectionate, sensitive, considerate, love to smile, generous, laid back, & equally comfortable at a club or cuddled on the couch. I am not jealous by any stretch of the imagination....& it's not something I can tolerate in a relationship. Jealousy is not an indication that someone cares about you....it's an indication that they are insecure or do not trust you.Looks are not everything....but they do matter. Initial attraction is what sparks your interest. My look may not be what attracts everyone...& I'm not offended by that. People are attracted to all different types...& what is beautiful to one...is not to another....don't take it personally. That being said, looks only take things so far...there has to be a compatible personality to maintain the interest.Family is extremely important...& I'm very close to mine...they are truly a priority in my life. I absolutely love the beach...probably my favorite place in the world. Little things usually make me happier than grand gestures. I could watch fireworks or blow bubbles for hours. You will find me barefoot every opportunity I get. I do not believe in doing anything out of obligation. As a very open-minded, accepting person, I have little tolerance for judgmental, prejudice, opinionated people. Worry about yourself....let everyone else be themselves. If you don't believe in something...don't do it...it really is that simple.I have plenty of faults...; *** obnoxiously.I'm looking to spend time with someone who makes me happier far more than not. I am a completely independent person....I do not need to be with someone...but I would love to find someone I want to be with.Not sure what will come of this....but you miss out on all of the opportunities you don't take...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ednah

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a very outgoing woman who will do just about anything once. I love to be outdoors, in the sun, or in the rain. Going to the beach is my most favorite thing to do. Listening to the waves and reading a good book......aaaahhhhh..... I enjoy going camping, as well as fishing. My son plays baseball and football, and my daughter does cheerleading.I am a very caring person. I am always taking care of someone or someone’s problem . I love to be a care taker. I would give up my own space if it meant I was helping a friend. I tend to put myself out due to being nice. I am also very neat and clean. I enjoy making a clean home. It feels good at the end of the day, to come home to smell goods and a smile….i like to cook also. It makes me happy to see a table full of food and good friends and family!I enjoy country music very much.I like to go where we i can line dance. I always have country music on in my car and my iPod. But from being around my children, I also know most of the hit list. I grew up on old rock and country. I remember having some big, black headphones on, listening to Johnny Cash….Music has many feelings....My goal in life is to be happy where I am in life when my children grow up and move away. I want to be with a friend, partner, companion, lover, husband, etc... I am very spontaneous so I know I need someone who wants to go with me...I take pride in doing for my man. I like to make someone smile and usually it's the little things that make the biggest impact. It's wonderful to wake up to a little lipstick note on the bathroom mirror....Good Morning Beautiful goes a long way...I am not looking for a one nighter, so if that's what you want, please do not waste either of our time!!!!Update::::: so this online dating is just as hard as going out and meeting someone. I have been single, 100% alone...But during that time alone, I found God. I now attend church on a regular basis. I serve in the children's ministry day care in the morning on Sunday. I absolutely love my new life...Now I am hoping to happen across the man God has saved for me..... ***A first date could be anywhere as long as there is good conversation and lots of laughter!!!!

  • Rahel

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hi there! Well, here it goes. I am the owner of PymatuningCrafts and that keeps me pretty busy but I always try and give myself the weekends off. I have a master's degree in criminology but owning my own business has always been a dream of mine. When I'm not working, I'm either at home curled up on the couch in front of the wood burner, gardening, on the back of a harley, or at my local watering hole hanging out with my friends. My friends and family mean everything to me. I have one adult daughter that I am so very proud of. When it comes to my sense of humor.....well, I'm a loon. I'm all Irish and an only child, and grew up in the sticks where my best friends were a pack of boys. So, make me laugh, and I'm I'm all yours. I love horror movies, 80's hair bands and I dress up like Gene Simmons from KISS every halloween. Like my headline, I want to laugh!!!! I want to be happy and comfortable with someone I can totally trust.

  • Amal

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a single mother of 3 wonderful children. I like to laugh and have fun with my family and friends. I am looking for a man who can laugh at himself and enjoys life. I am the type of person that likes to hang out at home and play video games with my kids or go to an amusement park and ride roller coasters. In the end I am looking for my best friend, someone that shares my interests. Whatever we decide to do, dinner and a nice conversation.

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